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Hi Jean,
They should have all the answers as to the type and stage after the lumpectomy. That in itself will be a relief to finally know about that. Thee always seems to be some surprise waiting for us after each procedure!
But the not knowing is the hardest part of all of this. Does the doc (is this your oncologist?)have any idea when your surgery mite take place?
I hope you get a good nites sleep tonite...
Hugs, Judy :-)0 -
LumpectomySkeezie said:Hi Jean,
They should have all the answers as to the type and stage after the lumpectomy. That in itself will be a relief to finally know about that. Thee always seems to be some surprise waiting for us after each procedure!
But the not knowing is the hardest part of all of this. Does the doc (is this your oncologist?)have any idea when your surgery mite take place?
I hope you get a good nites sleep tonite...
Hugs, Judy :-)
Thanks ....
Right now am concerned because there is a second "spot" that the oncologist wants to double check before performing the Lumpectomy. If this second spot is cancerous she is recommending a masectomy. That is what is scaring me. Not prepared for that. Having the Lumpectomy with just the pea sized tumor is what I was preparing for and now this?
Sent you a long comment in a previsous mailing, don't know if you received it. Can't have MRI because of my Cochlear Implant.
Did you have pre-op lympherderma evaulation? Any complications with your first Lumpectomy? Is there no other way to diagnose BC without surgery?
Am a "big baby" when it comes to change. When looking at the posts on the discussion board you all seem so intelligent and well adjusted.
Grateful for your help and advice.0 -
They were able to tell me aJean T. Szabo said:Lumpectomy
Thanks ....
Right now am concerned because there is a second "spot" that the oncologist wants to double check before performing the Lumpectomy. If this second spot is cancerous she is recommending a masectomy. That is what is scaring me. Not prepared for that. Having the Lumpectomy with just the pea sized tumor is what I was preparing for and now this?
Sent you a long comment in a previsous mailing, don't know if you received it. Can't have MRI because of my Cochlear Implant.
Did you have pre-op lympherderma evaulation? Any complications with your first Lumpectomy? Is there no other way to diagnose BC without surgery?
Am a "big baby" when it comes to change. When looking at the posts on the discussion board you all seem so intelligent and well adjusted.
Grateful for your help and advice.
They were able to tell me a lot (class and type) from the biopsy. They staged it based on my MRI.0 -
sorry for the waitingJean T. Szabo said:Lumpectomy
Thanks ....
Right now am concerned because there is a second "spot" that the oncologist wants to double check before performing the Lumpectomy. If this second spot is cancerous she is recommending a masectomy. That is what is scaring me. Not prepared for that. Having the Lumpectomy with just the pea sized tumor is what I was preparing for and now this?
Sent you a long comment in a previsous mailing, don't know if you received it. Can't have MRI because of my Cochlear Implant.
Did you have pre-op lympherderma evaulation? Any complications with your first Lumpectomy? Is there no other way to diagnose BC without surgery?
Am a "big baby" when it comes to change. When looking at the posts on the discussion board you all seem so intelligent and well adjusted.
Grateful for your help and advice.
The waiting is the hardest part of all of this I think. I can assure you that if I sound intelligent and well adjusted I did not start out that way.It just comes with time, this board and asking your Drs. lots of questions. I found out grade and stage after biopsy too. I hope you get answers soon. God Bless
(((Hugs))) Janice0 -
Similar dx
Mine started in Feb. with ductal and thru ultrasound, MRI, and everything else they also
found a second "pea size" area close to chest wall. At that point it was recommended by
drs. that mastectomy was best way to go. I went with that on Apr. 21 and was extremely
fortunate that no chemo or radioation necessary. Mastectomy I was scared to death to
put it mildly (I'm a big baby anyway). Because of my age (70) and other unrelated medical
problems I didn't do reconstruction and have no regrets - it is an individual
choice that each has to make. Want to say these last few weeks I am so close
to the old me that I'm thrilled, doing outside gardening, some outside painting and
just feeling good and very comfortable both at home and either shopping or other group
settings with my silicon prosthesis - with a good attitude and a good dose of humor it
is fine (humor in people guessing WHICH ONE?). Sorry for rambling but you will be ok and make the right choices with drs. guidance. Good luck I'll keep you in my prayers.0 -
Good Morning Jean,missingtexas said:They were able to tell me a
They were able to tell me a lot (class and type) from the biopsy. They staged it based on my MRI.
I only gave you a shortened version of my journey...here is a longer one. First, I don't believe in any other type of biopsy other than the surgical one which is also a lumpectomy. Right from the start I know what type, what stage and grade the tumor is and if I'm lucky they get clean margins and then I can go on to rads, chemo or if I'm lucky, it's benign! This time it was bc. My surgeon did not get a clean margin on one side so he did a re-exisional biopsy (going back in and taking a lot more tissue from the first surgical area)because it was dx as invasive ductal carcenoma we also did a Sentinel Node Biopsy at that time. Clear nodes, but still one side still had cancer cells too close for comfort. Also, they found tiny little carcenoma insitus as well. As soon as I heard that I said I wanted a mastectomy. He said I had enough breast tissue to go a third time but all I could think was maybe my entire breast was full of cancer cells. I couldn't believe my own voice in my ears as I was saying "Mastectomy". I had a single "simple" mastectomy which means they only take brest tissue and nothing else. The pathology report came back NO CANCER CELLS IN BREAST TISSUE! So I only had chemo and no rads.
I know many here have a million types of tests before the surgical biopsy and I can't see myself going thru all of that misery and still not have the whole complete picture. I'm a whimp and want things done as easy as possible and while I'm under IV sedation or gen'l anesthesia.
