FINALLY!! Surgery Date Tomorrow!

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jss2011
jss2011 Member Posts: 132
Hi All,
Just wanted to let you know my hubby finally has a surgery date Thursday. This is 1 day shy of 10 weeks since finishing chemo.What a wait, and over the last week he has coughed up food a few times that has went down wrong, so this was too long to wait. This is all making me very anxious.
Would really appreciate some good thoughts and prayers.

Julie
wife of Nicholas
dx jun/11 T2N2M0
THE Jan 26/12....will be done laproscopic

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  • Tina Blondek
    Tina Blondek Member Posts: 1,500 Member
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    Congratulations on Surgery!
    Hi Julie and Nicholas welcome to our EC family. I was a caregiver for my dad, Ray. He passed in March 2010 from ec with mets to the liver. He was not able to have the surgery, so you husband being able to have surgery is wonderful. Surgery is the best way to get rid of the tumor. I will be thinking of you both tomorrow with positive thoughts and prayers. Keep in touch and let us know how he is doing.
    Tina in Va
  • JReed
    JReed Member Posts: 428
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    You certainly have our thoughts and prayers
    I can only imagine how anxious you are - you will be very busy and we will be waiting to hear how things are going for you two.

    Don has two more weeks of treatment and the surgery anxiety is already getting to me - trying to take it one day at a time.

    May God be with you, hubby and all the surgeons, nurses, and medical staff and ensure that you have a very successful surgery and speedy recovery.

    Mega hugs to you Julie -

    Judy & Don
  • GerryS
    GerryS Member Posts: 227 Member
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    You have my prayers..........
    Nicholas and Julie, you will be in my thoughts and prayers as you face surgery and recovery. I had my IL surgery in Mar 2010. I too was Stage II. Best to you and your family. God bless.......

    Gerry
    Stage IIN1M0
    IL Mar 2010
    NED 23 months
    Mayo,MN
  • TerryV
    TerryV Member Posts: 887
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    Thoughts & Prayers with you
    Julie!

    It's about time you and Nicholas were able to join the "post surgery" crowd! So glad that you've got surgery tomorrow. I know, it's an awful thing to be excited about, but that's our goal as EC caregivers. So Thumbs Up to you both!

    Bring something to keep your attention while you wait in the surgery lounge. Those are some long hours. I pray every bit of news you get tomorrow is positive. We can't wait to hear your update.

    Love & Hugs and lots and lots of positive thoughts & Prayers

    Terry
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  • sandy1943
    sandy1943 Member Posts: 824
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    My prayers are with you
    My prayers are with you today. It's always a releif to get it behind us and move on to the rest of our lives.
    Thinking of you both during this long day,
    Sandra
  • jss2011
    jss2011 Member Posts: 132
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    sandy1943 said:

    My prayers are with you
    My prayers are with you today. It's always a releif to get it behind us and move on to the rest of our lives.
    Thinking of you both during this long day,
    Sandra

    Surgery update
    Thank You all for the good words and prayers. It was a very long day, I am exhausted but need to unwind.
    The surgery went nice and smooth, Nicholas was nice and stable through the whole close to 5 hr op.
    They started with doing a biopsy on a few spots on the liver, good thing I didn't know that at the time! but no reason for alarm! The tumor was quite large...maybe the 10 wk wait had something to do with that ??!!But came out clean, he said everything looks good but expects path will find live ( active ) ..not sure what the word is, cancer cells which we thought anyway as the tumor was still there just smaller. The stomach pulled up easily, attaching went well, so all in all good, just get ready for more chemo!!
    Nicholas looks amazing for what he just went through, tubes everywhere and some swelling, but color and all great, so I feel much better. He even has his sense of humor!
    I know he is in pain but what a trooper!
    Maybe tonite I will sleep.

    Julie
  • Luvs24
    Luvs24 Member Posts: 75
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    jss2011 said:

    Surgery update
    Thank You all for the good words and prayers. It was a very long day, I am exhausted but need to unwind.
    The surgery went nice and smooth, Nicholas was nice and stable through the whole close to 5 hr op.
    They started with doing a biopsy on a few spots on the liver, good thing I didn't know that at the time! but no reason for alarm! The tumor was quite large...maybe the 10 wk wait had something to do with that ??!!But came out clean, he said everything looks good but expects path will find live ( active ) ..not sure what the word is, cancer cells which we thought anyway as the tumor was still there just smaller. The stomach pulled up easily, attaching went well, so all in all good, just get ready for more chemo!!
    Nicholas looks amazing for what he just went through, tubes everywhere and some swelling, but color and all great, so I feel much better. He even has his sense of humor!
    I know he is in pain but what a trooper!
    Maybe tonite I will sleep.

    Julie

    Glad to hear!
    That the surgery went well. One day at a time.

