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Ensure, it's what my 100
Ensure, it's what my 100 year old Nana drinks.... My aunt blends up whatever she an for her.

Asparagus Soup
Pea Soup
Tomato Basil Soup

You can buy this all ready made at Traders Joes. Add flax seed/powder/Ginger

I would just experiemnt.

A banana, some frozen berries, and a yogurt to thicken....blend

Weighty thoughts


I went from 170 (overweight by 45lbs) to 114 during my
4+ week hospitalization.

"Ensure Plus" was the fastest remedy. I got an appetite back,
and put weight on quick.

John

For what its worth, I myself
For what its worth, I myself just couldnt get past the "wang" of ensure. Carnation instant breakfast has all the same goodies in the ingredients plus some, and the taste suited me better also you can use whole milk? It took me a few months to start putting the weight back on, at one point my Doc told me, "Here is what I want you to do, Ice Cream, and the good kind( meaning no low fat stuff) and take fish oil pills with it" another words start packing on the calories (fat) and the fish oil I believe was to help the heart out during this onslaught of lets face it some really yummy stuff. I liked the "perscription so much i sent and e-mail out to my family telling them what I was "ordered" to eat, lol. I was making shakes out of whole ice cream, carnation instant breakfast, and sometimes I even ground up a candy bar (he likes reeces peanut butter cups?)in there. kind of a DQ blizzard on steroids ! As others have said be patient, boy dont ya get tired of hearing that phrase, but its true. He will get there.
hope this finds ya smilin
chris

coloCan said:

I went from 178 lbs of muscle to 130 of skin and bones.....
Now, 8 months out of surgery,one month out of chemo, I'm up to 168 and working (slowly/lightly)out again. Used the "Plus" version for the 100 extra calories (350/60 vs 250 for regular, all 8 ounces)of Boost, Ensure or CVS brand, at times up to 5-6 cans a day til appetite improved and consumed calorie-heavy foods I was able to eat (during chemo I was actually trying to count calories so as not to lose anymore weight by keeping at 2,000-2,200 cal/day and I'd force myself to eat/drink)Once appetite improved I started eating healthier.Later, once told I can do so, i started exercising again to convert flab back to muscle and get some strength back.

Your situation is different than mine yet so immense at times was my own pain that I thought I'd never be as I am today yet here I am (in another two 1/2 hours surgeon will be removing defective port). The pain will gradually subside tho never quickly enough. Weight loss can be rectified once Jim starts feeling better as his appetite improves/increases.(I'm sure you've talked to your docs about pain killers, appetite perkers-Marisol. pot, etc) Healing takes time but it will take place and before you know it, he'll be running around with you trying to keep up....Hope all goes well from here out......steve

weight
Hi Nana....I think your hubby is not unusual. The liver surgery is not easy...I too went from 140 to 114 and was still losing when my husband demanded a dietitian. she wanted no empty calories like coffee or tea with sugar. She also suggest boost but I really disliked it. she stressed protein for healing so we did a lot of scrambled and boiled eggs, a bit of toast. Lots of tiny meals often. A mild cheese, nuts and sometimes a good comfort food like mac and cheese, mashed potatoes, vegetable lasagna. Keep switching the fluids so they stay attractive, various juices, fresh strawberry season is here....put a strawberry in cranberry juice mixed with sparkling water.
My daughter came home and nursed for two weeks....she set up several beds,,,,even unfolded the couch in the living room and made it up and a couch on on a porch. Basically hon I would just wander from bed to bed....Jess would tidy up the bed and put a fresh drink beside me.

blather....sorry....the point I am trying to make is that it is not an easy recovery...long but it does come. My back hurt....I think so many muscles in your front get cut....that it's initially hard to hold the body up. Walking helps....tiny tiny walks at first.

good luck....hope this helps even a bit....it will come...it really will

mags

The thing about a liver
The thing about a liver resection is that they bruise the stomach during the procedure. This causes the loss of appetite and that lasts for a few months. After my liver resection I lost about 35lbs. I've since found many of them.

I must be in the minority
I must be in the minority because I haven't lost my appetite at all. My weight has been stable since my resection 2 months ago. Being back on chemo, my tastebuds and sense of taste are going back to ick, but I do eat. I also remember someone else posting that after her liver resection she was ravenous..Sue Barnum I think. Perhaps Jim's appetite loss is related to something else rather than the surgery itself.? My 40-lb weight lsoss last year was due to the initial disease, dehydration,chemo side effects and ileostomy.

Nonetheless, you got a lot of advice and tips here...FREQUENT calorie-busting small bites throughout the day is probably the way to go so that he doesn't get "used" to not eating and to keep all his machinery in motion. I lived on Carnation Essentials/whole milk for many months, sometimes that's all I had all day, but I tolerated it and it had calories and coated my stomach well.

Good luck April and Jim....I know this is soo frustrating, but remember, he just got out of the hospital and is only a couple weeks from surgery and that infection. It's OK to be so tired, he's been through alot. He shuldn't feel guilty about sleeping and resting...I know it's so hard to not feel like you did "something" all day...darn that work ethic!

Jim's "something" is to eat, pray,sleep!!!!!! ((hugss)) Peggy

What I did
I have never been able to deal with some of the drinks suggested by others. My grocery carries a health drink called Boost...I use the strawberry flavor and it is easy to take the flavor...with others they seemed to have a metalic taste for me.

I also found that small portions of anything frequently were easier to manage than 3 meals a day. As others have suggested...favorites are often the key.

I also found some meds made foods taste or smell undesirable. If that is a problem, ask your doc if there are alternatives...I had to change pain meds for that reason.

Good luck with tempting hubby to getting the calories and regaining strength.

Marie