oral after laparoscopic rp

mavoh50
mavoh50 Member Posts: 5
edited March 2014 in Prostate Cancer #1
hi i seen questions for intercoarse with leaking urine what about having oral my girlfriend was wondering on that is there any issues.i'am 2 1/2 weeks post op not much action going on yet she wants to try but i'm sorta worried.doing my kegals and my pad usage is only when i go out.thanks for sharing your info.

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  • lewvino
    lewvino Member Posts: 1,010 Member
    #2
    Every one has different
    Every one has different personal opinions on their sexual fulfilment. I'm at 7 months post Davinci surgery and still get some minor drips with my erection. They say that urine is sterile so that is up to you and your girlfriend to decide on your comfort level.

    Of course you can always limit fluid intake before sex but you may still get some drips.

    Larry
  • randy_in_indy
    randy_in_indy Member Posts: 496 Member
    #3
    I have experimented
    I find if you completely empty the bladder right before starting anything it helps...I am now continent but yet if I have any urine in the bladder it does come out on orgasm. You just have to tell her when you are ready and let her decide what to do.....

    Randy in indy
  • chorton581
    chorton581 Member Posts: 15
    #4
    randy_in_indy said:

    I have experimented
    I find if you completely empty the bladder right before starting anything it helps...I am now continent but yet if I have any urine in the bladder it does come out on orgasm. You just have to tell her when you are ready and let her decide what to do.....

    Randy in indy

    I will be following this
    I will be following this thread closely. My wife been after me about this. Who knows maybe i will let her take a wack at it to see what happens.
  • mavoh50
    mavoh50 Member Posts: 5
    #5
    lewvino said:

    Every one has different
    Every one has different personal opinions on their sexual fulfilment. I'm at 7 months post Davinci surgery and still get some minor drips with my erection. They say that urine is sterile so that is up to you and your girlfriend to decide on your comfort level.

    Of course you can always limit fluid intake before sex but you may still get some drips.

    Larry

    oral after lapro
    hi larry thanks for your info i will do that before we try anything i have only got little movement in that area right now we need to work on that first i'm sure it will take time before back i'm in action i hope-------- thanks good luck----- mark
  • mavoh50
    mavoh50 Member Posts: 5
    #6
    randy_in_indy said:

    I have experimented
    I find if you completely empty the bladder right before starting anything it helps...I am now continent but yet if I have any urine in the bladder it does come out on orgasm. You just have to tell her when you are ready and let her decide what to do.....

    Randy in indy

    oral after laparo
    hi Randy in indy thanks for the feed back i will empty the bladder much as possible before we start she is a little worried i'll just let her know when it's time i see what happens. thanks for sharing and good luck ---- mark
  • mavoh50
    mavoh50 Member Posts: 5
    #7
    chorton581 said:

    I will be following this
    I will be following this thread closely. My wife been after me about this. Who knows maybe i will let her take a wack at it to see what happens.

    see what happens
    hi give your wife a wake at and see what happens lol my girlfriend wants to do exercises and i'm going to see what happens she needs to work on the erection first it's only been 3 weeks post op for me ---- lets both see what happens ----- thanks --mark

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