out of the loop

always
always Member Posts: 256
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
I feel so disoriented. I have been out of the loop for the last few weeks. Firstly, because my internet has not been working. Then life kicked in big time. The list is endless. A few highlights. My dad went in for an angiogram and ending up in the hospital all last week and getting a triple bypass yesterday, no previous history of any heart trouble. My aunt who was diagnosed with lung cancer less than a month ago passed away on the same day as my dads angiogram and she was not buried until today. So I feel like I have been away from all of you forever. I am so sorry if I missed out on being supportive or congratulating all of the victories. Please someone update me!

The only two wonderful highlights, my beautiful ornament came the day of my dad's angiogram. It was there waiting for me at home when I got back from a 6 am to 9 pm day of getting dad settled at the hospital and mom home. It was perfect!!! And yesterday after dad's surgery and an even longer day....a card came from Chen, how great you are Chenheart.

But for the record, my prayers remained with you all. As they do now.

Always, becky
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  • tasha_111
    tasha_111 Member Posts: 2,072
    #2
    Always
    Huge Hugs to you! Jxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Sunrae
    Sunrae Member Posts: 808
    #3
    tasha_111 said:

    Always
    Huge Hugs to you! Jxxxxxxxxxxx

    Always, glad you're back but
    Always, glad you're back but sorry to hear all the sad news. Hope your Dad does well and hope you are holding up during this time. It is hard to catch up when you've been away. Again , glad you're back.
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159 Member
    #4
    Out of the loop indeed! So
    Out of the loop indeed! So odd, all of it, isn't it? One would think that going through BC would be enough on our plates, but other peoples lives have a way of intersecting with ours at the most inopportune time! I am especially saddened by the news of your Aunt's passing~my heart is with all of you. I trust your dad came through just fine and is soon on his way to a healthy heart full of love and a long,long life! We really NEED the internet at these times~ how dare it not be working!

    I am glad that at the very least, your ornament and card arrived to let you know how important you are to your sisters here on the boards. Because you "always" are!

    Hugs,
    Chen♥
  • Cat64
    Cat64 Member Posts: 1,192
    #5
    Becky
    I was wondering why you were so quiet. I'm so sorry about the news of your Dad & Aunt. You sure have had quite the storm. And here you are worried about us and what you have missed bless your heart! There's been so much going on lately it takes me a while to get caught up. My prayers are with you & your family and please keep us updated on your Dad.
    Hugz,
    Cathy
  • jennytwist
    jennytwist Member Posts: 896
    #6
    chenheart said:

    Out of the loop indeed! So
    Out of the loop indeed! So odd, all of it, isn't it? One would think that going through BC would be enough on our plates, but other peoples lives have a way of intersecting with ours at the most inopportune time! I am especially saddened by the news of your Aunt's passing~my heart is with all of you. I trust your dad came through just fine and is soon on his way to a healthy heart full of love and a long,long life! We really NEED the internet at these times~ how dare it not be working!

    I am glad that at the very least, your ornament and card arrived to let you know how important you are to your sisters here on the boards. Because you "always" are!

    Hugs,
    Chen♥

    Keeping you in
    my thoughts and prayers - so sorry about your Aunt. My Dad has similar surgery almost 10 years ago when he was 79 - he never had any indication of heart trouble either. He's still alive and kicking at 88!
    Take care of yourself!
    much love,
    Jenny
  • DianeBC
    DianeBC Member Posts: 3,881 Member
    #7
    Welcome back Becky! We have
    Welcome back Becky! We have missed you! So sorry about your Father and your aunt. I pray that your Father will recover quickly. Don't try to catch up, just come on and post when you can.

    Diane
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
    #8
    Becky
    So sorry that you have
    Becky
    So sorry that you have had all this going on in your life. When it rains, it pours, doesn't it? It seems that Chen's ornament exchange is a big hit and most all of the ornaments have arrived at the best of times for the receiver. I will keep your Dad in my prayers as well as you and my condolences regarding your aunt.
    I am glad you are back with us.
    Stef
  • newbiefromcananda
    newbiefromcananda Member Posts: 234
    #9
    so sorry to hear about your
    so sorry to hear about your dad and aunt..xoxoxoxo Lisa
  • Jeanne D
    Jeanne D Member Posts: 1,867
    #10
    Hi Becky ♥
    I am so happy to see you back! I am so sad to hear about your Aunt passing away. You have my deepest sympathy. And, your Dad having triple bypass surgery? My goodness, that is a lot for you. I will keep him in my prayers to recover quickly. And, I will put you in my prayers too. I think we need to hold you up for a little while until you can catch your breath.

    So glad that your ornament and Chen's card was waiting for you and cheered you up. I didn't get any :( I am in the Government Witness Protection Program and cannot disclose my location. I know..bummer

    Once again, so happy to see you back! I missed you!