I, personally, would not be content with a dx from just an MRI. Go in there and physically biopsy what ever it is is my motto. But that is me, my opinion only for me. When starting all of this, you don't think you could possibly face a mastectomy, but after reading lots from the websites (I like www.mayoclinic.com) and I knew I didn't want to think about more cancer cells in there and I chose mastectomy. Me, my decision. I didn't ask any surgeon or onc their opinion. But they didn't disagree with me. Surprisingly, the mastectomy was not as bad as I thought it would be. The drain was the worst part. I really didn't need pain meds. I also did not have resconstruction, enough surgery already, again for me. I have a fake boob, and I am just fine with it. No one can tell.
I would have pm'd all of this to you Jean, but I'm not sure how to do it so just wrote it all down hear. I can and do answer your pm's but figured this was ok.
The surgeon will already be doing a lumpectomy and Sentinel Node Biopsy, why not have him check out the additional lump so you'll know for sure? You'll already be under anesthetic, and then you'll have peace of mind one way or the other. If you leave it in you'll be worried to death what if? And because you can't have an MRI that's probably the only way. Why waste time on additional tests when they are already doing a lumpectomy?
Keep us posted on your appts and progress and pm me anytime you like.
Hugs, Judy :-)0 -
Dr. gave me prescription for Rehab for Lympederma (sp?)...this word is freaking me out. Read where people get chronic swelling in the arm after surgery. Is this common? Made an appointment and will go for first Rehab pre-op evaluation on Wednesday. Supposed to hear from Oconologist doctor tomorrow concerning the second "dot" that was questionable on my x-ray. Can't get MRI so if they have further questions will have to have further tests to confirm if cancerous or not. Really appreciate being able to talk with someone. My emotions are fluctuating between freaking out and acceptance and working through it. Praying that I have just this one "pea sized" tumor to work with. Really getting unraveled about this. Has there been any other treatment for Breast Cancer found besides Masectomy?Skeezie said:Good Morning Jean,
I only gave you a shortened version of my journey...here is a longer one. First, I don't believe in any other type of biopsy other than the surgical one which is also a lumpectomy. Right from the start I know what type, what stage and grade the tumor is and if I'm lucky they get clean margins and then I can go on to rads, chemo or if I'm lucky, it's benign! This time it was bc. My surgeon did not get a clean margin on one side so he did a re-exisional biopsy (going back in and taking a lot more tissue from the first surgical area)because it was dx as invasive ductal carcenoma we also did a Sentinel Node Biopsy at that time. Clear nodes, but still one side still had cancer cells too close for comfort. Also, they found tiny little carcenoma insitus as well. As soon as I heard that I said I wanted a mastectomy. He said I had enough breast tissue to go a third time but all I could think was maybe my entire breast was full of cancer cells. I couldn't believe my own voice in my ears as I was saying "Mastectomy". I had a single "simple" mastectomy which means they only take brest tissue and nothing else. The pathology report came back NO CANCER CELLS IN BREAST TISSUE! So I only had chemo and no rads.
I know many here have a million types of tests before the surgical biopsy and I can't see myself going thru all of that misery and still not have the whole complete picture. I'm a whimp and want things done as easy as possible and while I'm under IV sedation or gen'l anesthesia.
I, personally, would not be content with a dx from just an MRI. Go in there and physically biopsy what ever it is is my motto. But that is me, my opinion only for me. When starting all of this, you don't think you could possibly face a mastectomy, but after reading lots from the websites (I like www.mayoclinic.com) and I knew I didn't want to think about more cancer cells in there and I chose mastectomy. Me, my decision. I didn't ask any surgeon or onc their opinion. But they didn't disagree with me. Surprisingly, the mastectomy was not as bad as I thought it would be. The drain was the worst part. I really didn't need pain meds. I also did not have resconstruction, enough surgery already, again for me. I have a fake boob, and I am just fine with it. No one can tell.
I would have pm'd all of this to you Jean, but I'm not sure how to do it so just wrote it all down hear. I can and do answer your pm's but figured this was ok.
The surgeon will already be doing a lumpectomy and Sentinel Node Biopsy, why not have him check out the additional lump so you'll know for sure? You'll already be under anesthetic, and then you'll have peace of mind one way or the other. If you leave it in you'll be worried to death what if? And because you can't have an MRI that's probably the only way. Why waste time on additional tests when they are already doing a lumpectomy?
Keep us posted on your appts and progress and pm me anytime you like.
Hugs, Judy :-)
Thank you for sharing your story; it is good to know that you have had a similar experience and are now doing well. Need your mentoring to make it through this!0 -
Your oncologist will get aSkeezie said:Hi Jean,
They should have all the answers as to the type and stage after the lumpectomy. That in itself will be a relief to finally know about that. Thee always seems to be some surprise waiting for us after each procedure!
But the not knowing is the hardest part of all of this. Does the doc (is this your oncologist?)have any idea when your surgery mite take place?
I hope you get a good nites sleep tonite...
Hugs, Judy :-)
Your oncologist will get a pathology report from your lumpectomy and that tells you what stage, grade, type of bc and if you are ER or PR + or - and your HER2. Be sure and get a copy for your records also.
Good luck!0 -
I can toatlly relate to the
I can toatlly relate to the shock of having BC! After my biopsy of micro calcifications, I got the news of lobular carcinoma in my right breast and headed to the surgeon full of worry and anxiety. He sent me for an MRI which was inconclusive because I have very dense breasts. He told me that I was stage 1, but couldn't really tell until after surgery since they couldn't see a clearly defined tumor on the MRI. They could have tried a lumpectomy, but I opted for bi-lateral because this cancer tends to appear in the other breast and I never wanted to go through this fear again. My tumor ended up being 5 mm! My surgeon said they had a hard time finding the tiny little thing. No chemo, no radiation, I am so fortunate and so pleased with my choice. I hope this helps. Good luck to you!0
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