They just took my husband back to surgery

okthen
okthen Member Posts: 232
edited March 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1
You all may think Im crazy to be posting on a chat board right now but I am sitting in my husbands empty room because they just took him back to surgery.
All I have is my laptop, no family here, everything was looking good...
At about 630 he started bleeding from the rectum. About 830 they took him back into surgery.
I am so scared.
Doc said the connection could have came loose or it might just be a staple that came loose.
Dh was pretty snowed with the pain meds and seemed confused.
Im scared.

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  • AnneCan
    AnneCan Member Posts: 3,673 Member
    #2
    I am sorry
    I am sorry your husband had to return to surgery. Hopefully there is just a minor adjustment to be made + he will be right back in his room before you know it.
  • okthen
    okthen Member Posts: 232
    #3
    AnneCan said:

    I am sorry
    I am sorry your husband had to return to surgery. Hopefully there is just a minor adjustment to be made + he will be right back in his room before you know it.

    thank you, thats what Im
    thank you, thats what Im hoping for...they said 30 minutes and they should be able to tell me whats going on...
  • AnneCan
    AnneCan Member Posts: 3,673 Member
    #4
    okthen said:

    thank you, thats what Im
    thank you, thats what Im hoping for...they said 30 minutes and they should be able to tell me whats going on...

    Excellent! You will have an
    Excellent! You will have an answer before you know it.
  • Crow71
    Crow71 Member Posts: 679 Member
    #5
    Don't be scared. I know it's
    Don't be scared. I know it's hard, but these things happen. The surgeon will find out what's wrong and fix it. He'll be back soon.
    Take care - Roger
  • janei1
    janei1 Member Posts: 18
    #6
    AnneCan said:

    Excellent! You will have an
    Excellent! You will have an answer before you know it.

    Hang tight

    Hang tight
  • tootsie1
    tootsie1 Member Posts: 5,044 Member
    #7
    Sorry
    I'm so sorry you had to be alone for an experience like that. I pray everything is okay.

    *hugs*
    Gail
  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    #8
    Hun
    Honey, sit back, slow deep breaths. They caught a problem while your love is in the hospital, what better timing is that? They can fix it. He's in good caring hands.
    And if I were in the same situation as you? I'd be on my laptop too. You're not crazy, you're alone and scared and worried, after all, that's your love they just wheeled away, I would not expect less from my husband if I were in that situation.
    I only wish someone was there to hold your hand and keep you calm. I'm cyber holding your hand, my thoughts are with you and your husband.
    Just know, he's in the best place possible when having a problem, and you are there waiting for him when he returns.
    Have faith all will be well.
    My heart and hugs to you both.
    Winter Marie
  • christinecarl
    christinecarl Member Posts: 543 Member
    #9
    {{hugs}}
    You are not alone, we are all in that room with you *geez its cramped in here*
  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    #10
    christinecarl said:

    {{hugs}}
    You are not alone, we are all in that room with you *geez its cramped in here*

    Well said
    Well said Christine, thank you for letting her know WE are ALL there with her. Okay, who farted???? Buzz???
  • Ginx525
    Ginx525 Member Posts: 16
    #11
    herdizziness said:

    Well said
    Well said Christine, thank you for letting her know WE are ALL there with her. Okay, who farted???? Buzz???

    Surgery
    Sometimes the people on the computer are our lifelines. Your hubby is on good hands. Please let us know. Praying for you both.
  • stratplayer
    stratplayer Member Posts: 42 Member
    #12
    Ginx525 said:

    Surgery
    Sometimes the people on the computer are our lifelines. Your hubby is on good hands. Please let us know. Praying for you both.

    Better for it to happen now
    Better for it to happen now at the Hospital instead of on the drive back home. You have prayered and God is in control.
    God Bless us all
  • pf78248
    pf78248 Member Posts: 209
    #13
    We are with you!
    Just remember this is a powerful group who are here for you! Everyone is right. It happened at this best place ever. Let us know how it goes. He is in good hands!

    Hugs and Healing,
    Priscilla
  • SandyL
    SandyL Member Posts: 218
    #14
    pf78248 said:

    We are with you!
    Just remember this is a powerful group who are here for you! Everyone is right. It happened at this best place ever. Let us know how it goes. He is in good hands!

    Hugs and Healing,
    Priscilla

    Crazy?
    Heck no, we don't think you're crazy. You need us and that's why we are here for you. I'm sure it's just a simple fix and he will be back right away soon. But in the meantime, pass the sweet tea, please. Keep us posted as to what the problem was and how they fixed it, kay?
    Sandy
  • khl8
    khl8 Member Posts: 807
    #15
    No we do not think you are
    No we do not think you are crazy at all! We are here for you whenever you need us! I jsut saw this post this morning and pray that all went well last night!!!!
    Stay Strong!
    Kathy
  • Aud
    Aud Member Posts: 479 Member
    #16
    I see that you posted last
    I see that you posted last night. hope all is well with your husband. praying for you and your husband right now.
    ~Audrey
  • ktlcs
    ktlcs Member Posts: 358
    #17
    Aud said:

    I see that you posted last
    I see that you posted last night. hope all is well with your husband. praying for you and your husband right now.
    ~Audrey

    You're not alone
    We are all here for you..hoping all is going well this morning. Post when you can and lest us know how he is doing

    Hugs

    Kathy
  • mom_2_3
    mom_2_3 Member Posts: 953 Member
    #18
    Morning
    Thinking of you both this morning and hoping all is well. Please post when you can.

    Amy
  • sasjourney
    sasjourney Member Posts: 395 Member
    #19
    Hang in there!
    YOu and your husband are in my prayers and thoughts. He is in good hands.

    Hugs, Sara
  • pepebcn
    pepebcn Member Posts: 6,331 Member
    #20
    ktlcs said:

    You're not alone
    We are all here for you..hoping all is going well this morning. Post when you can and lest us know how he is doing

    Hugs

    Kathy

    we all praying
    for you !

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