Need a few extra prayers.....

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gagee
gagee Member Posts: 332
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My Dad passed away on Monday morning the 17th. He was 85 but suffered from COPD. Way to many years of smoking. I thought after the first cry I would be fine. Well tomorrow I have to fly to Michigan from Calif. and tend to the funeral. It is a long and sad story and don't need to go into it all. But it would help to know that someone cares. My family, siblings and his siblings have never been around for help. As they all live with 5-10 miles from him and I live 2,600 miles it has been a real load to carry. Especially the final year with him I went through breast cancer. Thank God for my husband and my friends. Sorry to lay this out there but I am getting upset knowing I leave tomorrow and will be on my own with all of them. Oops .. my one sister will be there with me and she will be a big help. She lives 300 miles from where our Dad lived.
Any way thank you all for listening.

Hugs to all and many Prayers,
Diana
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  • skipper54
    skipper54 Member Posts: 936 Member
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    Sending LOTS of Prayers!
    and cyber {{{{{HUGS}}}}} as well. We'll be with you in spirit dear sister. When it all presses down on you just close your eyes, take a deep breath and picture a subdued pink bus parked outside. None of the racaus behavior normal for us, just there for support. (We can get rowdy if you need us too though. Like maybe shooting things off the bus at people who are giving you a hard time.) Travel safely and gently.
  • mollyz
    mollyz Member Posts: 756 Member
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    skipper54 said:

    Sending LOTS of Prayers!
    and cyber {{{{{HUGS}}}}} as well. We'll be with you in spirit dear sister. When it all presses down on you just close your eyes, take a deep breath and picture a subdued pink bus parked outside. None of the racaus behavior normal for us, just there for support. (We can get rowdy if you need us too though. Like maybe shooting things off the bus at people who are giving you a hard time.) Travel safely and gently.

    Sending prayers!
    Get yourself together and cry if you need to and don't let your brothers and sisters get on your nerves it's not good for your health(stress). think of the good times you and your dad had and try to block out the none sense.safe traveling and god be with you.>>HUGS>> Mollyz
  • mwallace1325
    mwallace1325 Member Posts: 806
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    mollyz said:

    Sending prayers!
    Get yourself together and cry if you need to and don't let your brothers and sisters get on your nerves it's not good for your health(stress). think of the good times you and your dad had and try to block out the none sense.safe traveling and god be with you.>>HUGS>> Mollyz

    Prayers
    Prayers and angels are surrounding you for the trip. Try not to let them get to you. Think of something to say over in your head when they start getting on your nerves - kind of a blah blah blah blah thing, but useful.

    Hoping you trip is save and more uneventful than you imagine.

    marge
  • disneyfan2008
    disneyfan2008 Member Posts: 6,583 Member
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    sorry to hear...
    Denise

    sorry to hear...

    Denise
  • camul
    camul Member Posts: 2,537
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    Diana
    I am so sorry. I know you will do fine once you get there. Prayers and strength are coming your way. Maybe your brothers and sisters will surprise you and help! Stranger things have happened.

    I will call you before you leave.

    Carol
  • debi.18
    debi.18 Member Posts: 850 Member
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    prayers
    Sending extra prayers and hugs your way!

    Hugs,
    Debi
  • smalldoggroomer
    smalldoggroomer Member Posts: 1,184
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    We will all be with you
    We will all be with you tomorrow. You will feel our strength when you need it most. And you will have your sister too. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Your not alone darlin Kay, My Condolences.
  • Texasgirl10
    Texasgirl10 Member Posts: 668
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    smalldoggroomer said:

    We will all be with you
    We will all be with you tomorrow. You will feel our strength when you need it most. And you will have your sister too. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Your not alone darlin Kay, My Condolences.

    Prayers going up
    I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. I will be praying for you & your family.

    Hugs & God Bless You,

    Dawne
  • canoegirl
    canoegirl Member Posts: 169
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    Diana,
    My thoughts and
    Diana,

    My thoughts and prayers go with you.

    Sorry for your loss,
    Marcy
  • sea60
    sea60 Member Posts: 2,613
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    canoegirl said:

    Diana,
    My thoughts and
    Diana,

    My thoughts and prayers go with you.

    Sorry for your loss,
    Marcy

    Oh Diana, I'm so sorry
    condolences to you and your family and I will most certainly keep you in prayer.

    Warm hugs,

    Sylvia
  • Chickadee1955
    Chickadee1955 Member Posts: 355 Member
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    sea60 said:

    Oh Diana, I'm so sorry
    condolences to you and your family and I will most certainly keep you in prayer.

    Warm hugs,

    Sylvia

    Please accept my
    Please accept my condolences. I lost my Dad 5 years ago this month and my Mom just two weeks before I found the lump in my breast that brought me here. Best to you and yours. It is very hard.

    Chickadee
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
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    Sincere condolences, Diana...
    Hopes & prayers for strength, comfort & the healing of your heart.

    Kind regards, Susan
  • Kylez
    Kylez Member Posts: 3,761 Member
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    camul said:

    Diana
    I am so sorry. I know you will do fine once you get there. Prayers and strength are coming your way. Maybe your brothers and sisters will surprise you and help! Stranger things have happened.

    I will call you before you leave.

    Carol

    I am so sorry. Prayers and
    I am so sorry. Prayers and hugs for you!
  • Ritzy
    Ritzy Member Posts: 4,381 Member
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    Texasgirl10 said:

    Prayers going up
    I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. I will be praying for you & your family.

    Hugs & God Bless You,

    Dawne

    I'm so sorry to read that
    I'm so sorry to read that you lost your Dad. My condolences to you and your family.


    Sue :(
  • survivorbc09
    survivorbc09 Member Posts: 4,374 Member
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    sea60 said:

    Oh Diana, I'm so sorry
    condolences to you and your family and I will most certainly keep you in prayer.

    Warm hugs,

    Sylvia

    My thoughts, prayers and
    My thoughts, prayers and condolences to you and your family.


    Hugs,

    Jan
  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member
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    Christmas Girl said:

    Sincere condolences, Diana...
    Hopes & prayers for strength, comfort & the healing of your heart.

    Kind regards, Susan

    I am so sorry Diana. Hugs,
    I am so sorry Diana. Hugs, peace and prayers to you and your family.
  • DebbyM
    DebbyM Member Posts: 3,289 Member
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    canoegirl said:

    Diana,
    My thoughts and
    Diana,

    My thoughts and prayers go with you.

    Sorry for your loss,
    Marcy

    I am so sorry that your Dad
    I am so sorry that your Dad has passed away. My thoughts and prayers to you and your entire family.


    With my deepest sympathy,


    Debby
  • mamolady
    mamolady Member Posts: 796 Member
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    Diana,
    Surrounding you with
    Diana,
    Surrounding you with support as you navigate this journey with your dad. Remember, you never have to carry the load by your self.

    Cindy
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member
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    mamolady said:

    Diana,
    Surrounding you with
    Diana,
    Surrounding you with support as you navigate this journey with your dad. Remember, you never have to carry the load by your self.

    Cindy

    My thoughts and prayers are
    My thoughts and prayers are withyou. sorry about your Dad, COPD is tough!
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member
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    mamolady said:

    Diana,
    Surrounding you with
    Diana,
    Surrounding you with support as you navigate this journey with your dad. Remember, you never have to carry the load by your self.

    Cindy

    My thoughts and prayers are
    My thoughts and prayers are withyou. sorry about your Dad, COPD is tough!

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