    It is good that you learn things AFTER the surgery instead of while they were in the process of it. It is definitely better for you.

    So very happy to hear of the good news. Love that they keep there sense of humor.

    My dad asked one of the nurses if she got the license plate of the bus that hit him. She thought - oh no, he doesn't remember why he was here!!! Oh boy....luckily the other nurse knew he was kidding. (But had to confirm it with my mom and sister - does your dad always joke around?)

    Sleep well Julie, take care of you, too.
    Beth
    Daughter of Roy
    T3N1M0
    Ivor Lewis Robotic 10/07/11
    NED
  • Luvs24
    Luvs24 Member Posts: 75
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    jss2011 said:

    Surgery update
    Thank You all for the good words and prayers. It was a very long day, I am exhausted but need to unwind.
    The surgery went nice and smooth, Nicholas was nice and stable through the whole close to 5 hr op.
    They started with doing a biopsy on a few spots on the liver, good thing I didn't know that at the time! but no reason for alarm! The tumor was quite large...maybe the 10 wk wait had something to do with that ??!!But came out clean, he said everything looks good but expects path will find live ( active ) ..not sure what the word is, cancer cells which we thought anyway as the tumor was still there just smaller. The stomach pulled up easily, attaching went well, so all in all good, just get ready for more chemo!!
    Nicholas looks amazing for what he just went through, tubes everywhere and some swelling, but color and all great, so I feel much better. He even has his sense of humor!
    I know he is in pain but what a trooper!
    Maybe tonite I will sleep.

    Julie

    Glad to hear!
    *
  • Rick0311
    Rick0311 Member Posts: 38
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    Thoughts and Prayers
    I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers daily for a smoth surgery and recovery.

    Rick
  • sandy1943
    sandy1943 Member Posts: 824
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    So glad all went well. Get
    So glad all went well. Get that much needed mental as well as physical rest tonight.
    Sandra
  • JReed
    JReed Member Posts: 428
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    jss2011 said:

    Surgery update
    Thank You all for the good words and prayers. It was a very long day, I am exhausted but need to unwind.
    The surgery went nice and smooth, Nicholas was nice and stable through the whole close to 5 hr op.
    They started with doing a biopsy on a few spots on the liver, good thing I didn't know that at the time! but no reason for alarm! The tumor was quite large...maybe the 10 wk wait had something to do with that ??!!But came out clean, he said everything looks good but expects path will find live ( active ) ..not sure what the word is, cancer cells which we thought anyway as the tumor was still there just smaller. The stomach pulled up easily, attaching went well, so all in all good, just get ready for more chemo!!
    Nicholas looks amazing for what he just went through, tubes everywhere and some swelling, but color and all great, so I feel much better. He even has his sense of humor!
    I know he is in pain but what a trooper!
    Maybe tonite I will sleep.

    Julie

    Julie & Nicholas! Super News
    Julie - thank you for taking time to update us on Nicholas' surgery. I let out a big sigh of relief for you both. Glad he has his sense of humor intact!

    Hoping that sailing is as smooth as possible in the days ahead and you both can get some much needed rest.

    Sending you hugs and positive healing energy,
    Judy
  • paul61
    paul61 Member Posts: 1,391 Member
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    jss2011 said:

    Surgery update
    Thank You all for the good words and prayers. It was a very long day, I am exhausted but need to unwind.
    The surgery went nice and smooth, Nicholas was nice and stable through the whole close to 5 hr op.
    They started with doing a biopsy on a few spots on the liver, good thing I didn't know that at the time! but no reason for alarm! The tumor was quite large...maybe the 10 wk wait had something to do with that ??!!But came out clean, he said everything looks good but expects path will find live ( active ) ..not sure what the word is, cancer cells which we thought anyway as the tumor was still there just smaller. The stomach pulled up easily, attaching went well, so all in all good, just get ready for more chemo!!
    Nicholas looks amazing for what he just went through, tubes everywhere and some swelling, but color and all great, so I feel much better. He even has his sense of humor!
    I know he is in pain but what a trooper!
    Maybe tonite I will sleep.

    Julie

    Great News!!!
    Julie,

    So glad that things went as planed in surgery today. Now one day at a time as the healing begins. After my surgery I counted it as a victory as each tube came out. It will be a long week but things will get better each day. Hoping for a good swallow test and no surprises in the pathology report.

    Sounds like they got clear margins and that is a very positive thing.


    Best Regards,

    Paul Adams
    McCormick, South Carolina

    DX 10/22/2009 T2N1M0 Stage IIB
    12/03/2009 Ivor Lewis
    2/8 through 6/14/2010 Adjuvant Chemo Cisplatin, Epirubicin, 5 FU
    Two year survivor

    Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance!