Family just doesn't get "Watchful Waiting"

Hi all...We took a little mini trip to see some family over in Spokane Wa this week..(hubbys mom, brother and sister). They just can't accept or believe that "watchful waiting" is actually something I should be doing with having cancer in me. I explained in detail why I'm waiting to start treatment, but man oh man, they didn't hear a word I said to them. Even with my husband telling them it was "ok" to do this, they still insisted that chemo needed to be surging through my body in order to "cure" me. I finally gave up trying and told them they just needed to trust me and my doctors. The whole trip was consumed with them wanting to talk about the cancer, while all we wanted to do was to get away and forget about the cancer and just enjoy their company...ha! I know they love me and want me to be all well again, and as soon as possible, but thats just not the way this whole cancer thing works. We've decided our next mini trip is going to be to someplace where we can just relax and not have to discuss cancer. I think we will head out to the coast next week for a couple of days...do a little crabbing off the docks and R&R on the beach. Hope everyone here is doing good.

P.S..There's no place like "home" when you truely want to relax and be comfortable...ya know? I felt so tired after we got back and it felt great to lounge back in my recliner and sleep in my own bed! Must be a sign of getting "OLD"...ha!
Sue