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Positive thoughts for all of you

mrs_blkjak's picture
Posts: 103
Joined: Apr 2013

I haven't been back for a bit and thought I'd check in on all of you. I'm so glad to see so many of you doing well and so sad to see so many new faces. My warmest thoughts and prayers are with all of you. 

I wanted to to share with all of you the philosophy that blkjak and I lived with throughout his journey as i see so many of you struggling with having this serious diagnosis hanging over you. All of you deserve to enjoy your lives and the people in it. Focus on life and happiness. Live. Do the things you enjoy and spend time with those you love. We always said that we were going to "live until we didn't" and that's just what we did. And my kids and I continue to do this. Please try hard not to let fear take life and joy from you. 

Im not always sure that I should post here as I don't have a positive story to share. But I do really care and think about all of you. And I am always willing to be a support to any of you. Warmest regards,



sblairc's picture
Posts: 586
Joined: Feb 2014

What lovely words. They are very heart felt and hit home for me today. Thanks for that!

Jojo61's picture
Posts: 1310
Joined: Oct 2013

Nice to see you again, Mrs. Blakjak! I, for one, am always happy to read your posts.

I would like to argue your point regarding you not reflecting a positive story...your story revealed to us nothing but love, support, caring, and a wonderful attitude. So please, don't ever question if you should post here. You are always welcome!



Posts: 482
Joined: Dec 2013

great message and as long as it is not painful for you to come here, I (for one) am glad that you are considering it.

your message is very thoughtful and very generous.

Thank you,


Allochka's picture
Posts: 894
Joined: Nov 2014

Thank you very much for this message!

I'm new here, but I've read older posts and I know your story. It is amazed with your strength and positive attitude. That is why I do not agree that you don't have a positive story to share - yours is positive in a way that it proves to us caregivers that life goes on no matter what, and even after the greatest blows we can survive and still continue to live to the fullest.

I'm sure you have happiness and joy of life ahead of you, after all the pain subsides!

Thanky you very much for this post.

Djinnie's picture
Posts: 945
Joined: Apr 2013

Hi Mrs B, how are you doing? It is always good to see you on here offering sound advice to others. I so agree with your phylosophy, life and loved ones are too precious to focus on anything else but. Hope to see you back again soon:)

Djinnie x

Jan4you's picture
Posts: 1325
Joined: Oct 2013

Wow! Mrs Blkjak, how sweet of you to post such a kind and lovely message!

How could we forget YOu and your hubby! Glad to see you again.

Know that we're here for you as well.

Hugs, Jan

angec's picture
Posts: 924
Joined: Mar 2012

Hey Mrs. B... so good to see you come back and visit. Missed you! What have you been up to? You have a wealth of experiece to share with others, your words are very valuable! You are family here!  Hope you and the kids are continuing on as best you can and continue to live and enjoy life!  Mr. B would have wanted that!  Thanks so much for your kind words.  Big hugs!!

danbren2's picture
Posts: 311
Joined: May 2013

Mrs. B,

     So nice to have you back! I have missed your lovely thoughts and comments, always such strong words of wisdom and support! Your post have always brought a ray of hope and sunshine to me.  Thank you and please continue posting!

                                               Prayers for good health!


Darron's picture
Posts: 310
Joined: Jun 2013

Great to hear from you. I agree 100% with the good advice. You are always welcome to post and support!

Hope you are well

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