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KathiM
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I, unfortuately, have had another loss.
Sunday last, I received a call from my mom (I was still in Holland), to say that my younger daughter (she was in a mental health facility) died unexpectedly. We are having an autopsy done, etc, to rule out medical malpractice. So, another angel is "walking with God". In a way, this was a good thing, because she had been not responding well to any medication used to attempt to stablize her, and was sleeping most of the time from the side effects. She was 22 on December 12.

So, I don't think I will be celebrating the holidays of late 2006/early 2007. My effective family has been cut in half, with the additional death of my daughters' dad before Christmas. But, I am doing the steps necessary, and will keep as good an attitude as I can, realizing that all things happen according to plan.

Hugs, Kathi

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nudgie
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I am sooo sorry for your loss and agree that God has received another angel. He needed her for something special. I will say a pray for you and your family for guidance and strength to get you through these times of grief.

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musiclover
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Kathi, I can't imagine how you must free right now. We are all here for you. I hope you can feel the support and love being sent to you from board. God bless you.

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StacyGleaso
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Kathi,

I am deeply sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. I agree that there is a "Master Plan" but it seldom seems to make sense to everyone left behind. Know that your extend "family" here will work hard at helping increase your "family members" with our love and support.

Hugs,
Stacy

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Lisa Rose
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Hi Kathi

My deepest thoughts & prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time and I am so very sorry for your loss.

Lisa Rose

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joyceann619
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Kathi,
I am so sorry for the unexpected loss of your daughter. Losing a child has to be horrid. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Joyce

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chynabear
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Dear dear Kathi,

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I can't imagine the pain you must feel. I pray that you find some peace and comfort.

*BIG BIG HUGS*

Tricia

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spongebob
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Oh, Kathi...

Words cannot express my shock and sorrow at your loss. I know that you know the cliche that she's in a better place all too well, but you're right, She does walk with God.

If you need anything at all, daughter, please let me know.

keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Kathi.

- Bob

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Kanort
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Dear Kathi,

Losing a child and having it happen unexpectedly has to be the most devasting loss of any. Please know that you and your family will be in my heart and prayers.

May God give you extra strength to get you through the difficult days ahead.

Hugs,

Kay

CAMaura
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Hi Kathy,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Know that my thoughts are with you and I hope you touch base with us very soon...you have been missed.
Take care and I hope you are able to rest, regain your footing, and still see 2007 as a year of possibilities for you.
All the best - Maura

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Betsydoglover
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Kathi - I am so very sorry. Losing a child has to be the most unimaginable pain. You are in my thoughts.

Please know that we are all here to support you.

Betsy

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JADot
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Oh Kathi! I am so sorry to hear about this. I can't even imagine what you're going through right now with all of your recent losses. Let me know if there is anything I can do to help.

Ying

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scouty
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Kathi,

I am so sorry for your loss but am glad your daughter is no longer in any pain or on any meds.

My prayers are with you and let me know if there is anything I can do.

Lisa P.

crazylady
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Hi Kathi,
I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through. Stay strong and remember to take care of yourself.
Sending hugs your way!
Jamie

suezav
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Joined: Dec 2005

oh kathi,
you have had to endure so much these past few years. i'm so sorry to hear about your daughter. your words have inspired so many on this board. i hope you feel the love and hear the prayers being sent your way and may it comfort you somehow. susan

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uni522
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Dear, sweet Kathi! I am so sorry for your loss. I have you in my thoughts and prayers. You give so much to so many!! God bless, we love you! ~brittany

Patrusha
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Damn. I am praying for you and your family, Kathi. Hugs.

pink05
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Joined: Mar 2006

Kathi,

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. I can't imagine the pain you must be feeling. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers.

God bless,

-Lee-

fedester
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kathi,
i am so sorry to hear of your loss.
my thoughts and prayers are with you.
bruce

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valeriec
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Kathi,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. I can not even imagine the pain you must be in right now. Picture her running with angels on streets made of gold. Please know that you are in my prayers.

God Bless-

Valerie

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vinny3
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Kathi,

You have gone through so much and are such a strong lady. We are so sorry to hear of one more trauma, the worst kind, that you are enduring. You have been such an inspiring support for the rest of us. Know that you are in our prayers.

Dick

changing
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Praying God will comfort you and your family....so sorry, Ginny

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Monicaemilia
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Kathi - I cannot even imagine what you are going through right now. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know she was ill in life, but know that she is okay now, and I'm sure watching over you. Be strong. You are in my prayers. Monica

hicarm
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Dear Kathi
My heart sank when I read this. I am very sorry to hear this. Prayers sent to you and your family.
Carm

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Moesimo
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I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending hugs your way.

Maureen

taraHK
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Dear Kathy,
I was so sorry to learn this news. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Sending love and prayers your way.
Tara

SueS
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Kathi
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Big Hugs
Sue S

lynn1222
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my dearest kathy, i am so sorry to hear of your loss, i cant imagine what you must be going through. although i know it is hard to understand now, know that all things happen for a reason and some day, you will have these answers. please remember we all love you and the lord loves you too. hang in there sweety, my hugs, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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nanuk
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Kathi: Hopefully God will open other doors to help you understand your loss..we always ask why?,
and there is seemingly no answer, but our stay here is so brief that I have to believe that your daughter and her father are with you in some way..
Stay with God. Love, Bud

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goldfinch
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Kathi,
I am so sorry for your loss, but I am glad your daughter's suffering is over. She is an "angel walking with God." May you find strength to help you through this.
Mary

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betina61
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Hi Kathi, when I saw the title of your post I knew something terrible had happened, I'm so sorry for you, you have been through so much,but always found encouraging words for all of us here,I know that you are a person of faith, and God is walking besides you in this difficult time, you will be in my prayers. lots of hugs to you.

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kerry
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Kathi,

I'm sorry I'm answering your post so late, but I have not been able to find the words to completely express my sorrow for your loss. You have been through much these past several years.

Please know that I wish for peace and comfort. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Kerry

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2bhealed
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I am so very sorry.

My heart goes out to you and your family. You will be in my prayers.

peace, emily

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kangatoo
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I believe that for all of us there will come a day when we will be able to hold our loved ones in our arms again. Until then I am sure that they are with us and watching over us. We are so sorry for your loss Kathi.
Huggs, Ross and Jen

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jerseysue
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Kathi sorry I haven't been on the board for a while. I'm so sorry for your loss and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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