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dorookie
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Hi all,

As you know this is the first place I turn to when I need advise or prayers. Just got a call from my daughter (19), she just came from her OBGYN, we are awaiting the results of her pap smear, she has had 2 abnormal ones in the last 18 months, if this one is abnormal as well, the doctor is suspecting cervical cancer, I am scared to death, my first thoughts were that she might have colon cancer that spread to her female parts. If this one is abnormal then they will do a biopsy, I am just sick to my stomach, Please pray that cancer is not the answer in this case.

I will write more later when I know more....just please remember her in your prayers, her name is Erika Nicole.

Thanks
HUGS
Beth

**********update*****************
Thank you all for your prayers, got the word from the doctor and great news, not what we suspected, thank GOD, PRAYERS DO WORK, Thanks everyone, you are all the BEST...

HUGS
Beth

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idlehunters
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Prayers coming Erika's way!!! Sending positive vibes that it's something simple and easily treatable. Hugging you Beth!!!!

Jen

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there are 1000 things that can cause abnormalities in PAP Smears.......please relax Beth , it will be ok........Love to you and yours, Buzz

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pepebcn
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I'm sure is nothing involved with cancer!
Hugs!

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angelsbaby
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I will, take care beth

michelle

ketziah35
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I have had abnormal paps. Sometimes they come up and it is no big deal. In regards to colon cancer. It is linked to ovarian and breast cancer-not cervical. Doc probably wants to check everything to be sure. The female body is sensitive. I can't count how many abnormal paps or false positive preggers tests that I have had. The big thing is to always follow up with retests.

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herdizziness
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Sending a prayer or two, am sure it will be all right.
Winter Marie

AnneCan
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I am sorry for this worry. I have a feeling all will be well. Please let us know. Hugs to you Beth.

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Prayers on the way for normal results.

Kim

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anything you need Beth comin your way

it's going to be fine...

mags

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my prayers are with you and your daughter. I know it's easier said than done but take a deep breath and try not to worry, everything will be ok :)

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Prayers for all of you as you await the results, and that there is no abnormality this time.

Know that we are here for you and your loved ones.

Hugs,

Marie who loves kitties

mom_2_3
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A girlfriend had the same thing happen to her but the third PAP was fine. So prayers heading your way tonight that this one is all good.

Amy

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LivinginNH
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Prayers are being sent your way... And maybe hearing this will make you feel a little better - I've had abnormal paps for over three years now (checked every 6 months), and my latest one came back perfectly normal. So, as Buzz mentioned earlier, there are many things that can cause an abnormal pap besides cancer. Please try not to worry so much, she'll be just fine, I know it. :-) Hugs, Cynthia

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Beth,
As soon as read your post, I stopped and prayed for your daughter and you. And I will continue to do so. Hang in there everything will be fine!

Diane

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Hang in there. I agree that abnormal paps (and nothing else comes up) are common.

all the best, Leslie

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Praying for you all.

Big hugs and prayers,

Debbie

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Beth,
I am holding you and Erika in my prayers. It is so scary when something is going on with our kids. Praying all turns out OK.

Aloha,
Kathleen

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christinecarl
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I pray all is well with her! I had precancer cells removed many years ago, never another problem (well with that kind of cancer) after that.

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I am new to this, but I bet she will be just fine.
And you have all my prayers.

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Beth, I'll say prayers for you and your daughter tonight.. my daughter had 3 abnormal tests,she did not have cancer and is now fine. Try and take one day at a time and know we are all thinking of you. Sending you a hug. Joyce

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Oh, Beth.

You don't need another worry. Y'all have had too much in the last few months. Praying everything will be fine.

*hugs*
Gail

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Praying with you! I hope the doctor is wrong,

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Yes, Beth- I will pray. So scary, but especially when it's your kids you're having the worry like this about. Praying for you now too to be able to not freak out over this- praying for you and also your daughter to be calm and also for this pap to be normal.

Hugs dear,
Lisa

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I am sending all my positive vibes to you NOW! My heart just sank when i read your post. It is not cancer, it is not cancer, it is not cancer!

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dorookie
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I am so worried, and I know I shouldnt be until there is something to worry about. Just the slightest thought that my daughter might have to go through what I did, is just horrific, I know if it is cervical cancer, surgery can take care of most of it, but I was reading the net (I know shouldnt have done that) but it appears it has stages too and in some cases requires chemo and rads, my heart just sank.

