Patrick Kapper update

sheri22 said:

Carrie and Patrick
I am so sorry to here your news No you are not a quitter You do have the right to enjoy your life we are always here for you and your family
God bless
Sheri22

Carrie and Patrick
I am sorry to hear this news but at the same time I admire you for the choice you have made just being with your family and friends and enjoying life is wonderful and we pray you love every min. of it..

Shayenne said:

No Way
Are you a quitter Pat! I never think anyone loses the battle, I think of it more as winning over them, just getting over that cancer, and leaving it in the hands of our guide. We love you both very much, and hope you come on to still chat abit. I know the feeling of being sick of hospitals, appts, sicknesses and all, where you just want to stop already, your body and mind can only take so much, and the last thing we are, are quitters when we want things stopped. You survived, and like everyone else who has cancer or not, are going to go, and that's not quitting. You're just doing whatever you need to do to feel normal for a change! You are all in my thoughts, and positive vibes come your way!!

Hugeeee Hugsssssssssss!
~Donna
XOXOX

Being with those you love now Pat, will do you more good
than all the chemo in the world....You're mind is strong, you're not a quitter you're doing what needs to be done......steve

Patrick & Carrie,
My
Patrick & Carrie,

My thoughts are with you; in fact I went to Patrick's caring bridge site yesterday because I had not seen any updates on here for a little while. You are both an inspiration to me. I hope you enjoy much good family time. Don't even use the "Q" word, it shouldn't even be in your vocabulary - you are a fighter.

Carrie and Patrick
I'm so sorry to hear this news. And Patrick, I don't see you as a quitter at all. Cancer is a horrible disease. And you are Brave and Wonderful. Holding you and your family in the Light.

and Diane, thank you for posting.
Aud

Enjoy
You just enjoy the time you have left. Smell the flowers and feel the sun on your back.

Love ya
Brooks

Patrick and Carrie
Thinking about the two of you and your whole family. I pray that you have some wonderful time together. Patrick, you are a great guy and you deserve some good pain free days. You're in my prayers.

Aloha,
Kathleen

Carrie and Patrick
I am saddened by this news. I understand what he must be feeling wanting all of this suffering to end. I no he is no quitter and that sometimes this disease can just take over. You are all in my prayers. I pray your family creates more wonderful memories with Patrick.
Marie

"Big Time Fighter!"
Dear Pat

I have nothing but admiration for what you've done and been through. I remember the day "I lit a fire" in you on your post and you got back up and went so hard after it. Your response that day made me feel so good.

I had felt a "connection" with you, something I can't put my hands on, but I just felt it and thought I could help you keep the fight going in your mind, so you could withstand what you were having to deal with.

Hearing that spirit in your voice that day, made me feel so good. I thought ol' Pat is going to be ok - can't wait to hear the good news etc.

I guess I had no idea of how things really were, Pat. I don't know if you got it or not, but I did send you an email to your address from your CaringBridge site...looks like it was your personal email I sent it too. I still mean what I said.

Your wife, Carrie, had gotten a PM many weeks ago, and she told me she read it to you and that you smiled. Made me smile too - was important to me that we made a connection. Carrie seemed to think we would get along so well - I thought the same thing too. There was such a personal and friendly way about you, Pat. It resonated inside me and I thought this is a man whom I would like to meet in my lifetime - and his loving wife, Carrie too.

My wife and I talked about you - I told her that STL was not that far away, and that perhaps we could take a trip in the car and go see my new Amigo, when he felt better. I wanted to sit out on that porch with you and talk about Life and our experiences.

This may not happen now - but you know ol'Craig is still holding out hope that one day it will.

I totally respect your decision to stop the fight and have some quality days ahead of you. I've always talked about Quality of Life - but now it's Pat, who's showing me in person, how to do just that.

And as others have echoed, you are not a quitter in mine or anyone else's books - you fought this stuff "tooth and nail" and gave it everything that you had to give and more.

I won't bore you with any more speeches from me, but I'll close with a line that I left you with on our "FIRE POST"....

"Patrick Kapper is a BIG TIME FIGHTER!"

Love ya', Pat!

-Craig

live near STL
I didnt realize you were near STL. I live just across the river, about 40 minutes from BJC and the Siteman center (CAM) building, in Glen Carbon, IL. I dont know if I could be of any help but if there is something either of you need, I would certainly oblige if I can.
keeping you in thoughts and prayers
Chris
greybeard