Jack is resting comfortably
The nurse did not show up so Im doing the care and he is so at peace, very comfortable and he even took a little water and rice milk so I was happy, I had about 3 hours sleep last night, but Jack is comortable so that is all that matters,,
Now we have him comfortable, I dont know how long he will stay like this, He is a fighter, he is so strong
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Keep talking to him......
Thats his comfort and yours also. I am so sad for you and Jack but the talks between the both of you now are more important to you both than they have ever been and also more consoling to you both. He hears you and understands and he is comforted when he knows that you are and will be ok. Thats what he needs to hear, also how much love for him that you have. Im sure he knows but the comforting sounds of your voice to him gives him peace and will to you also....hugs, Clift0 -
Patty and Jack, I am thinking of you
Patty and Jack- I am thinking of you both. It brings tears to my eyes to hear what's happening. Some day I will be where you are now. I'm not sure when, no one is. I'm seeing some decline in Dale a little bit everyday. Patty, I lit some incense yesterday under the full moon for you 2. Tonight should be the harvest moon. Step outside and love it. Hugs and prayers to you both.0 -
the rollercoasterjunklady said:Patty and Jack, I am thinking of you
Patty and Jack- I am thinking of you both. It brings tears to my eyes to hear what's happening. Some day I will be where you are now. I'm not sure when, no one is. I'm seeing some decline in Dale a little bit everyday. Patty, I lit some incense yesterday under the full moon for you 2. Tonight should be the harvest moon. Step outside and love it. Hugs and prayers to you both.
My emotions are lost, jack was our of it since Friday night so we are thinking this is it, so we make peace with that, Jack is on his journey then he wakes for 5 minutes and tells, me he loves me so then I get hope again , now he is out again, How long can this go on, I feel like I am on a emotional train wreck and hospice tells not to feed him, so is he hungry is he is pain, I dont know, This is breaking my heart Thank you for lighting the incents, I light one every day and say a pray, I need some kind of peace that Jack is ok ,
Im a lost soul without Jack0 -
I have not been in your
I have not been in your position so I will not even pretend to understand the overwhelming emotions you must be experiencing at a time such as this. I just want you to know that you and Jack are in my thoughts.
I will pray that Jack remains peaceful and that you are blessed with a calm heart and tranquility of spirit...
Trish0 -
Patty and Jackpattynonews said:the rollercoaster
My emotions are lost, jack was our of it since Friday night so we are thinking this is it, so we make peace with that, Jack is on his journey then he wakes for 5 minutes and tells, me he loves me so then I get hope again , now he is out again, How long can this go on, I feel like I am on a emotional train wreck and hospice tells not to feed him, so is he hungry is he is pain, I dont know, This is breaking my heart Thank you for lighting the incents, I light one every day and say a pray, I need some kind of peace that Jack is ok ,
Im a lost soul without Jack
Patty and Jack,
You remain in our prayers, I hope you will find peace.
(HUGS)
Steve0 -
hungry for youpattynonews said:the rollercoaster
My emotions are lost, jack was our of it since Friday night so we are thinking this is it, so we make peace with that, Jack is on his journey then he wakes for 5 minutes and tells, me he loves me so then I get hope again , now he is out again, How long can this go on, I feel like I am on a emotional train wreck and hospice tells not to feed him, so is he hungry is he is pain, I dont know, This is breaking my heart Thank you for lighting the incents, I light one every day and say a pray, I need some kind of peace that Jack is ok ,
Im a lost soul without Jack
Don't worry about food, because Jack's body probably can't handle it and doesn't need it. He's probably only hungry for the feeling of your hand in his. He is so lucky to have such a monumental love beside him as he moves closer to being with the Father.0 -
Since each person's
Since each person's experience with this roller coaster ride is unique, I can't say I totally feel what you are going through. I can say I have taken a similar ride recently and I know it is very hard. My prayers are with you. You have been a wonderful caregiver to Jack. You can always carry that in your heart where he will always reside. Blessings and hugs, Fay0
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