In Loving Memory of My Dad

I am so sorry about your dad. I'm going through the same thing, I found out Christmas Day my dad has mastatic cancer or something like that. It has already spread from a tumor on his lung to his arotic window, bones, limpnodes, and spine. They have given him 6 months. I hope he doesn't have to suffer to much. They have already called in hospice. The doctor says he can't have visiters for 2 weeks, because he is so weak. It is hard on us kids not to be able to see him, one of my brothers is taking care of him. I know it is hard on him too. I don't know which is hardest, sitting with them watching them waste away or being kept from them. I have been through both. I helped take care of my moter-in-law and was sitting holding her hand when she passed. My father-in-law was living with me when he passed away in my home suddenly. They tried to tell me it was his copd. But he had a anurisum on the main artery from his heart to his stomic. They said if it got up to an 8 he could go in a snap. and that is what happened. No one will ever convence me otherwise. I know that is what took him so quick.

Condolences
I know no words can help, but I am sorry for your loss. How lame that sounds, but I don't know what else to say. I think many daughters have a special bond with their fathers, and it certainly sounds like you did. Take care, Fay