Positive thoughts for all of you

mrs_blkjak
mrs_blkjak Member Posts: 103
in Kidney Cancer #1

I haven't been back for a bit and thought I'd check in on all of you. I'm so glad to see so many of you doing well and so sad to see so many new faces. My warmest thoughts and prayers are with all of you. 

I wanted to to share with all of you the philosophy that blkjak and I lived with throughout his journey as i see so many of you struggling with having this serious diagnosis hanging over you. All of you deserve to enjoy your lives and the people in it. Focus on life and happiness. Live. Do the things you enjoy and spend time with those you love. We always said that we were going to "live until we didn't" and that's just what we did. And my kids and I continue to do this. Please try hard not to let fear take life and joy from you. 

Im not always sure that I should post here as I don't have a positive story to share. But I do really care and think about all of you. And I am always willing to be a support to any of you. Warmest regards,

 

me

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  • sblairc
    sblairc Member Posts: 585 Member
    #2
    Hello!

    What lovely words. They are very heart felt and hit home for me today. Thanks for that!

  • Jojo61
    Jojo61 Member Posts: 1,309 Member
    #3
    Nice to see you again, Mrs.

    Nice to see you again, Mrs. Blakjak! I, for one, am always happy to read your posts.

    I would like to argue your point regarding you not reflecting a positive story...your story revealed to us nothing but love, support, caring, and a wonderful attitude. So please, don't ever question if you should post here. You are always welcome!

    Hugs

    Jojo

  • Srashedb
    Srashedb Member Posts: 482 Member
    #4
    Wonderful

    great message and as long as it is not painful for you to come here, I (for one) am glad that you are considering it.

    your message is very thoughtful and very generous.

    Thank you,

    Sarah

  • Allochka
    Allochka Member Posts: 1,072 Member
    #5
    Srashedb said:

    Wonderful

    great message and as long as it is not painful for you to come here, I (for one) am glad that you are considering it.

    your message is very thoughtful and very generous.

    Thank you,

    Sarah

    Thank you very much for this

    Thank you very much for this message!

    I'm new here, but I've read older posts and I know your story. It is amazed with your strength and positive attitude. That is why I do not agree that you don't have a positive story to share - yours is positive in a way that it proves to us caregivers that life goes on no matter what, and even after the greatest blows we can survive and still continue to live to the fullest.

    I'm sure you have happiness and joy of life ahead of you, after all the pain subsides!

    Thanky you very much for this post.

  • Djinnie
    Djinnie Member Posts: 945 Member
    #6
    Nice to see you Mrs Blkjak!

    Hi Mrs B, how are you doing? It is always good to see you on here offering sound advice to others. I so agree with your phylosophy, life and loved ones are too precious to focus on anything else but. Hope to see you back again soon:)

    Djinnie x

  • Jan4you
    Jan4you Member Posts: 1,330 Member
    #7
    Djinnie said:

    Nice to see you Mrs Blkjak!

    Hi Mrs B, how are you doing? It is always good to see you on here offering sound advice to others. I so agree with your phylosophy, life and loved ones are too precious to focus on anything else but. Hope to see you back again soon:)

    Djinnie x

    Wow! Mrs Blkjak, how sweet of

    Wow! Mrs Blkjak, how sweet of you to post such a kind and lovely message!

    How could we forget YOu and your hubby! Glad to see you again.

    Know that we're here for you as well.

    Hugs, Jan

  • angec
    angec Member Posts: 924 Member
    #8
    Hey Mrs. B... so good to see

    Hey Mrs. B... so good to see you come back and visit. Missed you! What have you been up to? You have a wealth of experiece to share with others, your words are very valuable! You are family here!  Hope you and the kids are continuing on as best you can and continue to live and enjoy life!  Mr. B would have wanted that!  Thanks so much for your kind words.  Big hugs!!

  • danbren2
    danbren2 Member Posts: 311
    #9
    So nice to hear from you!

    Mrs. B,

         So nice to have you back! I have missed your lovely thoughts and comments, always such strong words of wisdom and support! Your post have always brought a ray of hope and sunshine to me.  Thank you and please continue posting!

                                                   Prayers for good health!

                                                   Brenda

  • Darron
    Darron Member Posts: 310 Member
    #10
    Always welcome here

    Great to hear from you. I agree 100% with the good advice. You are always welcome to post and support!

    Hope you are well

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