My precious David is in Heaven

pf78248
pf78248 Member Posts: 209
edited March 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1
David died yesterday afternoon surrounded by his mom, his kids, his sister Sue who got out of the hospital an hour earlier, his sister in law, his brother in law, his best friend, and me, of course.

I feel so privileged to have spent 37 years married to the man of my dreams. I will miss him terribly but I hope I am a better person now because of my two and a half years as a caregiver. He told the kids and I that if you have to die, this is the way to do it, surrounded by those you love.

We have no regrets in his choice of treatments, or in the medical team we assembled. He had a couple of wonderful hospice nurses that assisted us in so many ways. Our family and friends have been amazing. We feel so very blessed.

His celebration of life service will be Friday and his cremated remains will be buried next week in our home town. I won't be able to post much for the next few days but I've grown to love this board and all of you, and I will return when I can. I only want the best for all of you. I will celebrate your victories and mourn your losses. There is no better group on earth!

Sadly,
Priscilla
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  • newperson
    newperson Member Posts: 76
    #2
    My heart is broken
    Priscilla, My heart is broken to hear this sad news. I'm so sorry for your loss. The evil cancer took one more loved one's life and leave the pain to you. I hate this disease. May God give you the strength to go through this difficult time. Take care. - Lucy
  • damama24
    damama24 CSN Member Posts: 174 Member
    #3
    David
    I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I know these next few days will be difficult. Please come back when you are ready and let us know how you are doing. God has another angel today. Much love and blessings to you.
    Deb
  • melo72
    melo72 Member Posts: 36
    #4
    your are an angel Priscilla
    Dear priscilla,

    I have followed his situation on board every couple days...Your precious david is in god's hands...
    I'm glad he has no suffer anymore and sure that he is more happy now.
    My mom is in the same process and I wish calm and peace for her too.

    Love
    Melody
  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 CSN Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    #5
    Dear Priscilla
    Dear Priscilla,
    You and David have been in my thoughts many times in the past few days. I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband David. It sound as though you had 37 beautiful years together. I will continue to pray for you Priscilla.

    With love and aloha,
    Kathleen
  • abbey712
    abbey712 Member Posts: 12
    #6
    Priscilla, I am so sorry to
    Priscilla, I am so sorry to hear this sad news and am sending you a huge hug across the oceans. My father passed away yesterday also so i can relate to what you are feeling in someway although i know that everyones situation is different. Wishing you all the strength for the coming days and beyond.
    Abbey
  • Lilmiss82
    Lilmiss82 CSN Member Posts: 257 Member
    #7
    abbey712 said:

    Priscilla, I am so sorry to
    Priscilla, I am so sorry to hear this sad news and am sending you a huge hug across the oceans. My father passed away yesterday also so i can relate to what you are feeling in someway although i know that everyones situation is different. Wishing you all the strength for the coming days and beyond.
    Abbey

    Priscilla,
    Heaven truly has another angel. David will always be there in your heart, and imprinted on your soul. You are such a beautiful person and David will being watching over you. I hope that in some small measure these words bring you some comfort during this difficult time. Come back and visit when you are ready til then you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.-Melissa
  • ktlcs
    ktlcs CSN Member Posts: 358
    #8
    Lilmiss82 said:

    Priscilla,
    Heaven truly has another angel. David will always be there in your heart, and imprinted on your soul. You are such a beautiful person and David will being watching over you. I hope that in some small measure these words bring you some comfort during this difficult time. Come back and visit when you are ready til then you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.-Melissa

    I am so sorry
    I know the pain and heartbreak you feel right now, as well as the joy for having had him in your life and the honor or caring for him these past months and years, Know that you are not alone

    You are in my prayers

    Kathy
  • pepebcn
    pepebcn CSN Member Posts: 6,331 Member
    #9
    ktlcs said:

    I am so sorry
    I know the pain and heartbreak you feel right now, as well as the joy for having had him in your life and the honor or caring for him these past months and years, Know that you are not alone

    You are in my prayers

    Kathy

    Priscilla
    lam very bad dealing with this situations so don't know what to say.
    All of you will be in my prayers today.
    Take care of you too.
    Hugs!
  • herdizziness
    herdizziness CSN Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    #10
    Priscilla
    Dearest Priscilla,

    My heart is so heavy over the loss of David by this cancer.

