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DaniellaM
DaniellaM Member Posts: 1
edited March 2014 in Ovarian Cancer #1
Hi! My sister has ovarian cancer and we recently found out she has brain tumors and that its also in her blood. We are waiting to go on thursday to find out her treatment plan but I am confused. I hope this isnt a stupid question but Are they going to give her chemo for just ovarian cancer, or chemo medicines for the brain tumors and her blood? I am new to this and just want to understand more so any help would be appreciated. Again I hope I dont sound stupid but its just so confusing to me on how they treat it once it spreads, because I know they use different chemos for different types. I know I can ask thursday but I figured I would try and find out here. Thanks!

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  • BonnieR
    BonnieR Member Posts: 1,526 Member
    #2
    Hugs
    Dear Daniella,

    I know women who have had ovarian mets to the brain, so they are still treated for ovarian cancer as that is what it is even though it is has spead to other places. I know Thursday feels like a long way off, but the drs are the only ones that can tell you if it is a secondary cancer or ovarian cancer that has spread. Please come back and let us know how the appt goes, and know you are in everyones prayers here. Hugs ♥ Prayers Bonnie
  • Barbara53
    Barbara53 Member Posts: 652
    #3
    hold her hand
    I can tell you suspect this is not good, and you are right. Did your sister have a course of chemo in the past, or is she newly diagnosed? That makes a difference in everything.

    The chemos they use for ovarian cancer are very big guns. However, the body protects the brain from toxins, which is how the brain survives chemo with little damage. This biological loophole also can allow cancer cells to hide out in the brain and secretly start growing. Rare, but it happens.

    My brother and I suspect that Mom is developing brain tumors, which may actually help protect her from fully experiencing certain discomforts from advanced disease. She is nearly 80, and has been a valiant teal warrior for a year. But nobody gets to live forever, and we think her time may be coming. Conversations have become halting because she has trouble finding words, and she can't figure out new things at all, but she tremendously enjoys very simple activities, like easy recipes and craft projects. I'm not lying -- in some ways, she may be happier now than she was before. She's living with more childlike joy, while becoming less able to comprehend all the bad stuff.

    My suggestion is to simply tell your sister that you don't care what comes. You will be holding her hand regardless.

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