My journey....starting with a swollen right groin lymph node.

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  • AaronW
    AaronW Member Posts: 45

    Moving along!
    Things are underway for you it sounds like. You mention you are a stage 1 and 2 and I could be wrong but are you sure that is not your grade? The 1 and 2's are the indolent or slow growing types and they can tell that from biopsies. The upcoming scan will show the areas involved such as above the diaphragm, above and below, left side, right or both, other organ involvement etc. This will determine your stage. Plus the bone marrow biopsy. I was diagnosed 2 years ago with follicular NHL grade 1 stage 4A. The letter refers to without symptoms(A) or with(B). I was very upset at being a stage 4 with the lymphoma very widespread but after talking with my hematologist was able to understand that with lymphoma it does not matter where it got to it is all still lymphoma and when they treat it, it all gets treated. In addition I had 50% bone marrow involvement. I now am in complete remission including the bone marrow. As to that bone marrow biopsy I just don't understand why so many are put through that with just a local anaesthetic. It's a rough procedure and they have the means to make it a whole lot better. My MD always puts his patients under light sedation one of the reasons being that they have to go in twice at the back of the pelvis both sides. I have had this procedure twice and both times I was put to sleep with what is called MAC sedation standing for Monitered Anaesthetic Control. It is great and holds much less risk and recovery time then general anaesthetic. I went to sleep and woke up when it was all over. I don't remember anything nor did I feel anything yet I was recovered and ready to go in less then an hour. In fact if you wear the right clothes(sweats) or something that is easy to get partially down you don't even need to get undressed. I felt fine with no nausea or anything and walked out with a dressing across my lower back. They medicated me for pain through the IV before they woke me up so the sore back came on gradually over the next several hours but was not too bad, just needed Tylenol for it. Tell them you want the MAC or light sedation and that you don't want to be aware of any of it. Hopefully they will be in agreement. Sorry this has gotten so long but for me at least I wanted all the info I could get and understand from anyone who had experienced it. Good luck!! Mary

    Grade
    Mary,
    You are absolutely right - it is grade not stage. I'll get all this lingo down eventually I'm sure. :)
    As far as the MAC I'll definitely ask for that. I, just like all of you here, have been tortured enough already so I'd rather be out as much as possible. The original biopsy left a 4" scar on my right groin and I can finally sit and move around better now fromthat procedure from just under two weeks ago.
    At least for me, I enjoy and am encouraged by your post and so many others...regardless how long they are. I want to know the good and bad from those with experience. Just as someone helped you out, and still does here, I appreciate the assistance and "family" atmosphere here.
    We all are on a similar journey but will experience many different things along the way. I'm sure my turn will come to help ease someone's mind or give a little advice.
    Thanks again and have a great weekend.
    Aaron
  • COBRA666
    COBRA666 Member Posts: 2,401 Member
    AaronW said:

    Grade
    Mary,
    You are absolutely right - it is grade not stage. I'll get all this lingo down eventually I'm sure. :)
    As far as the MAC I'll definitely ask for that. I, just like all of you here, have been tortured enough already so I'd rather be out as much as possible. The original biopsy left a 4" scar on my right groin and I can finally sit and move around better now fromthat procedure from just under two weeks ago.
    At least for me, I enjoy and am encouraged by your post and so many others...regardless how long they are. I want to know the good and bad from those with experience. Just as someone helped you out, and still does here, I appreciate the assistance and "family" atmosphere here.
    We all are on a similar journey but will experience many different things along the way. I'm sure my turn will come to help ease someone's mind or give a little advice.
    Thanks again and have a great weekend.
    Aaron

    GRADE
    Aaron,
    You are so right about your turn coming to assist someone and believe me you will appreciate doing it. It makes you feel great to know you are helping someone knowing not too long ago you were in their shoes . You will be looking for someone that is new to the site asking questions just so you can help them. We have new members all the time. Its not the kind of club we are looking to join, but it is a great place to be knowing we have people that share our illness and are there to help us. Just imagine the ones that are not aware of this site. Can you just imagine how alone they must feel. I went a month not knowing about this site and it was horrible. You feel so alone and apart from everybody else. It is an unpredictable ride for sure. Things will start to fall in place as you go. You will have ups and downs but you will be fine in the end. John
  • allmost60
    allmost60 Member Posts: 3,178 Member
    COBRA666 said:

