Some prayers for my friend, please

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  • jazzy1
    jazzy1 Member Posts: 1,379

    Update
    Things have not been going well for Mary. She has been hospitalized for over a week with congestive heart failure and clots in lungs. She is going home on hospice care. Cancer is now in her lungs and liver and once again, it's smarter than the chemo. She has had so many complications, so much progression, and all in such a short time. She was diagnosed only a year ago. This is such a shock to everyone. I think we'd all accepted that she wouldn't beat this, but we did expect some response to something instead of only one thing after another. She did have CARIS testing and was on a Doxil which was supposed to be effective. Not.

    My friend and I have the quilt top pieced now and it's off to the quilter on Thursday and it will be ready Friday. Then we just have to sew on the binding and embroider her label and attach it. She should be able to gift it to her son and fiancee early next week if all goes well.

    Once again I ask for prayers for Mary.

    Thank you all,
    Suzanne

    Suzanne
    Unfortunate to read about the downhill spiral for your dear friend Mary. All one can do is try to beat this devil and win, but as we all know we have no control.

    You're such a wonderful friend to assist with the quilting and be close to her during her extremely difficult times. She will always remember you for this and you can feel at ease that you helped comfort her.

    Mary's in my prayers for support, strength and peace!!!

    Jan
  • HellieC
    HellieC Member Posts: 524 Member

    Update
    Things have not been going well for Mary. She has been hospitalized for over a week with congestive heart failure and clots in lungs. She is going home on hospice care. Cancer is now in her lungs and liver and once again, it's smarter than the chemo. She has had so many complications, so much progression, and all in such a short time. She was diagnosed only a year ago. This is such a shock to everyone. I think we'd all accepted that she wouldn't beat this, but we did expect some response to something instead of only one thing after another. She did have CARIS testing and was on a Doxil which was supposed to be effective. Not.

    My friend and I have the quilt top pieced now and it's off to the quilter on Thursday and it will be ready Friday. Then we just have to sew on the binding and embroider her label and attach it. She should be able to gift it to her son and fiancee early next week if all goes well.

    Once again I ask for prayers for Mary.

    Thank you all,
    Suzanne

    Oh Suzanne, it is so hard
    Oh Suzanne, it is so hard to watch a loved one battle against this vicious disease. You are a true friend to Mary - she could not ask for more love or support. To finish the quilt for her to give to her son will mean so much to her - I can think of no lovlier and more poignant gift.
    Best wishes, Suzanne. I will remember Mary in my prayers.
    Helen xx
  • LaurelWillow
    LaurelWillow Member Posts: 13

    Update
    Things have not been going well for Mary. She has been hospitalized for over a week with congestive heart failure and clots in lungs. She is going home on hospice care. Cancer is now in her lungs and liver and once again, it's smarter than the chemo. She has had so many complications, so much progression, and all in such a short time. She was diagnosed only a year ago. This is such a shock to everyone. I think we'd all accepted that she wouldn't beat this, but we did expect some response to something instead of only one thing after another. She did have CARIS testing and was on a Doxil which was supposed to be effective. Not.

    My friend and I have the quilt top pieced now and it's off to the quilter on Thursday and it will be ready Friday. Then we just have to sew on the binding and embroider her label and attach it. She should be able to gift it to her son and fiancee early next week if all goes well.

    Once again I ask for prayers for Mary.

    Thank you all,
    Suzanne

    Mary
    Your helping to make the quilt a reality will bring peace to Mary. I am so sorry that she has suffered so much and that her medical team has been less than stellar. I hope that she passes without a great deal of pain.

    What did her shoulder biopsy reveal?

    All best to you.
  • snowbird_11
    snowbird_11 Member Posts: 160

    Update
    Things have not been going well for Mary. She has been hospitalized for over a week with congestive heart failure and clots in lungs. She is going home on hospice care. Cancer is now in her lungs and liver and once again, it's smarter than the chemo. She has had so many complications, so much progression, and all in such a short time. She was diagnosed only a year ago. This is such a shock to everyone. I think we'd all accepted that she wouldn't beat this, but we did expect some response to something instead of only one thing after another. She did have CARIS testing and was on a Doxil which was supposed to be effective. Not.

    My friend and I have the quilt top pieced now and it's off to the quilter on Thursday and it will be ready Friday. Then we just have to sew on the binding and embroider her label and attach it. She should be able to gift it to her son and fiancee early next week if all goes well.

    Once again I ask for prayers for Mary.

    Thank you all,
    Suzanne

    My thoughts and prayers go
    My thoughts and prayers go to your friend that she may be kept comfortable and and pain free. That some of those with apparently the same cancer show little or no response to treatments is so very distressing.

