New Kid on the Block

Welcome Aboard
Hi Patrick,

Welcome aboard, like you have mentioned there is a wealth of information on here, and the people are great.

I'm sure someone will chime in with their own experience and knowlege soon.

Best,
John

Welcome to the group
Hi Patrick. Welcome to the group and sorry you are one of us. I just had a neck dissection at MA Eye and Ear 3 weeks ago. If you ever want a second opinion, my surgeon there is phenomenal. His name is James Rocco, this is the link to his contact info:

http://www.masseyeandear.org/find-a-physician/details?physician_id=941268&return_url=/search/search?lastname=&firstname=&specialty%5fid=

His treatment plan was more aggressive than the surgeon closer to where I live and I opted to travel to Boston for the surgery. I am pleased with the outcome and getting ready to start radiation in a few weeks. I can't address your question about the tongue primary because my primary was skin cancer on the forehead, but I'm sure someone else here can. Good luck to you. Deb

Welcome
Hi Patrick,
Sorry you find yourself here, glad you are now part of the group...great people are here with good advise and better support.

I'm a little over four months post treatment, seven weeks chemo/rads. Had surgery before to remove the lymphnode that started the process. I have unknown primary.
My voice is rough, but strong. No more singing for me and that's probably just as well.

All the best to you during treatment etc. BTW...my fifth grade teacher was the best!
Chuck.

welcome
Patrick,

My husband has hypopharyngeal and base of tongue cancer: radiation and chemo are complete. Jim's voice is fine - was a bit raspy but is back to his beautiful deep bass voice, although he hasn't been singing yet!

You will do well -just do as your doctors say.

Best wishes.

Hail and Well Met
Patrick,
As always - glad you found us - sorry you had reason to look.

I had base of tongue cancer (remission now - finished treatments mid March). There were times during treatment when my voice was weak (no projection), and there were times when it was a little hard to understand me (I thought I sounded like a deaf person speaking). I had induction chemo and chemo radiation - no surgery. I think my biggest speech impediments were caused by mouth sores. A couple weeks after treatment, my speech was consistenly understandable, and approaching "normal". At about four and a half months out, I noticed that I lost some ground on speaking - I can still be understood, but I can feel I have some issues forming sounds sometimes - I think I'm the only one who notices - it doesn't sound funny, it feels funny. I'm five and a half months out now, and am almost always clear, but there are times I have the "puberty squeak" when I talk. I can sing some things now, but not like before. Whistling has fared even worse than singing. I continue to improve, though. Like most, my voice is now weakest when I get up in the morning. My voice suffers when I let my mouth dry out (sometimes have nearly no voice until I drink, then it's fine). I do know that some people go through days of not being able to speak - I could, it's just that there were some days that the pain made me avoid speaking when I didnt have to, and it was hard to understand me.

So, if you're like the majority, your kids won't get much of a break from you lecturing. Hope that's the case. Do well

Welcome
Welcome Patrick and sorry you had to join this ever growing group. You will get great help and advice here. I read it everyday and it lifts me. I had tonsil c scc and 1 lymph node involvement. Had cisplatin chemo and 34 rads. At the time I thought it was the end of the world. But now five months post treatment it's hard to believe that it's all been and gone. Not a walk in the park. But definately doable. I send you love strength and wish you well xxxx

plangdon said:

Thanks
Thanks to everyone who has responded. When I first found out last Tuesday that I had all this cancer I felt there's no way to survive it. However, I'm a lot more optimistic now, thanks to you'all.
Pat

You'll Make It
When I first found out I had cancer it was on a Friday of a long week-end January 2, 2009 and I had taken a vacation day....I was worried I wasn't going to make it through the week-end.

I had this concept of old frail, discolored, fuzzy headed patients on their last legs. When I went to the chemo center, there were people (patients) there doing work on their cell phones and lap tops, multi-tasking...it blew me away. Sitting here and thinking back, I don't think I ever thought of myself as a patient, LOL.

One thing to get a grasp on right away is having a positive attitude, and keeping it. Get rid of doubt (as much as you can), it's a struggle at times. Surround yourself with positive people...Faith, Family and Friends.

When I was going through it all, and someone wanted to share their stories of relatives and friends. I'd tell them up front that if it didn't work out, or end well, that I'd rather not hear it right now, but sometime down the road.

It's all very doable, not easy, but doable....

We all have either gone through it, or are going through it, so will you.

You definitely have an edge on me...somehow I had already ended my treatment by a few months before I found this site.

Best,
John