I will catch hell for this post

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Kerry S
Kerry S Member Posts: 606 Member
edited March 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1
Bobby,
I will raze your Matthew 17:20 with a John23 telling me to eat weeds along with a damn good fart from my buddy Brooks. On top of that I will let Gail get pissed off about anything she damn well wants to. I will even listen to folks that want me to put coffee up my butt. I listen to the folks that love juicers mix and like to graze in their back yards.

On this board we talk about our feelings and all the crap we go thru. We fully need to talk about this in a very open way. It makes us feel that we are not alone in this crap. As a child, I was taught you don’t fart in church. This is not a church. I can and will fart here.

Now I could blame this post on my brain tumor or the damn drugs they have me on. I will not. This is truly how I feel about it and I think God provides us this board to help us. If you have the need to sermonize, I am sure there is a site for that. A few of us have tried to put out a few hints. That sure as hell did not work.

Kerry

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  • khl8
    khl8 Member Posts: 807
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    Kerry,
    You are not going to

    Kerry,
    You are not going to catch hell for this post, we are all in this mess together, one way or another. This is a place to go to for advice, guidance, and a place to bare your soul for all the crap we are going through!! If someone want to to come to piss and moan, let them, we all have been there! I do agree that I am a bit frustrated with the sermon's that seem to creep up! this is about the battle we are all in and what we have to do every day! So, my dear Man, you can get as pissy as you want! There are some of here who can take it!!!!!!!!

    Kathy
  • PGLGreg
    PGLGreg Member Posts: 731
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    I'm fine with Bobby
    I'm fine with Bobby sermonizing and also with you complaining about Bobby sermonizing. Who is Bobby, by the way?

    --Greg
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
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    PGLGreg said:

    I'm fine with Bobby
    I'm fine with Bobby sermonizing and also with you complaining about Bobby sermonizing. Who is Bobby, by the way?

    --Greg

    I must say,
    I'm at a loss as well....

    But, yeah...we all have the right to do whatever floats your boat...and, well, Greg said it so well!!!

    Hugs, Kathi
  • John23
    John23 Member Posts: 2,122 Member
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    Whew, Ker...
    Re:
    " If you have the need to sermonize, I am sure there is a site for that.
    A few of us have tried to put out a few hints. That sure as hell did not work."


    It's going to take more than a few hints.

    Some take religion with a grain of salt, others expect miracles
    on demand.... And then Kerry..... there's "us".


    So, without trying to be insulting..... and to keep my friend Kerry's
    words from falling into the dust....

    There is a forum on this website dedicated to those that wish to
    make religion the drug of choice; who might prefer to pray through
    the entire cancer debacle... and who sincerely wish to relate their
    beliefs to others that feel the same way.

    Spirituality, Prayer, and Meditation

    -This- forum isn't the best place to recite bible passages, or provide
    long religious chants.

    There are people of -all- nationalities, races and religions here,
    many agnostics, as well as many atheists.

    Suggesting that praying to a specific "God" is the only thing that
    will cure, is actually claiming that anything anyone else believes in,
    is foolish.

    Chemo or radiation may be the only saviour, or it could be any of
    the alternatives, we simply can not predict the outcome of any treatment.
    "They" don't know what really causes cancer, only that some of us
    have it growing inside us, while others never do.

    Let's keep the spiritual and religious chants to the forum designed
    for it; it's in the best interests to do that for everyone concerned.

    We're all here to help one another, and that can't be done if we
    single out people based on their religious beliefs, or the lack of them.


    (That was my 300 cents).


    Best of health to all!

    John
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
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    John23 said:

    Whew, Ker...
    Re:
    " If you have the need to sermonize, I am sure there is a site for that.
    A few of us have tried to put out a few hints. That sure as hell did not work."


    It's going to take more than a few hints.

    Some take religion with a grain of salt, others expect miracles
    on demand.... And then Kerry..... there's "us".


    So, without trying to be insulting..... and to keep my friend Kerry's
    words from falling into the dust....

    There is a forum on this website dedicated to those that wish to
    make religion the drug of choice; who might prefer to pray through
    the entire cancer debacle... and who sincerely wish to relate their
    beliefs to others that feel the same way.

    Spirituality, Prayer, and Meditation

    -This- forum isn't the best place to recite bible passages, or provide
    long religious chants.

    There are people of -all- nationalities, races and religions here,
    many agnostics, as well as many atheists.

    Suggesting that praying to a specific "God" is the only thing that
    will cure, is actually claiming that anything anyone else believes in,
    is foolish.

    Chemo or radiation may be the only saviour, or it could be any of
    the alternatives, we simply can not predict the outcome of any treatment.
    "They" don't know what really causes cancer, only that some of us
    have it growing inside us, while others never do.

