An interesting e-mail....on perception...we survivors would more than likely have stopped...
4 minutes later:
The violinist received his first dollar: a woman threw the money in the till and, without stopping, continued to walk.
6 minutes:
A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.
10 minutes:
A 3 year old boy stopped but his mother tugged him along hurriedly, as the kid stopped to look at the violinist. Finally the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. Every parent, without exception, forced them to move on.
45 minutes:
The musician played. Only 6 people stopped and stayed for a while. About 20 gave him money but continued to walk their normal pace.
He collected $32.
1 hour:
He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.
No one knew this but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the best musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before Joshua Bell sold out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.
This is a real story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people's priorities. The questions raised: in a common place environment at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?
One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be:
If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments, How many other things are we missing?
Hugs, Kathi
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TRUE!
Although I had heard it was Grand Central Station in New York ...This is true ... because Joshua Bell is from right here in Bloomington, Indiana and is on the faculty here at Indiana University. He usually does a free concert here on campus once a year and people line up for tickets the minute a concert is announced ... and gone as soon as the doors open. He is truly amazing to watch in person. Someone with so much talent ...
But ... I just wonder how I would have acted if I had heard him playing in the station. I would like to think I would have stopped ... sat on the floor and watched him in total amazement ... but ... then I wonder if I might have listened for a few seconds and kept walking. I hope not. I hope I am the type that can stop ... and enjoy and appreciate what is right in front of me. I hope I am not the type of person who would judge another person and make assumptions ... just because of the situation or circumstances. I think BC is teaching me more of that every day. I am trying my best to "stop and smell the roses" ... and trying not to judge others.
As we all know ... a person's life can change in an instant
hugs.
teena0 -
We were at a restaurant in
We were at a restaurant in Florida and a guy was providing music with a guitar and singing. Everyone just sat there eating. He was really good. So we clapped at the end of his songs. He realized someone was interested and put out a couple of his CD's that he was selling. We bought both of them.0 -
KathiMarcia527 said:We were at a restaurant in
We were at a restaurant in Florida and a guy was providing music with a guitar and singing. Everyone just sat there eating. He was really good. So we clapped at the end of his songs. He realized someone was interested and put out a couple of his CD's that he was selling. We bought both of them.
This was a true test of humanity, and amazing that there were so few who even noticed. As cancer patients/survivors, don't you sometimes feel like the world is passing you by and doesn't stop to really listen to you when you have something you feel is important to say? I do, and this experiment just goes to show you that unless you are a violinist, you can't appreciate the sound and emotion that goes into making the music. This was a tremendous story, and can be taken in context, and also applied to our lives. Thank you for sharing. Hope you are enjoying Holland and all it has to offer until September. Hugs.
Judy0 -
My daughter & I...creampuff91344 said:Kathi
This was a true test of humanity, and amazing that there were so few who even noticed. As cancer patients/survivors, don't you sometimes feel like the world is passing you by and doesn't stop to really listen to you when you have something you feel is important to say? I do, and this experiment just goes to show you that unless you are a violinist, you can't appreciate the sound and emotion that goes into making the music. This was a tremendous story, and can be taken in context, and also applied to our lives. Thank you for sharing. Hope you are enjoying Holland and all it has to offer until September. Hugs.
Judy
would definitely have stopped, because she is studying the violin and because of that, I have learned what a truly talented violinist has to go through to be able to play intricate music.
I am amazed everyday by all the complicated coordinated efforts she has to perform, and she's only been studying for about 6 months (she's very talented, I'm told, but I really wouldn't know what's "normal" at 6 months...).
BTW, I love listening to Joshua Bell on my "Ladies in Lavender" CD!
Thanks for the info...I hadn't heard anything about that perception experiment, and I'm glad you brought it to my attention.
Hugs,
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stop and smell the rosesbfbear said:My daughter & I...
would definitely have stopped, because she is studying the violin and because of that, I have learned what a truly talented violinist has to go through to be able to play intricate music.
I am amazed everyday by all the complicated coordinated efforts she has to perform, and she's only been studying for about 6 months (she's very talented, I'm told, but I really wouldn't know what's "normal" at 6 months...).
BTW, I love listening to Joshua Bell on my "Ladies in Lavender" CD!
Thanks for the info...I hadn't heard anything about that perception experiment, and I'm glad you brought it to my attention.
Hugs,
Debi
Since I have been diagnosed with bc, i find i stop more often to enjoy the little things , and things that were sooo important for me (being a perfectionist, cleaning the house etc) has taken a back seat to anything more enjoyable.
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I agree with Jackie. Irjjj said:stop and smell the roses
Since I have been diagnosed with bc, i find i stop more often to enjoy the little things , and things that were sooo important for me (being a perfectionist, cleaning the house etc) has taken a back seat to anything more enjoyable.
love, jackie
I agree with Jackie. I think after you are diagnosed with bc that you do take more time to smell the roses. I would certainly listen for a few, if I didn't like it, I would just move on. But, everyone deserves the respect to at least acknowledge them.0 -
I really like this Kathi!
I really like this Kathi! It is so true. People in general anymore are just moving too fast and not noticing or enjoying the small things in life. And, I know for me, after being diagnosed with bc, I got a whole new appreciation for everything. From the sound of the rain, to a song a bird might be singing. I guess partly, because who knows how long we have? And, I want to enjoy and live it all! Thanks Kathi!0 -
Kathi-thank you for sharing...Alexis F said:I really like this Kathi!
I really like this Kathi! It is so true. People in general anymore are just moving too fast and not noticing or enjoying the small things in life. And, I know for me, after being diagnosed with bc, I got a whole new appreciation for everything. From the sound of the rain, to a song a bird might be singing. I guess partly, because who knows how long we have? And, I want to enjoy and live it all! Thanks Kathi!
I think, at least for myself, even after the bc struck, I have not always taken notice of the little things around me. I suppose, it's because I get so wrapped up in my own pain, confusion, and (to be honest) my own personal pity party from time to time. These moments don't last too long, but they do come and go. During these times, no doubt, I have missed some of these small, but very special, moments.
As for the music, whenever there is a musician playing (even before the bc) I have been one to stop and listen. If I arrive in the middle of a song, I wait until the musician has finished and, often I would stay for another song.
Is because I enjoy the little things in life, or is simply because I need to slow my life down?
dmc0
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