Jul 06, 2009 - 5:51 pm
My husband was diagnosed 10 years ago with an astrocytoma stage 4. they couldnt operate because of where it was. they radiated and he has been in remission up until 2 months ago. He had surgery 3 weeks ago and what a struggle that has been. He is not the same man that he used to be. He is so bitter and angry and directs it all towards me.. He tells me all the time that he doesnt like me and looks at me with hatred in his eyes. We have been together for 16 years and married 5 years with 2 beautiful daughters age16 and 13. When I leave the house he thinks that i am going out and cheating on him. The anger he has is out of this world. HE will start his first chemo treatment tomorrow afternoon and i am afraid it is just going to get worse from here.I feel so helpless watching him go through this but he refuses to let me help and will not open up to me and share with me wut is going on with ahim and why he is so angry. He is pushing me away and I dont understand why. I feel like my marriage isn't going to survive this. IF anyone out there has any suggestions please let me know. I am in need of some advice or some help.