My Ian

My bravest strongest man Ian passed away on the 27th August to this terrible disease, he was taken from me far too young, I hometown him when I was 17 and he was 18, we met 38 years ago today. I have had the best of life with him and he loved me very very much, we had 2 lovely daughters and 3 grandchilren. I'm so so angry, I miss him so much, why us???? He tried for 3 years to fight and gave his very best every day, the chemo made him so poorly, he never complained or moaned once, he worked all the way through, only gave up 5 weeks before he died. Ian if you can hear me pet I love you with all my heart, and never ever wanted to be without you life is so cruel . 

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  • lp1964
    lp1964 Member Posts: 1,239 Member
    Dear Friend,

    What can one say in a situation like this, but to say we are sorry for your loss. We ask ourselves questions that cannot be answered . Why we, why now, why so soon? This pain only can be eased by time and we have to go through the process. Can't rush it.

    Just like the way he did, work through the pain and the tough times, celebrate the wonderful things and memories you and your family had and build the future without him on that.

    I wish you and your kids the strength to work through this and to be able to honor his life by all of you living a wonderful, healthy  life.

    Laz

  • jasminsaba
    jasminsaba Member Posts: 157 Member
    Sorry ...

    words don't suffice ... but I want you to know that I am very sorry for your loss and pray for your strength during this very difficult time. You were blessed to have had each other and he will continue to live in your heart.

     

  • LivinginNH
    LivinginNH Member Posts: 1,456 Member
    My heart just breaks for you,

    My heart just breaks for you, I'm so very sorry...

    My condolences,

    Cynthia

     :'(

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member
    So very sorry

    Such a tragic loss for you and your family. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. 

  • geotina
    geotina Member Posts: 2,111 Member
    Belindahill:

    Please accept my condolences on the loss of your Ian.  I also lost my husband after a 3 1/2 year battle.  It is so very difficult. 

    With deepest sympathy - Tina

     

  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties Member Posts: 3,364 Member
    Sicere condolances

    I am so very sorry to hear that you have lost your loving hubby.

    May you and all who loved him find some ease of the loss by remembering the wonderful man he was and the good times together.

    Marie who loves kitties

  • Chelsea71
    Chelsea71 Member Posts: 1,169 Member
    I am so sorry.  I, too, lost

    I am so sorry.  I, too, lost my husband one month ago.  If you ever want to chat please send me a pm.  I bet he was a really great guy.

     

    My condolences,

    Chelsea

  • LivinginNH
    LivinginNH Member Posts: 1,456 Member
    Please feel free to send me a

    Please feel free to send me a PM if you want to talk.

  • Cathleen Mary
    Cathleen Mary Member Posts: 827 Member
    Chelsea71 said:

    I am so sorry.  I, too, lost

    I am so sorry.  I, too, lost my husband one month ago.  If you ever want to chat please send me a pm.  I bet he was a really great guy.

     

    My condolences,

    Chelsea

     
    I am so sorry to hear of

     

    I am so sorry to hear of Ian's death.  My heart aches for you and your family. Your every post showed your love for him both as his wife and caregiver. I pray that your emptiness will be eased by peace and knowing what an amazing love you had.  Nothing can take that from you. 

    Hugs,

    Cathleen Mary

  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member

     
    I am so sorry to hear of

     

    I am so sorry to hear of Ian's death.  My heart aches for you and your family. Your every post showed your love for him both as his wife and caregiver. I pray that your emptiness will be eased by peace and knowing what an amazing love you had.  Nothing can take that from you. 

    Hugs,

    Cathleen Mary

    so so sorry

    oh I am so so very sorry to hear this news.  Your love does indeed shine through and always did...your incredible fight together against this ghastly disease.....

    I send you deepest love.....and pray for strength for you and your family

    mags

  • jen2012
    jen2012 Member Posts: 1,607 Member
    condolences
    I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts ans prayers are with you.
  • UncleBuddy
    UncleBuddy Member Posts: 1,019 Member
    :(

    I am so sorry for your loss!

  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    belindahill

    I am so very sorry.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  I know Ian meant the world to you.

     

    Aloha,

    Kathleen

  • Semira
    Semira Member Posts: 381 Member
    there are no words....

    ... so just a silent hug from germany

    sending you strength

    Petra

  • Luckygirl2
    Luckygirl2 Member Posts: 308
    Prayers
    And thoughts to you and your family.
  • janderson1964
    janderson1964 Member Posts: 2,215 Member
    I am so sorry for your loss.

    I am so sorry for your loss.

  • thingy45
    thingy45 Member Posts: 632 Member

    I am so sorry for your loss.

    I am so sorry for your loss.

    Do very sorry

    So very sorry that Ian lost his fight. It is not easy to pick up the pieces and move on, I wish you strength.

    cherish your memories,

    hugs Marjan

  • annalexandria
    annalexandria Member Posts: 2,571 Member
    I am so terribly sorry.

    My heart hurts for you, and for Ian.

    Sending love your way~AA

  • toyfox
    toyfox Member Posts: 158 Member
    So Sorry

    So sorry for your loss.

    It just breaks my heart every time I read of another
    loss from this terrible disease.

    Linda

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    Sorry

    I'm so sorry for your loss.  He was lucky to have you as his caregiver.  My sympathies to you and your family.

    Kim