    Let's keep the spiritual and religious chants to the forum designed
    for it; it's in the best interests to do that for everyone concerned.

    We're all here to help one another, and that can't be done if we
    single out people based on their religious beliefs, or the lack of them.


    (That was my 300 cents).


    Best of health to all!

    John

    You make a good point, my dear!
    And, because of many of my friends being Jewish....I send out 'happy holiday' cards...

    Hugs, Kathi
  • Lori-S
    Lori-S Member Posts: 1,277 Member
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    KathiM said:

    You make a good point, my dear!
    And, because of many of my friends being Jewish....I send out 'happy holiday' cards...

    Hugs, Kathi

    Kathi
    I do the happy holiday cards too. I always want everyone to Feel the Love!
  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member
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    Lori-S said:

    Kathi
    I do the happy holiday cards too. I always want everyone to Feel the Love!

    Mira come erees senior Kerry.... &%*&T*^$E^E
    Keri, I should have known you weren't satisfied with Lisa's post! lol. You and I would get along well...when I wasn't on your butt!

    Grazing in the back yard! LMAO
  • lisa42
    lisa42 Member Posts: 3,625 Member
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    Nana b said:

    Mira come erees senior Kerry.... &%*&T*^$E^E
    Keri, I should have known you weren't satisfied with Lisa's post! lol. You and I would get along well...when I wasn't on your butt!

    Grazing in the back yard! LMAO

    this was here before mine
    Hi Nana,

    Just to note... I replied on the other post after reading this one- so Kerry wrote this one first, before he replied to what I wrote on the other one.
    Kerry- I guess my "advice" here would be sort of what I said to Bobby- we all need to think about how our words are going to be perceived before writing them. :)
    I don't always practice what I preach myself, but it's always good to strive for to avoid riots. :)
    (notice the smileface... meant for you to know I'm smiling at you in a friendly way while I'm saying it).

    Lisa
  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member
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    lisa42 said:

    this was here before mine
    Hi Nana,

    Just to note... I replied on the other post after reading this one- so Kerry wrote this one first, before he replied to what I wrote on the other one.
    Kerry- I guess my "advice" here would be sort of what I said to Bobby- we all need to think about how our words are going to be perceived before writing them. :)
    I don't always practice what I preach myself, but it's always good to strive for to avoid riots. :)
    (notice the smileface... meant for you to know I'm smiling at you in a friendly way while I'm saying it).

    Lisa

    Saying in jest myself! All
    Saying in jest myself! All in fun....
  • Buckwirth
    Buckwirth Member Posts: 1,258 Member
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    Faith (or lack of it) and Cancer
    I am sure most of you know who Christopher Hitchens is. While his cancer is not ours, he has written a couple of essays that in some way touch on this subject, as well as others that each of us has probably experience since our dx:

    http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2010/12/hitchens-201012

    http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2010/09/hitchens-201009
  • PGLGreg
    PGLGreg Member Posts: 731
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    Buckwirth said:

    Faith (or lack of it) and Cancer
    I am sure most of you know who Christopher Hitchens is. While his cancer is not ours, he has written a couple of essays that in some way touch on this subject, as well as others that each of us has probably experience since our dx:

    http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2010/12/hitchens-201012

    http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2010/09/hitchens-201009

    Hitchens
    Thanks for the references to Hitchens' essays. The stories are basically familiar to us here, but so very articulately expressed and engaging. (I don't see any relation at all to the issue of faith, though.)

    --Greg
  • geotina
    geotina Member Posts: 2,111 Member
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    Kerry:
    Kerry, love ya. You had me laughing with the "grazing in the back yard". But you forgot a few things, the person on here several months ago that decided against chemo but did buy tree bark to boil and poison mushrooms, they were getting this stuff off the internet. Have not seen any further posts from them or the guy who guaranteed a cure, only $39.95 and if it didn't work, your money back.

    Seriously, your posts got me thru some dark moments a few weeks back, turned the tears to laughter so go ahead and be blunt, your wit I look forward to so just keep being the honest guy you are.

    Hugs - Tina
  • tootsie1
    tootsie1 Member Posts: 5,044 Member
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    Hey!
    You talking about me, Kerry? One post about being mad, and I'm getting a reputation. *L*

    *hugs*
    Gail
  • Lori-S
    Lori-S Member Posts: 1,277 Member
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    Kerry
    I have a feeling you might be used to catching he!!. I'm sure you can handle it. You're one tough old fart! Hey, I hear your reversal is coming up real soon .... woo hoo!
  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
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    Kerry
    My dear Kerry,
    You had me laughing so darn hard, I spit up my pepsi through my nose. Shame on you.
    Love you, man.
    Winter Marie