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  • changing2
    changing2 Member Posts: 118
    #22
    Praying for you both!
    So sorry for both of you and I continue to pray for comfort. Wish I could "DO" something yet I know prayer is vital. Keep us posted and know you are both in our thoughts.
  • impactzone
    impactzone Member Posts: 555 Member
    #23
    changing2 said:

    Praying for you both!
    So sorry for both of you and I continue to pray for comfort. Wish I could "DO" something yet I know prayer is vital. Keep us posted and know you are both in our thoughts.

    I am so sorry... Caregivers
    I am so sorry... Caregivers are such a blessing
    Chip
  • angelsbaby
    angelsbaby Member Posts: 1,165 Member
    #24
    impactzone said:

    I am so sorry... Caregivers
    I am so sorry... Caregivers are such a blessing
    Chip

    thank you all
    calling pain dr he needs the pump increased they are going to have to come to my house angel can not make it to the dr office at this time He is bleeding from the rectum and his vomit looks aliitle like blood hospice nurse is coming today iv with fluid will be given.
  • ruggersocks
    ruggersocks Member Posts: 78 Member
    #25
    angelsbaby said:

    thank you all
    calling pain dr he needs the pump increased they are going to have to come to my house angel can not make it to the dr office at this time He is bleeding from the rectum and his vomit looks aliitle like blood hospice nurse is coming today iv with fluid will be given.

    I'm so, so sorry this is
    I'm so, so sorry this is happening and praying for relief of his pain and discomfort. Prayers for you to find peace and rest amidst all this cancer stuff.

    Hugs,
    Cheryl P.
  • dixchi
    dixchi Member Posts: 431
    #26
    Angel
    Strong supportive thoughts are coming your direction; am so sorry
    you two are having to go through this and I hope the hospice people
    respond quickly to the need for more pain meds.

    Hugs,
    Barbara
  • angelsbaby
    angelsbaby Member Posts: 1,165 Member
    #27
    dixchi said:

    Angel
    Strong supportive thoughts are coming your direction; am so sorry
    you two are having to go through this and I hope the hospice people
    respond quickly to the need for more pain meds.

    Hugs,
    Barbara

    Thanks barb and cheryl
    The pain dr came last nite up the pain meds but it seemed as if he was in more pain then before she uped it so i called this morning and the dr is coming out to nite to up it more. there is so much blood coming out of angels rectum the diaper he had on last nite was soaked with blood and clots this is so hard for me I can't stop crying.The ilesostomy bag has blood in it to. the hospcie nurse knows but just has words of comfort.We were up all nite him vomiting me standing next to him rubing his back until the vomiting stops that also looks like there can be blood in that to, My god my husband is bleeding to death I am so scared I just wanted him at peace when he passes, not pain vomiting bleeding. I called my son and told him he should come this weekend 6 hr drive from califorina.. I need strength right now so i can continue caring for my husband.

    michelle
  • dixchi
    dixchi Member Posts: 431
    #28
    angelsbaby said:

    Thanks barb and cheryl
    The pain dr came last nite up the pain meds but it seemed as if he was in more pain then before she uped it so i called this morning and the dr is coming out to nite to up it more. there is so much blood coming out of angels rectum the diaper he had on last nite was soaked with blood and clots this is so hard for me I can't stop crying.The ilesostomy bag has blood in it to. the hospcie nurse knows but just has words of comfort.We were up all nite him vomiting me standing next to him rubing his back until the vomiting stops that also looks like there can be blood in that to, My god my husband is bleeding to death I am so scared I just wanted him at peace when he passes, not pain vomiting bleeding. I called my son and told him he should come this weekend 6 hr drive from califorina.. I need strength right now so i can continue caring for my husband.

    michelle

    Close to You
    This is the time when I think all of us wish we could be there in
    person to support you and let you know how sad we are that it is
    so difficult. Instead.....if you could close your eyes and imagine
    all of us holding hands and surrounding you and Angel in a circle
    of love and caring....we are here for you.

    Huggs,
    Barbara
  • angelsbaby
    angelsbaby Member Posts: 1,165 Member
    #29
    dixchi said:

    Close to You
    This is the time when I think all of us wish we could be there in
    person to support you and let you know how sad we are that it is
    so difficult. Instead.....if you could close your eyes and imagine
    all of us holding hands and surrounding you and Angel in a circle
    of love and caring....we are here for you.