But I am holding on to what everyone has said about their experiences and praying its something else. Erika is scared and that worries me even more. I dont want to come across selfish or anything but to have to deal with another situation now will be indescribably hard. I so pray God will cut me a break and not let this be what I am afraid it is. I would rather have the cancer come back on me then for her to have any type of cancer. I know my mind is working overboard, so I will shut up and attempt to get some sleep, the stupid doctor didnt call back so now have to wait till morning...

Thanks again for all the post, prayers, and good vibes! You all are just the BEST...

Love yall
Beth

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beth,
i hope your daughter is ok.
hugs and prayers,
pete

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Oh, darling lady...I am speechless!!!

With everything else that has happened to and around you, this better NOT be the beast!!! Or I will track it down and slap it around!!!

I am sending my hugs to all of you, but especially you, dear friend!!!

Dutch hugs, Kathi

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"No big deal". (meaning, in doctor speak, what everyone else has said about there being many reasons other than cancer that this can be abnormal). (Sigh...why does it take me, a computer consultant, to translate all of the time...ROFL!).

Dutch hugs, Kathi

dorookie
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Can you ask him why the doctor would suspect cancer than? Since she has already had 2 bad paps, she has experienced alot of lower back pain, in fact she was in the ER last night, she was thinking it was her kidneys, I wish I were there so I could as these doctors questions, military doctors are not the greatest in my opinion, I remember from when I was in, people always think military get the greatest health care they do not. She wont listen to me either, she wont take care of her self, I think its out of fear, remember back when she was having some bleeding when going poop, well she never followed up, it stopped so for her out of site out of mind, just pisses me off, I cant make her go....I dont know just rambling waiting for the phone call to find out what the doctor said. If the pap is bad I guess the next step is to do a biopsy, another waiting game...hopefully its not a bad pap this time...

THanks Miss ya
HUGS
Beth

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Beth, did the Dr call? I am praying for you both. Hugs, Joyce

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Prayers for Erika Nicole. Working in the ER we see a lot of pain in that area that turn out to cysts. I don't know how that could relate to abnormal PAP's, but who know's. Just wanting it to be something else.

Gail

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I am sure it's nothing, but I pray for comfort and strength!
mary

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Heavenly Father I come to you this evening on behalf of my sister in Christ Beth who is in need of your great mercy. Her daughter as you know is going through some tests that we pray will turn out to be nothing. Lord be with both of these women during this stressful time and give them the spirit of peace to allow them to live each day without worry as through you all things are possible. I pray that when the tests results come back that they will show nothing major to worry about and that you will continue to walk each day with these wonderful women. In Jesus name I pray, AMEN

BOBBY IN DALLAS

dorookie
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and thank you Bobby in Dallas, what a beautiful prayer.

HUGS
Beth

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Hi Beth,

Has there been any news regarding your daughter?

Hope all is well for you both.

Hugs,

Marie who loves kitties

dorookie
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supposed to find out this morning, hoping the doctor has the results. Will post as soon as I know.

Thanks everyone!!!

I love you all

HUGS
Beth

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Will pray a little extra hard this morning.

ketziah35
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Saying a prayer for you and your daughter!

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hugsss

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mommyof2kds
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Sending prayers your way. I have heard many times about paps being abnormal and then being ok. I have had abnormal ones and then had to get a cervical biopsy, which came back ok, but I have to continue with paps every 6 mths X4. I think when we go through this cancer experience, we tend to fear the worse, not that we are negative, we just know that cancer is not discriminative.. I hope you get your call soon. God bless. Petrina

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Have you heard anything yet. Just wondered what is going on. If no news when do you expect to hear something?

Kim

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HollyID
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Beth, praying for a good outcome!! Have you heard anything yet?

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HollyID
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I must hiccuped!!

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Praying for some good news. HUGS

dorookie
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for all the prayers, they are so totally appreciated. Still no results, now they are saying Tuesday, and if not Mama Beth is getting on the phone, I am tired of this waiting. I will keep everyone posted.

HUGS
Beth

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hopeforcure49
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I just want to give you my good thoughts and prayers. Hope that its not cancer. I'm new to this site. DX Dec.2009. had a long year 2010. I hate the waiting. I'm also waiting for a Ct scan result I just had on thursday. Lets pray for good news. Good luck to your daughter.

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Eltina21
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You have my prayers. Keep the faith.

Peace and Blessings,
Karen

AnneCan
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I am so glad you got good news!

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Wonderful!!!!!

*hugs*
Gail

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