    A few weeks back I attended a memorial service for poster strongformom's mother whom I had met at a local support group. She was diagnosed only last summer and her cancer never responded to the various chemos despite indications of being appropriate via Caris testing. She had been such a vibrant lady yet the cancer did not care.

    It is such a wonderful gesture you and friends have made with the quilt project. What a lovely last memory for her to have. You are such a good friend!

    Sending caring thoughts and prayers for Mary.
    Annie
  • Double Whammy
    Double Whammy Member Posts: 2,832 Member

    My thoughts and prayers go
    My thoughts and prayers go to your friend that she may be kept comfortable and and pain free. That some of those with apparently the same cancer show little or no response to treatments is so very distressing.

    A few weeks back I attended a memorial service for poster strongformom's mother whom I had met at a local support group. She was diagnosed only last summer and her cancer never responded to the various chemos despite indications of being appropriate via Caris testing. She had been such a vibrant lady yet the cancer did not care.

    It is such a wonderful gesture you and friends have made with the quilt project. What a lovely last memory for her to have. You are such a good friend!

    Sending caring thoughts and prayers for Mary.
    Annie

    Mary
    Mary passed away early this afternoon. Thank you all so much for your prayers and support of both her, who you don't know, and me, who you do. My heart is broken but it has also been enriched by her friendship.

    Suzanne
  • sunflash
    sunflash Member Posts: 197 Member

    Mary
    Mary passed away early this afternoon. Thank you all so much for your prayers and support of both her, who you don't know, and me, who you do. My heart is broken but it has also been enriched by her friendship.

    Suzanne

    I'm so sorry for your loss,
    I'm so sorry for your loss, Suzanne. It's so hard to let go of those we love. I know she felt your love....and gained peace from that. Hang on to your memories. Friends like this will live on forever in your heart.
    God bless you and her family.
  • Kaleena
    Kaleena Member Posts: 2,088 Member

    Mary
    Mary passed away early this afternoon. Thank you all so much for your prayers and support of both her, who you don't know, and me, who you do. My heart is broken but it has also been enriched by her friendship.

    Suzanne

    Suzanne:
    I am sorry for your

    Suzanne:

    I am sorry for your loss. Sending comforting thoughts and hugs to you. I am glad you were blessed with her friendship. (((Suzanne)))

    Kathy
  • Ro10
    Ro10 Member Posts: 1,561 Member

    Mary
    Mary passed away early this afternoon. Thank you all so much for your prayers and support of both her, who you don't know, and me, who you do. My heart is broken but it has also been enriched by her friendship.

    Suzanne

    Suzanne, my sympathy to you
    I am so sorry to hear about Mary. I hope she had comfort at the end. Sending hugs to you. Finishing her quilt was quite a gift of friendship. In peace and caring.
  • daisy366
    daisy366 Member Posts: 1,458 Member
    Ro10 said:

    Suzanne, my sympathy to you
    I am so sorry to hear about Mary. I hope she had comfort at the end. Sending hugs to you. Finishing her quilt was quite a gift of friendship. In peace and caring.

    Suzanne
    My condolences to you and Mary's family on your loss. You gave her the cherished gifts of your love and friendship.

    I'm so sorry. With prayers for peace, Mary Ann
  • fanniemay
    fanniemay Member Posts: 53
    daisy366 said:

    Suzanne
    My condolences to you and Mary's family on your loss. You gave her the cherished gifts of your love and friendship.

    I'm so sorry. With prayers for peace, Mary Ann

    Mary
    Suzanne,So sorry for your loss. Sounds like she had a lot to deal with at the end. THe human, frail body can only take so much. I am sure she was at peace. You were a good friend. God BLess the family of Mary
  • light42day
    light42day Member Posts: 62 Member
    fanniemay said:

    Mary
    Suzanne,So sorry for your loss. Sounds like she had a lot to deal with at the end. THe human, frail body can only take so much. I am sure she was at peace. You were a good friend. God BLess the family of Mary

    mary
    I'm so sorry to hear that Mary passed away. She was blessed to have a dear friend like you. That quilt you finished for her will always be cherished last gift for her family. I pray for peace and comfort for you and her famliy during this time of loss.
  • jazzy1
    jazzy1 Member Posts: 1,379

    mary
    I'm so sorry to hear that Mary passed away. She was blessed to have a dear friend like you. That quilt you finished for her will always be cherished last gift for her family. I pray for peace and comfort for you and her famliy during this time of loss.

    Suzanne
    I'm deeply saddened by Mary's passing. Remember her caring and sharing ways and cherish the time you shared with her.

    Peace be with you and her family during your mourning.....
    Jan