    Huggs,
    Barbara

    Barb
    I wish that to.

    michelle
  • dianetavegia
    dianetavegia Member Posts: 1,942 Member
    #30
    angelsbaby said:

    Thanks barb and cheryl
    The pain dr came last nite up the pain meds but it seemed as if he was in more pain then before she uped it so i called this morning and the dr is coming out to nite to up it more. there is so much blood coming out of angels rectum the diaper he had on last nite was soaked with blood and clots this is so hard for me I can't stop crying.The ilesostomy bag has blood in it to. the hospcie nurse knows but just has words of comfort.We were up all nite him vomiting me standing next to him rubing his back until the vomiting stops that also looks like there can be blood in that to, My god my husband is bleeding to death I am so scared I just wanted him at peace when he passes, not pain vomiting bleeding. I called my son and told him he should come this weekend 6 hr drive from califorina.. I need strength right now so i can continue caring for my husband.

    michelle

    I heard a remark
    On House, the other night, Cameron said 'Dying is MUCH harder on the caregiver than the one who is actually dying'. It made me think of you.

    I'm so sorry for Angel and all he's going through but I'm also so sorry for you. I cannot imagine what it feels like to WANT to take away the pain, make the bleeding STOP, help your beloved in some way and not have a way.

    I will pray for your strength during this time but also that you find comfort in some way, peace in some way and possibly even a few minutes when you can just step away for time for yourself.

    Hurting for you ....

    Diane
  • dorookie
    dorookie Member Posts: 1,731 Member
    #31
    angelsbaby said:

    Barb
    I wish that to.

    michelle

    I am here
    Michelle,

    I live in coolidge about an hour away from you. Just say the word and I will be there is you need me for anything. Not sure what I can do, but if you just need someone to talk to or cry with I will be there. Please dont hesitate to ask, cause I dont care how far I have to travel I will be there.

    God bless
    Beth
  • lisa42
    lisa42 Member Posts: 3,625 Member
    #32
    prayers and hugs
    Michelle,

    I just can't even imagine your anguish in the midst of all this. I will continue to pray for strength for you and for peace for Angel- a peace that will include less pain and no fear.

    God bless you my dear- I'm so, so very sorry for you having to go through all of this.

    Lisa
  • Joy1216
    Joy1216 Member Posts: 290 Member
    #33
    angelsbaby said:

    Thanks barb and cheryl
    The pain dr came last nite up the pain meds but it seemed as if he was in more pain then before she uped it so i called this morning and the dr is coming out to nite to up it more. there is so much blood coming out of angels rectum the diaper he had on last nite was soaked with blood and clots this is so hard for me I can't stop crying.The ilesostomy bag has blood in it to. the hospcie nurse knows but just has words of comfort.We were up all nite him vomiting me standing next to him rubing his back until the vomiting stops that also looks like there can be blood in that to, My god my husband is bleeding to death I am so scared I just wanted him at peace when he passes, not pain vomiting bleeding. I called my son and told him he should come this weekend 6 hr drive from califorina.. I need strength right now so i can continue caring for my husband.

    michelle

    My heart breaks for you
    I can't imagine what you are going through right now. My heart just breaks for you. I'm praying that you will be comforted and find strength.
    Joy
  • trainer
    trainer Member Posts: 241
    #34
    angelsbaby said:

    Thanks barb and cheryl
    The pain dr came last nite up the pain meds but it seemed as if he was in more pain then before she uped it so i called this morning and the dr is coming out to nite to up it more. there is so much blood coming out of angels rectum the diaper he had on last nite was soaked with blood and clots this is so hard for me I can't stop crying.The ilesostomy bag has blood in it to. the hospcie nurse knows but just has words of comfort.We were up all nite him vomiting me standing next to him rubing his back until the vomiting stops that also looks like there can be blood in that to, My god my husband is bleeding to death I am so scared I just wanted him at peace when he passes, not pain vomiting bleeding. I called my son and told him he should come this weekend 6 hr drive from califorina.. I need strength right now so i can continue caring for my husband.

    michelle

    Can we help?
    We live in northeast Phoenix (Scottsdale) and am ready to help or comfort you. Just let us know. You are not alone.
  • dianetavegia
    dianetavegia Member Posts: 1,942 Member
    #35
    lisa42 said:

    prayers and hugs
    Michelle,

    I just can't even imagine your anguish in the midst of all this. I will continue to pray for strength for you and for peace for Angel- a peace that will include less pain and no fear.

    God bless you my dear- I'm so, so very sorry for you having to go through all of this.

    Lisa

    Six days and no update?
    I've been quite concerned and wondered how Angel is doing, the family, etc.

    Diane
  • chynabear
    chynabear Member Posts: 481 Member
    #36
    dianetavegia said:

    Six days and no update?
    I've been quite concerned and wondered how Angel is doing, the family, etc.

    Diane

    Update?
    I too have been following your story. I hope Angel is doing better with the pain and you are coping as well. I think your name should be Ange's Angel.

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