I am 25 years old and last week I finished my breast cancer treatments. I had 6 months of chemo followed by surgery and then finished with 6 weeks of radiation. For as bad as the treatments were with the side-effects, it was a safe-place for me. Now that I am done with all of my treatments, I am living in fear. I cannot help but wonder every day if it is going to come back. I know that because I am so young, I have been told that recurrance is more common in young women. I don't ever want to have go through this again. This has been such a tough road for me. I lost more friends than the ones who actually stayed around. I get pitty parties from people when I just want to be treated normally. I am the same person I was before I had cancer, but now people just see me as the 25 year old girl with cancer. I am tired of crying at night and being scared all the time when I get an ache in my body that it might be the cancer. Does anyone have any tips on how to "live with cancer?" Does it get any easier? How can I get these fears out of the front of my head? I know this seems like a lot of questions, but I was just wondering if anyone had any insight on this. Thank you for taking the time to read this and possibly give me some imput. Good Luck to everyone out there!!