    GRADE
    Aaron,
    You are so right about your turn coming to assist someone and believe me you will appreciate doing it. It makes you feel great to know you are helping someone knowing not too long ago you were in their shoes . You will be looking for someone that is new to the site asking questions just so you can help them. We have new members all the time. Its not the kind of club we are looking to join, but it is a great place to be knowing we have people that share our illness and are there to help us. Just imagine the ones that are not aware of this site. Can you just imagine how alone they must feel. I went a month not knowing about this site and it was horrible. You feel so alone and apart from everybody else. It is an unpredictable ride for sure. Things will start to fall in place as you go. You will have ups and downs but you will be fine in the end. John

    Sooo true john!
    Hi John,
    You were the very first person to respond to my post on July 8th. From that day on I found a new family and peace, dealing with this cancer. I too often wonder how many others are still looking for a group like this and having to deal all alone. Breaks my heart at the very thought!!
    Sue
  • allmost60
    allmost60 Member Posts: 3,178 Member
    AaronW said:

    Monterey area (California)
    People have definitely seen another side of me they haven't seen before - at least from an emotional standpoint. I'm in the Monterey, California area.

    Great picture
    Hi Aaron,
    I sooo enjoy when folks post pictures of themselves. This picture of you makes me think FBI..CIA..or Police Detective.... too funny, huh? Cool pic.
    Sue
  • AaronW
    AaronW Member Posts: 45
    AaronW said:

    scan
    Starbucks addict myself so I'm with you on that :)

    Thank you for the insight....have a great weekend.
    Aaron

    Tests this week....
    Well, Tuesday the 7th at 1pm is my PET scan (took forever for insurance's medical board to approve it as "medically neccesary")....duh of course it is! :) Ironically, it is our 9th wedding anniversary.

    Thursday the 9th is the BMB. I'll keep you all posted....

    Aaron
  • AaronW
    AaronW Member Posts: 45
    AaronW said:

    scan
    Starbucks addict myself so I'm with you on that :)

    Thank you for the insight....have a great weekend.
    Aaron

    Tests this week....
    Posted twice on accident the same thing...oops.
  • forme
    forme Member Posts: 1,161 Member
    AaronW said:

    Tests this week....
    Well, Tuesday the 7th at 1pm is my PET scan (took forever for insurance's medical board to approve it as "medically neccesary")....duh of course it is! :) Ironically, it is our 9th wedding anniversary.

    Thursday the 9th is the BMB. I'll keep you all posted....

    Aaron

    Wishing
    Hi Aaron,
    Just want you to know that I'll be sending my positive energy to you tomorrow and Thursday.
    Happy Anniversary to you and your wife..
    Thinking of you..
    Lisha
  • allmost60
    allmost60 Member Posts: 3,178 Member
    AaronW said:

    Tests this week....
    Well, Tuesday the 7th at 1pm is my PET scan (took forever for insurance's medical board to approve it as "medically neccesary")....duh of course it is! :) Ironically, it is our 9th wedding anniversary.

    Thursday the 9th is the BMB. I'll keep you all posted....

    Aaron

    Happy Anniversary Aaron
    Hi Aaron,
    Good luck on both of your tests and "Happy Anniversary". Will you be given something during the BMB? Don't forget to get that all worked out before Thursday. Things are moving right along now which will help keep the stress level down a bit. Be sure to share with us your test results as they come in. Thinking good thoughts for you!
    Take care...Sue
  • merrywinner
    merrywinner Member Posts: 626 Member
    AaronW said:

    Tests this week....
    Well, Tuesday the 7th at 1pm is my PET scan (took forever for insurance's medical board to approve it as "medically neccesary")....duh of course it is! :) Ironically, it is our 9th wedding anniversary.

    Thursday the 9th is the BMB. I'll keep you all posted....

    Aaron

    good luck!
    Glad to hear from you Aaron and all the best to you. Be sure and keep us posted as everyone here truly wants to help and reassure. Just curious did you find out if you can have sedation for your BMB? Take care. Mary
  • GalacDad
    GalacDad Member Posts: 40
    AaronW said:

    Tests this week....
    Well, Tuesday the 7th at 1pm is my PET scan (took forever for insurance's medical board to approve it as "medically neccesary")....duh of course it is! :) Ironically, it is our 9th wedding anniversary.

    Thursday the 9th is the BMB. I'll keep you all posted....

    Aaron

    Happy Anniversary
    Aaron,
    Glad to hear of the progress being made, hope everything goes well with the PET today.
    I'm sure all us here are wishing you and yours a HAPPY ANNIVERSARY. (just would be better without the PET). Hope you can get out and enjoy the rest of the day together.
    Dave