    Love, Jeanne ♥
  • Ritzy
    Ritzy Member Posts: 4,381 Member
    #11
    Jeanne D said:

    Hi Becky ♥
    I am so happy to see you back! I am so sad to hear about your Aunt passing away. You have my deepest sympathy. And, your Dad having triple bypass surgery? My goodness, that is a lot for you. I will keep him in my prayers to recover quickly. And, I will put you in my prayers too. I think we need to hold you up for a little while until you can catch your breath.

    So glad that your ornament and Chen's card was waiting for you and cheered you up. I didn't get any :( I am in the Government Witness Protection Program and cannot disclose my location. I know..bummer

    Once again, so happy to see you back! I missed you!

    Love, Jeanne ♥

    Sorry Becky
    I am so sorry Becky to hear about your aunt and your dad. You have a plate full. I hope and pray that your dad will heal quickly and be just fine! Take care!

    Sue :)
  • natly15
    natly15 Member Posts: 1,941
    #12
    Ritzy said:

    Sorry Becky
    I am so sorry Becky to hear about your aunt and your dad. You have a plate full. I hope and pray that your dad will heal quickly and be just fine! Take care!

    Sue :)

    Welcome back. Prayers and
    Welcome back. Prayers and hugs to you.
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member
    #13
    natly15 said:

    Welcome back. Prayers and
    Welcome back. Prayers and hugs to you.

    As if BC wasnt enough, sorry
    As if BC wasnt enough, sorry about recent events Cyber hugs !!!!!!
  • Taina
    Taina Member Posts: 166
    #14
    sorry about your aunt
    I hope your Dad gets better soon.
    Like they say when it rains it pours.
    But you will see everything will be ok.
    I'm praying your father gets better and give you
    the strength and peace you need to keep on going.
    hugs and kisses you way...
  • always
    always Member Posts: 256
    #15
    Taina said:

    sorry about your aunt
    I hope your Dad gets better soon.
    Like they say when it rains it pours.
    But you will see everything will be ok.
    I'm praying your father gets better and give you
    the strength and peace you need to keep on going.
    hugs and kisses you way...

    thanks everyone
    Thanks for letting me grumble. My dad is stronger today then yesterday. I am sure he will doing better everyday. He was lucky, no heart attack. His heart is strong and now the blood flow will work the way it should. I missed you all and appreciate all of the love and support.
    becky
  • Jadie
    Jadie Member Posts: 723
    #16
    always said:

    thanks everyone
    Thanks for letting me grumble. My dad is stronger today then yesterday. I am sure he will doing better everyday. He was lucky, no heart attack. His heart is strong and now the blood flow will work the way it should. I missed you all and appreciate all of the love and support.
    becky

    Hi Becky
    So glad to hear that your dad is doing good. I am also sorry for the passing of your aunt.
    Good to have you back.

    Hugs
    Jadie<3
  • Kylez
    Kylez Member Posts: 3,761 Member
    #17
    always said:

    thanks everyone
    Thanks for letting me grumble. My dad is stronger today then yesterday. I am sure he will doing better everyday. He was lucky, no heart attack. His heart is strong and now the blood flow will work the way it should. I missed you all and appreciate all of the love and support.
    becky

    Welcome back Becky! So glad
    Welcome back Becky! So glad to see you on! I am so sorry about your Dad and pray that he will get stronger with each day and recover fully. My sympathy for the loss of your Aunt. Sending hugs to you!

    KYLEZ ♥
  • DianeBC
    DianeBC Member Posts: 3,881 Member
    #18
    always said:

    thanks everyone
    Thanks for letting me grumble. My dad is stronger today then yesterday. I am sure he will doing better everyday. He was lucky, no heart attack. His heart is strong and now the blood flow will work the way it should. I missed you all and appreciate all of the love and support.
    becky

    Glad he is stronger :)
    I am glad that your Dad is stronger today Becky! I pray that he recovers quickly!

    Hugs, Diane ♥
  • Gloria09
    Gloria09 Member Posts: 190
    #19
    Oh my,
    You've had a tough time. I pray that you keep the strength you need as you take care of your parents and mourn the loss of your aunt. Remember to take some quiet time for you so you don't stress yourself out.
  • Kylez
    Kylez Member Posts: 3,761 Member
    #20
    Gloria09 said:

    Oh my,
    You've had a tough time. I pray that you keep the strength you need as you take care of your parents and mourn the loss of your aunt. Remember to take some quiet time for you so you don't stress yourself out.

    Praying for you
    How is your Dad doing Becky and how are you doing? I hope your Dad is much stronger and that you are getting lots of support and help at this time.

    KYLEZ ♥
  • Alexis F
    Alexis F Member Posts: 3,598
    #21
    Kylez said:

    Praying for you
    How is your Dad doing Becky and how are you doing? I hope your Dad is much stronger and that you are getting lots of support and help at this time.

    KYLEZ ♥

    Praying that your Dad is
    Praying that your Dad is much better now. Huge hugs to you Becky!


    Lex♥

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