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My Dad passed this morning. :(

TMac52
TMac52 CSN Member Posts: 352
in Colorectal Cancer #1
Over the past couple of days my dad had his 4 kids and 12 grandchildren surrounding him and showing him love. Although it is very hard on me to see him go his suffering is over.
The past month has been so hard on him.
I cant say enough for hospis as they were called on Tuesday and within 2 hours were there and making him comfortable. These people are saints on earth.
My Father was loved by anyone who new him and I will miss him so much. He was so concerned about my cancer and hated to see me go through this past year, But now I am doing well and he held on until he knew that. My dad was very impressed when I told him about this site and how much it has helped me and for that I thank you all for caring and giving me cyberlove. Good friday is a good day to go if you got to go in my opinion so that also gives me comfort. Happy Easter CSN
I'm out.
Tom
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  • lucy07
    lucy07 CSN Member Posts: 51
    #2
    Sorry
    Tom I'm very sorry for your loss
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  • Kathryn_in_MN
    Kathryn_in_MN CSN Member Posts: 1,252 Member
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    Condolences
    I'm sorry to hear of your loss. While it helps to know your dad is out of pain, it is still hard to say goodbye. May the memories of good times together help you get through this tough time.
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  • TMac52
    TMac52 CSN Member Posts: 352
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    Kathryn_in_MN said:

    Condolences
    I'm sorry to hear of your loss. While it helps to know your dad is out of pain, it is still hard to say goodbye. May the memories of good times together help you get through this tough time.

    Thank You!!
    Thanks Lucy and Kathryn I appreciate your kind words.
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  • AnneCan
    AnneCan CSN Member Posts: 3,673 Member
    #5
    So sorry,Tom
    Tom I am sorry to hear of your father's passing. It sounds like you two had a lot of warm conversations and strong connections. I am glad he was surrounded by loved once and had good care from hospice. I bet it gave your Dad comfort that you have completed your treatment. Losing a Dad is never easy + my thoughts are with you.

    Good Night and God Bless
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  • plh4gail
    plh4gail CSN Member Posts: 1,238 Member
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    Tom I am so sorry for you
    Tom I am so sorry for you losing your Dad. :( I loved everything you shared with us about him. Cyber comfort sent to you friend!

    Love and hugs, Gail
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  • daBeachBum
    daBeachBum CSN Member Posts: 164
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    My Condolences
    I am very sorry for your loss. I am sure your father was comforted being surrounded by his loving family.
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  • Crow71
    Crow71 CSN Member Posts: 679 Member
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    Hey Tom
    I'm sorry you lost your dad. Thanks for sharing about him.
    Roger
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  • idlehunters
    idlehunters CSN Member Posts: 1,787 Member
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    daBeachBum said:

    My Condolences
    I am very sorry for your loss. I am sure your father was comforted being surrounded by his loving family.

    Hey Tom....
    So sorry about your Dad but glad he is finally at peace and without pain. BIG hug for you.... Jennie
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  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 CSN Member Posts: 2,342 Member
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    Tom,
    Tom, I am so sorry about the loss of your father. He sounds like a beautiful man.

    With prayers and aloha,
    Kathleen
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  • wolfen
    wolfen CSN Member Posts: 1,324 Member
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    Crow71 said:

    Hey Tom
    I'm sorry you lost your dad. Thanks for sharing about him.
    Roger

    Tom
    My heart goes out to you and your family. I know it is very hard right now. You all just remember what a fine man he was. He was so grand to hang on until he knew that you would be all right.

    Luv,

    Wolfen
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  • soccermom13
    soccermom13 CSN Member Posts: 224
    #12
    What a wonderful relationship
    you must have had with your Dad. You are right that Good Friday is a great day to leave this life and I am so glad that this thought brings you peace.
    Many Hugs to you and your family. In my prayers!
    Shanna
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  • lisa42
    lisa42 CSN Member Posts: 3,625 Member
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    Prayers and cyberhugs
    Hi Tom,

    Condolences on the passing of your dad- so sorry to hear it. But, as you said, you were given some comforts too.

    Continue to keep the faith- He lives!

    Lisa
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  • herdizziness
    herdizziness CSN Member Posts: 3,624 Member
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    Tom
    I'm very sorry for your loss, I know it's so hard for a son to say goodbye to his father. I'm glad you were with him as he left that earthly body. I'm glad he knew you where doing well before he passed. I told my mother a month ago I was cured, I know a white lie, but she's 89 years old and I didn't want her worrying anymore. She said Thank God, and was so darn happy. Just a month later, she doesn't have any idea what's going on in her world mentally, I'm glad I gave her that bit of happiness. (sh!t, I'm crying my eyes out right now)
    Thinking of you,
    Winter Marie
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  • luvmum
    luvmum CSN Member Posts: 457 Member
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    I'm so sorry!
    Dear Tom,

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Please stay strong! Your father will rest in peace.

    Love Dora
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  • tina dasilva
    tina dasilva CSN Member Posts: 641
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    Sorry
    I'm so for your loss hugs Tina
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  • Buzzard
    Buzzard CSN Member Posts: 3,043 Member
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    tina dasilva said:

    Sorry
    I'm so for your loss hugs Tina

    Tom, we all have to let go at some point......He's safe now...
    and in good hands.....sorry that you are going through this but take solace in that he is where most all of us want to be inevitably..........Im sure he is a great man considering how his son turned out...........love to ya, buzz
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  • ron50
    ron50 CSN Member Posts: 1,723 Member
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    sorry mate
    Hugs ron.
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  • jjaj133
    jjaj133 CSN Member Posts: 867 Member
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    Tom, I am so sorry for your
    Tom, I am so sorry for your loss. It was nice to read about a father and son that were so close. Sending prayers to you and yours.
    Judy
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  • smokeyjoe
    smokeyjoe CSN Member Posts: 1,425 Member
    #20
    jjaj133 said:

    Tom, I am so sorry for your
    Tom, I am so sorry for your loss. It was nice to read about a father and son that were so close. Sending prayers to you and yours.
    Judy

    So very sorry for your loss,
    So very sorry for your loss, take care. Leena
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  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties CSN Member Posts: 3,364 Member
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    Dear Tom
    I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds as if you and your dad had a wonderfully strong relationship. Hang on to all those good memories when you get to missing him.

    We all move out of this world to something far better without pain or worries, but it is hardest for those we leave behind.

    Take care my friend and condolances to you and your family.

    Marie who loves kitties
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