A word about (blush) sex:

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  • MelanieT
    MelanieT Member Posts: 186
    #22
    Well I for one am HAPPY for
    Well I for one am HAPPY for you!!!!! That is one of the hard parts of this thing.. To love someone so much but have something like this taken away or stopped for awhile.. You forget how nice it was to show love that way!! Good for You!!!

    Loves,
    Mel
  • Buzzard
    Buzzard Member Posts: 3,043 Member
    #23
    MelanieT said:

    Well I for one am HAPPY for
    Well I for one am HAPPY for you!!!!! That is one of the hard parts of this thing.. To love someone so much but have something like this taken away or stopped for awhile.. You forget how nice it was to show love that way!! Good for You!!!

    Loves,
    Mel

    I too have some issues with nerve endings
    and sometimes it doesn't want to "rise to the occasion", but with Cialis or Viagra or 2 lortabs and a #2 lead pencil, anything is possible.....much love, Buzz
  • RickMurtagh
    RickMurtagh Member Posts: 587 Member
    #24
    Buzzard said:

    I too have some issues with nerve endings
    and sometimes it doesn't want to "rise to the occasion", but with Cialis or Viagra or 2 lortabs and a #2 lead pencil, anything is possible.....much love, Buzz

    Pencil
    You take notes when you make love? Or do you have to take some kind of test after?
  • coloCan
    coloCan Member Posts: 1,944 Member
    #25
    RickMurtagh said:

    Pencil
    You take notes when you make love? Or do you have to take some kind of test after?

    Might as well repeat this again:
    Me and my girlfriend make love like dogs:

    I beg
    and

    she rolls over and plays dead.......
  • geotina
    geotina Member Posts: 2,111 Member
    #26
    RickMurtagh said:

    Pencil
    You take notes when you make love? Or do you have to take some kind of test after?

    Taking notes
    I thought the pencil was to write directions!

    Tina
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    #27
    Buzzard said:

    I too have some issues with nerve endings
    and sometimes it doesn't want to "rise to the occasion", but with Cialis or Viagra or 2 lortabs and a #2 lead pencil, anything is possible.....much love, Buzz

    I'm laughing so hard!
    And considering my back is out, it is a VERY painful thing to do!!!

    I love you guys so much!!!

    Hugs, Kathi
  • bdee
    bdee Member Posts: 304
    #28
    Shayenne said:

    I
    Don't know what the preparations are, but I gave up, it just hurts too much when I try and do it. :(

    Hugsss!
    ~Donna

    Donna
    I know what you mean. It has been since November 2008 since I had enjoyable sex. My husband still gets his jollies, but I'm out all together. The one or two times we tried anything, I bled for an hour after, so we just gave up on me. But I really don't miss it. Even when my husband is "getting it on" I don't miss it one bit.

    Maybe that is just me, though.

    Debbie in Arkansas
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    #29
    bdee said:

    Donna
    I know what you mean. It has been since November 2008 since I had enjoyable sex. My husband still gets his jollies, but I'm out all together. The one or two times we tried anything, I bled for an hour after, so we just gave up on me. But I really don't miss it. Even when my husband is "getting it on" I don't miss it one bit.

    Maybe that is just me, though.

    Debbie in Arkansas

    I have always been a willing participant....
    But, after the rads, IT HURT!!!

    So, slowly with ME on top...setting the motion and the depth, it worked to get things stretched. I ALWAYS stopped when it hurt too much. Then pleasured him.

    But, ladies, I will say that persistence won the day! Don't give up!!! Remember, it's been since January 2005 that I've been rad-free. I am VERY happy to be 'back'...I missed it!!!

    Hugs, Kathi
  • 462lt
    462lt Member Posts: 117
    #30
    Thank you for everyone here
    Thank you for everyone here who shared their experience. I am single (not that it is any better for married people)and not looking forward to all the side affects and really concerned that I will never find Mr Right with all this baggage. So again thanks for sharing.

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