Still nervous, but have some positive news

what to expect
Hi Chris,
Like yours, my Mom was diagnosed 3C in Feb '09, but any involvement outside the abdominal cavity makes it stage 4, so she was really stage 4 because of a lymph node in her groin. The paint splatter pattern you describe is the nature of this disease. It won't be until after the surgery that the doctors will know exactly where your mother's lesions are located. My mother's were everywhere, from colon to liver, and she's still with us! Don't let your fears blot out hope.

This is a major, major surgery, so be forewarned. After your mother recovers (usually 6 weeks, which is far from totally recovered) the follow-up chemo is to attack microscopic cancer cells and/or to further shrink lesions that could not be surgically removed.

Being your mother's caregiver is a winding road, and you are wise to learn as much as you can in order to do your job well. Then again, it may be the best job you will ever have.

saundra said:

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You can click on our pictures and read our history if we have entered one. I won't repeat mine here. I am Stage IV because I had tumors in my liver and spleen. I was diagnosed 3/2/2007 and am still fighting. Generally, any lowering of the CA 125 number is looked upon as "favorable". It is a good marker for some of us and not so good for others. I had four chemo rounds before surgery that shrunk my tumors (multiple) by more than 50%. The surgery was "optiminal" which meant it got everything in sight over 1/2 cm. Then I took 6 more chemos to clean up left over cells as good as possible. The debulking surgery is major and your mother needs to work on building her body beforehand. She is going to need your support. It is pretty hard to get all of the bad cells out but it can and has been done. We are here for you. Saundra

Hi Chris
I am also a
Hi Chris
I am also a caregiver.My Mom was diagnosed in Dec 2009.She had full 6 rounds of carbo/taxol first and she had her surgery in May.Her CA125 went frm 1200 in dignosis to 36 after 6rounds of chemo and before the surgery.
She is 3c as well.Her surgery went so smooth and she recovered very fast and there was no complications.the tumors were every where on her omentum,close to spleen and liver and also sticked to bladder.Her intestine is intact.She got home after 4days and she had her 1st round of chemo 10 days after surgery.currently she is on Gemzar/Campto regimen every 2weeks and each 2 sessions are a full dose.She did 6 sessions till now and after the 8th session(4 full round)she will have a scan and blood works.The doctor said if the results are desirable(I hope they are)she will go through another 4 rounds of the same regimen.
She is doing great with the new regimen and her hair is growing back.She also gained 6 pounds after the new regimen.(She lost about 18 pounds prior to her diagnosis and pretty stable during carbo/taxol)
I live in Iran and there are diffrent procedures than US here.This board really helped me to equip myself with information so I can help her.I am here for you and everybody in this board is a real hero.Educate yourself and be there for her.My life started getting back to a "new normal" and my mom also is dealing much better with the situation.Bear in mind that you are both in a road with ups and downs.
Hug
Sanam