23 years old, 18 years in remission, and scared about fertility

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thanks!

kerrie said:

I had ALL when I was three. It's nice finding people that understand how you feel. I'm going through the same thing. I've always wanted to get married and have a family but I don't think that will ever happen. I hope you find the guy you are looking for. Good luck. I would like to talk more if you'd like.
Kerrie

family after cancer
Hi I am a 6 yr survivor of ALL and I went into what I like to call "instant menopause" when I was diagnosed at the ripe ol age of 33. I have one son who is now 11 yrs old. My hubby & I had always talked about having a second child. At this point in my life, with all the ongoing medical issues, long-term and late-effects from treatment, I am satisfied that I have what God knew I could handle. If I wasn't, I would certainly look into adoption -- no it is not near the same as conceiving, carrying and having a child -- however, I have many friends who have adopted for a variety of reasons and they have transformed a child's life. They would not now trade that child for ANY other. We are still open to the possiblity if God tells us to do it. For now, I feel I have enough on my plate and feel like I am just finally starting to have a life again. I know I could not deal with the demands of an infant.

For those who wish to have the option of having kids, I would go see a Fertility expert, ASAP! There are so many advances in the area of fertility as well as cancer treatment. My younger sister who doesn't have any other major medical issues, had to have surgery and go on fertility medication in order to conceive a child. They may be able to harvest eggs now and freeze to replant later -- if they can prepare a women to bear eggs who knows what is possible. Find out what your options truly are before you give up hope.

Blessings and best of luck to you!
tiggertoo

Survived and Still had Kids!
Hi to all,
Well all is not necessarily lost. I was diagnosed with Acute Promylocetic Leukemia in 2001, I was 23. I went through the chemo for months, and then constant trips back and forth to the hospital for Bone Marrow biopsies and everything else that goes along with the treatment. When I was diagnosed I already had a daughter she was 18 months, and I did long for another child. Because things happened so quickly I was not told anything about saving eggs before treatment started or that I may not be able to have any more kids until after it was said and done. Well...after all the treatments my doctor broke the news to me, that there would be no more children. But God had a different plan. In 2006, I went to the doctor, just feeling tired and having heartburn, well what do you know the doctor said Maam you are pregnant. I was in complete shock, my oncologist told me I could not have any more kids!!!! In 2007 my son Messiah was born, and yes he has a BIG name to live up too!!! He was premature, but nothing that God couldnt handle. He was out of the hospital in 1 month. Messiah was home for 2 months and I began to feel sick again. Went to the doctor when Messiah turned 10 weeks, and what do you know I was pregnant again!!! Surprise Surprise!! Waylek Jr, was born 9 months later, healthy and happy (same as Messiah except he was a little early for the party). All that to say, I was told I would never have babies again, but God had a different plan for me and my family, and he could very well have a different one for you ladies. You are all still pretty young. My boys just turned 1 and 2, and I am turning 31 next month, and hoping to get one more in to make 2 boys and 2 girls by the time my youngest boy turns 5. So it can happen, pray about it, he will work it out for the good! If you need to talk or just want someone to listen cyprss_t@yahoo.com