    I am so glad, that he was surrounded by his loving family, and that you had wonderful friends standing beside you all as well.

    He had his own angel on this earth, YOU, and I'm sure he has a wonderful welcoming party waiting for him in heaven, surrounded by loved ones still.

    I am sorry for your loss of this man you loved for so many years. Take care of yourself dear. We will continue to think of you and yours.

    Winter Marie
  • Sonia32
    Sonia32 CSN Member Posts: 1,071 Member
    #11
    Priscilla
    I'm so sorry over your loss of your beloved David. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Hugs
    Sonia
  • dorookie
    dorookie Member Posts: 1,731 Member
    #12
    So sad
    a friend reminded me just yesterday, that when she has a loss, she tries to focus on the time you had with that person, instead of the time you lose. 37 yrs is awesome, not many are that lucky any more...I am very sadden to hear this, but I know he will always be with you.

    HUGS
    Beth
  • maglets
    maglets CSN Member Posts: 2,576 Member
    #13
    dorookie said:

    So sad
    a friend reminded me just yesterday, that when she has a loss, she tries to focus on the time you had with that person, instead of the time you lose. 37 yrs is awesome, not many are that lucky any more...I am very sadden to hear this, but I know he will always be with you.

    HUGS
    Beth

    so so sorry
    oh Priscilla I am so sorry that you have lost your precious David.

    All my prayers and hugs are with you

    maggie
  • geotina
    geotina CSN Member Posts: 2,111 Member
    #14
    Priscilla:
    I am so sorry for your loss. You and David shared so much. You were with him every step of the way dealing with disease. May you find peace and comfort knowing you did anything and everything you could for David.

    Hugs - Tina and George
  • lisa42
    lisa42 CSN Member Posts: 3,625 Member
    #15
    dear Priscilla
    Dear Priscilla,

    I'm sorry David's life has now come to an end here on earth.
    I'm glad it was peaceful for him, though. I pray your family and friends around you will help you through this time.

    Blessings to you as you mourn the loss of your beloved husband David-

    Lisa
  • TLG320
    TLG320 Member Posts: 167
    #16
    My sincere condolences
    Priscilla,

    You've been an amazing source of strength and support to your dear David, and have handled a terribly difficult situation with dignity and grace. You and your family are in my heart and prayers during this very sad time. Alongside your grief, I hope you celebrate the wonderful 37 years that you shared with David.
    Hugs,
    Tashina
  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties CSN Member Posts: 3,364 Member
    #17
    So sorry for your loss
    Dear Priscilla,

    I know there are mixed feelings now. We have to be greatful that David is not in pain and has moved beyond cancer now, but his absence leaves a hole in our lives.

    I am glad that he was able to communicate with you all and that you and your loving family were with him to ease his way.

    Celebrate his life and his love for you and yours for him.

    Take care. Wishing you and your family an easing of the loss of dear David.

    Hugs,

    Marie who loves kitties
  • AnneCan
    AnneCan CSN Member Posts: 3,673 Member
    #18
    Priscilla
    I want to offer you my condolences for the loss of your beloved David. You two were a team to admire + I am awed by the way you supported him every step of the way. I also cannot believe how giving you are to this board, when your hands have been so full. I smile everytime I see the picture of you + David, partly because it is such a lovely picture + partly because David reminds me so much of a friend of my parents who was such a big part of my life growing up. His first name also was David, but he went by "Jerry" (middle name). Please take good care of yourself.
  • MelanieT
    MelanieT Member Posts: 186
    #19
    I am so sorry for your loss
    I am so sorry for your loss and will pray for your family... you both were very lucky to have each other... everyday is precious!!!

    Loves,
    Mel
  • Nana b
    Nana b CSN Member Posts: 3,030 Member
    #20
    MelanieT said:

    I am so sorry for your loss
    I am so sorry for your loss and will pray for your family... you both were very lucky to have each other... everyday is precious!!!

    Loves,
    Mel

    So sorry, my heart is heavy.
    So sorry, my heart is heavy. Hugs!
  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 CSN Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    #21
    So Very Sorry
    I'm so sorry for your loss. The wonderful life that you have shared together is so evident and you were a wonderful caregiver. My thoughts and prayers are with you, David, and family as you go through this loss.

    Kim

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