throat cancer

hunpot said:

squamous cell
jeff i think you could call what your sister has as squamous cell, im not a pro but from the sounds of what you decribed thats what it sounds like, if you look or search youll see many differnt stories, advice, help , support under that wording of cancer.

There are many people here on this site who have beat this and are doing absolutely well.
It all depends on the individual and evryone acts differntly to the treatments so ALWAYS stay positive and have FAITH and BELIEVE becus it can be beat. Be there for your sister for support and just let her now that you want to be there and wouldnt change it for the world, doctors are not always right keep that in mind..MIRACLES happen everday and it may happen to you .
Take each day slow and day by day. It will be a long hard battle for her with im sure many ups and downs but just consider it a bump in the road and in time youll get over it. tell her to take the pre medicines and precautions doctors tell her about no matter what THEY will help with sickness etc..
i can see on here that there are many fighters and survivors so it can be beat. NEVER EVER give up my mom fought a long hard battle some beat and some arent so lucky.


here is my story
Sadly my mother died on Aug 18th from Squamous Cell Carcinoma top of voicebox, stage 4 cancer at the young age of 58.
In Feb 07 she was diagnosed with T2N2CMo stage IV cancer went through extensive radiation she was severly burned after 6 wks of treatments and we had to stop she ended up in hospital with a infection/rash 2nd degree burns. My mom went from weighing 160 down to 80lbs in less then a yr. She was always so sad at how she looked especially near the end. On oct 07 she had major surgery bilateral neck dissection with partial larnygectomy. She had tarche tube for about 2-3 months then. That was absolutely horrible i dont wish that surgey on anyone. The gtube feedings for 11months, she was able to eat by mouth for i think 2 months out of that time frame and it was the best thing for her at the time. The dry mouth and the sores, the 10 differnt medicines all got to be too much for her in the end.

Mom was so worried about losing her voicebox that they told her they would do everything to save it. Well they only took out the top and said they were positive they got all the cancer after removing ALL lympth nodes. (i swear they should have removed it all and it never would of came back) Well in Jan 08 cancer came back and had metasisided to both lungs NSCLC. They were going to keep an eye because it was to soon to do treatments and she wasnt able to have anymore raditation to much scar tissue and she wasnt healed yet form surgery. so in April 08 we tried taxotere chemo was having hard time breathing had to put trache tube back in (the edema(swelling) of her face got to be so bad at days that she couldnt even open her eyes she looked like elephant woman. in June 08 pet showed chemo wasnt working stop all treatments. She was a fighter and tried really hard for me and my sister to survive and beat this.

My mom went through alot in just that short time It was alot of hospital stays back and forth doctors numerous treatments but I was always there with her right till the last morning.

May God bless you all during this terrible time and may he find you peace and security throughout your ordeal and fight.. I will say prayers for you ,
tracy

soccerfreaks said:

Inspriration
Jeff, there are a host of inspirational folks on this site, and reading the board here will enforce that for you, if you are patient enough.

In the meantime, I am an SCC survivor of tongue and neck cancer, as of the first of September, 2005. I was a stage 3 survivor when they got to it, and I am now NED (no evidence of disease), here in March of 2009, although I will admit to a couple of hard knocks along the way.

Perhaps more importantly, in your sister's case, I play golf with a guy on a regular basis who had, not surgery, but chemo and radiation for his vocal chord cancer, and this was at least six years ago, because it pre-dates my own first bout with cancer by quite some time. He was about your sister's age at the time and he was strong and healthy and beating me on the golf course (a rather easy thing to do, but still).

I am not so sure about some of what YOU say your sister says about what the DOCTORS say. It sounds as though, perhaps, as in my case, they did the surgery and now want to do chemo and radiation to assure that they get all of the 'stray's'.

It may also be that they simply could not get all of the cancer, although in that location I would be perplexed...except for the desire to save the chords.

Riding from one hole to another one time, my friend advised that he would rather die than let them take his vocal chords. Pre-cancerous me insisted that this was totally out of character for him, that his vocal chords were not necessary to live a quality life.

A lot has happened to me since then, but I stick by that.

I once worked with a guy in his 60s, in the COMMERCIAL REAL ESTATE INDUSTRY where you HAVE TO BE ABLE TO TALK who had one of those voice gadgets, and all that it did was make him more memorable, more distinctive, and more courageous, in the eyes of all he dealt with.

Best wishes to your sister and her family, with special kudos to her caring brother!

Take care,

Joe