Tired of fighting Doctors

I had a RP in 12-07. PSA remains low as of today. 12-08 I had a sling procedure to control incontinence. I went from 6 pads to 1-2 pads a day afterwords. I have been told this is probably as good as it will get. ED problems: Muse 1000 mg did nothing; tri-mix 4 @ .02875 gave me erections but the tip of my penis started to point north. The bending hurt both me and my wife. Haven't done injections since 2-09. Levitra, Viagra three time a week didn't work. 20 MG Cialis dailey for 3 months does nothing. Blow up device will get the old boy up but it doesn't last long enough to get the job done. I have been to 5 Doctors in two states. 3 tell me to NOT have a AMS 700 -or 800 because of scaring. 2 Docs want to do the surgery. Doctor # 6 today, advised that I should be glad that (1) I don't have cancer; (2) be thankful I am using 2 pads a day and (3) Accept the fact that sex is not in my future, period. Here is my question ARE THERE OTHER MEN WHO ARE BEING TOLD TO FORGET ABOUT SEX? If I knew then what I know now, I would NOT have had the surgery.