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Jun 10, 2016 - 1:46 am
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Jun 10, 2016 - 3:26 pm
I'm really sorry you are going through this. I really don't have anything to share that will make you feel better. It is good you reached out here. Keep reaching out and see if you can find a support group or talk to a therapist. I can assure you, your Mom won't miss any of your big life events. She is still with you in spirit. I'm sorry she is not here physically though. Cry a lot. There is no easy way out of this. I don't know if you will ever get over it. It will get easier in time I think. Big cyber hug coming your way. Be gentle with yourself. :( |
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Jun 28, 2016 - 7:55 pm
CrayJay, I hope you are still coming to the site. You are right, it sucks. I'm sorry. I hope your venting got some of your feelings out. I hope you find an outlet to continue to get your feelings out. You had a lot happen and cheatinlil probably did a better job at giving you insight. It does sound like your mom raised a pretty terrific young person and someday someone is going to be very fortunate to have you in thier life because of her. God bless you. |
Jul 15, 2016 - 11:41 am
CrayJay, So very sorry for the loss of your mom. It does suck really bad. I don't know of anything that hurts more than losing a loved one. Like the others have said, it sounds like your mom did a fantastic job of raising you and she'll always be there with you through every big moment in spirit. I know this may sound strange, but you actually very fortunate that you had 18 years with your mom. She managed to battle this horrible disease for 16 years and was able to be there for you. Cherish those memories. My dad passed away from cancer 3 days after my daughters birthday, 15 days before my birthday and just over a month before Christmas so I understand what you're going through. It sucks, it hurts but in time it won't hurt as much and will get better and peace will come in time. Be kind to yourself and don't be sorry for the need to rant.
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How did you do it?