Update after a while

lizper
lizper Member Posts: 199
edited March 2014 in Ovarian Cancer #1
Hi to all, some may not know me. I'm posting after the 10th month my Mommy is now with the Lord. I'm 7 months pregnant and have been so very sad and deppresed. I have 2 lovely children. My son with turn 3 in 3 weeks and my daughter is 15 months old. On top of this, I just moved from Mexico to Florida 4 months ago.
I have been feeling so overwhelmed and just plain sad. I miss my Mom so so much that there are days I lack of energy and just can't Be totally with my family.
The closer my date of birth is the more frustrated, sad and depressed I get because my beautiful, loving Mother will not be with be this time to see the birth of her 3rd (not expected nor planned)grandchild. I always though of having a 3rd child but was more decided on staying with 2. My husband has been unemployed for almost 1 year and a half now, so that made us say no more. And after 3 months of my Mom's passing..I found out I was pregnant...of course needless to say under not the best circumstances... my grief and sadness, my husband's unemployment, our moving plans.I was medically assited in having my other 2 children since I have always had an irregular period and I was in a hurry to have my babies so that my Mommy would experience being a Grandmother before leaving to Paradise....and we fufilled that until this baby which was a surprise pregnancy (when the Gyno told me that I didn't even have to take any pills because the probability of me getting pregnant was very very low and he was surprised as well). So I think of this baby as a Gift from my loving Mother...as another person to love in this world in replacement of herself. Since I am an only child, and now an orphane, I will have a 3rd little miracle to care about and love and hopefully will love me as much as I loved my Mom. Since it was just her and me (my Daddy dies when I was 17 yo), we had a very special relationship.

I'm waiting till the date of birth to find out if it's a boy or a girl. I would like some ideas on the name, some way of a tribute to my Mom. Her name was Maria Guadalupe Enriqueta. She didn't like neither of her names, so I'm looking for a girl name and a boy name wich is not Mario, nor Guadalupe nor(which I like but are 2 in the family). Anybody with an idea of a name composed by the 3 names, or a baby name which means gift, present, miracle, surprise, blessing?? I'm looking for a Catholic name as well.

Thank you for your ideas and Bless you all

Comments

  • msfanciful
    msfanciful Member Posts: 559
    Hi,
    You have had a

    Hi,

    You have had a challenging time with all that has happened in your life. I am sorry to hear about your mother's passing as well.

    Just my opinion, okay? It seems and rightfully so; that you're in a very dark place right and like there is no end to your situation.

    Have you ever read "The Gift?" It talks about the power of persuasion of positive thought.

    Basically if you begin everyday appreciating and believing good and positive things will enter into your life...then eventually they begin to occur. It sounds crazy, but there is some truth in this. If you put out positive thought positive energy comes back to you.

    I'm also pulling out my book of baby names and will looking.

    Things will turn around for you... I'm a believer that God will not give more than we can handle.

    God Bless,

    Sharon
  • lizper
    lizper Member Posts: 199

    Hi,
    You have had a

    Hi,

    You have had a challenging time with all that has happened in your life. I am sorry to hear about your mother's passing as well.

    Just my opinion, okay? It seems and rightfully so; that you're in a very dark place right and like there is no end to your situation.

    Have you ever read "The Gift?" It talks about the power of persuasion of positive thought.

    Basically if you begin everyday appreciating and believing good and positive things will enter into your life...then eventually they begin to occur. It sounds crazy, but there is some truth in this. If you put out positive thought positive energy comes back to you.

    I'm also pulling out my book of baby names and will looking.

    Things will turn around for you... I'm a believer that God will not give more than we can handle.

    God Bless,

    Sharon

    Thank you
    Sharon, thank you so much for your words and for looking up a baby name for me as well.I do appreciate it. Hope you are feeling well.
    God bless you
    Elizabeth
  • BonnieR
    BonnieR Member Posts: 1,526 Member
    Hugs
    Hi Liz, just wanted to send you a ♥HUG♥ and know your mom is with you in spirit. Love Bonnie
  • lizper
    lizper Member Posts: 199
    BonnieR said:

    Hugs
    Hi Liz, just wanted to send you a ♥HUG♥ and know your mom is with you in spirit. Love Bonnie

    Tks!!
    Thanks Bonnie... by they way I have always wanted to ask you the name, address and phone no. of the Dr. who has been treating you all these years. To me you are a true miracle and example of faith and hope.
    A hug to you too!