Just Diagnosed

What kind of surgery are you having
Angie, you will find tons of support here. Any questions you have will be answered.

For me, my surgery was an exciting day. Couldn't wait to have that damned thing removed from me. I had a Lumpectomy and everything went super great and recovery time was fast. The only problem I had was from the glue of the tape; I found out I was super-sensitive to that.

If you are having a mastectomy, there are tons of people on here who will give you all kinds of advice.

Wishing you well.

Cindy

Just diagnosed
I was diagnosed two months on my birthday. At first I was numb and cried all the time. But slowly I was able to wrap my brain around the fact that I have breast cancer and that I was a fighter and was going to survive this. What have I learned?
Read these messages. The survivors here are a wonderful group of kind, caring and compassionate people. Imagine the power of total strangers sending you love and prayers. That's what this network is. I guess we really aren't strangers just members of a select club.
Sit in the recliner remote in hand.
Have lots of help.
Ask questions and have someone take notes for you. My brain was scrambled and I had some specific questions but didn't trust myself to remember them.
Drink lots of water
Buy button down PJs.Nothing over the head.
Using my laptop I started a personal journal. I needed s place to write down what I was feeling. It's just for me.

Call it a team, call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family. Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one. I'm not sure who wrote it but it seems appropriate. Prayers to you, June

MNLynn said:

Angie,
what kind of surgery are you having? I had a mastectomy - within two weeks of my "official" diagnosis. I am glad things went so quickly. For one thing, it probably gave me less time to just sit around and think about everything. I had a wonderful surgeon - so I was able to place my trust in him and felt good about that. I stayed overnight - was sore after that, but probably not as much as I had anticipated. I had one drain in - which was just kind of an inconvenience - especially when I showered, but it was not a big problem for me.

Please be sure to let us know how things go - we'll be keeping you in our thoughts & prayers. And, on Monday night & Tuesday morning - keep reminding yourself that we are there with you . . . and, yes, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

I didn't find this site until I had surgery & radiation behind me - I wish I would have found this when you have in your journey. These "sisters" have traveled this same path, and you will find so much understanding and support here.

With thoughts & prayers . . .

♥ Lynn ♥

Wonderful information provided with above posting ..
Breast Cancer just the term itself is scary .. Please note that we are here 24/7, and combined have 100 years of experience, surgeries, chemo treatments behind us.

Strength and Courage:

Vicki Sam

other web sites that you may find helpful
I got a lot of information from breastcancer.org and caring4cancer.com - and some others that I have bookmarked on my computer. I was on the computer getting info almost 24/7 . . . drove my husband nuts, but I NEEDED all the information I could find!

Good Site
Sorry for the reason you are here but you have come to a wonderful place. This site really helped me when I was diagnosed in March. I had bilateral mastectomy and so many people on this site helped me to be prepared for it. Ask questions -- no question is dumb or unnecessary. I don't think I have posted a question or comment yet that did not get a good response. You can be assured that everyone here knows what you are going through. Please keep us updated on what type of surgery and how you are doing, etc.

Welcome to the sisterhood!
I, too, was recently diagnosed and had a lumpectomy 9 days ago. It was not nearly as bad as I expected, but do be sure to have tops that do not go over your head for a few days. My doc said no driving for a week and not to lift anything over 10 pounds on that side for 2 weeks. I see my oncologist on Tuesday to find out what chemo has in store for me.

So much of what you will go through depends on your type of cancer and stage. The hardest thing for me (so far) has been waiting: to get results back, to get the path report back, to see the oncologist, to find out what is next - what I will need to get through.

Just remember, you can do this. You have found an incredibly spportive group of women here who have taught me it is okay to be scared, angry, etc, etc.

You will be in my prayers Tuesday.

It is so scary, but you have
It is so scary, but you have found a wonderful supportive place. I had a lumpectomy in March, finished chemo 2 wks ago getting ready to start rads in 1 week. Any questions you have someone here will have an answer. I have to say so far the surgery and the chemo has not been near as bad as I had imagined it to be. Just feel free to ask anything. God Bless
(((Hugs))) Janice

First of all... I'm sorry.
First of all... I'm sorry. The anger and fear is overwhemling, but you can do this and there is hope. It's big and ugly, and it seems like it will be forever until you are okay again. You can do this and you will come out the other side.

Be grateful it is the kind of cancer they can cut out of you. Can't do that with bone or brain cancer. My oncologist explained to me that the treatment for breast cancer is not as difficult to tolerate as is the treatment for other types of cancer. Much depends on how healthy you were before you were diagnosed. So you may not be as sick as you imagine. Yes you will be tired and mentally overwhelmed.

I'm told that most people undergoing breast cancer actually GAIN weight. (no body told me this so I purposefully gained 10 lbs in the month between surgery and chemo, only to gain 10 more during chemo. Jokes on me!) Recieving the chemo is not as overwhelming as I expected. They give you several pre-meds to relax you and help with the nausea, so actually getting chemo is not that bad. The anti-nausea meds they have work great. I was lucky and was rarely even nauseous. Sure I felt crummy, but was never actually sick.

When you are getting chemo, think of it as your ally who is helping you kill the bad cells. Your job is to heal your self mentally, emotionally, and be good to yourself physically so the chemo can do its work. The biggest battle is in your mind. You can be changed by what happens to you, but you can refuse to be reduced by it. (Maya Angelou)

I had surgery last December, started chemo in February and finished it 4 weeks ago. For a while it seemed it would never end and I was angry, angry angry. Now it seems like its gone so fast and I can see beyond the treatment.