ER Visit

SMILES1001
SMILES1001 Member Posts: 23
edited March 2014 in Ovarian Cancer #1
hello everyone, all of a sudden things turned pretty bad.. my sister ROBIN and i came from beauty parlor went shopping brought her some nice clothes to wear and ate food and headed to her house we laughed we talked and suddenly things just went terrible wrong..

I notice my sister was pretty quiet so i relaxed on couch and watched a short clip of family guy than i said robin your favorite show is on no answer just as i said well let me tuck my lil sis in and go spend time with my boyfriend who i basically have not spent anytime with since my obseession with this cancer of my sister. so i shouted i bet your beat and as i turned cornor and went in the room I found her on the floor full of sweat, spit and uncouncious.

i called ems and parents and we get to hospital i had to tell them how i found her and guess what my parents were right in front of me so BAM they know everything we are in the hospital now im using black berry to get this off my chest my mom is a nervous wreck my dad is a pillar of tears my brother is lost for words and well me im pretty much DEAD ALREADY

my sister had a seizure this is strange she never had them before at least not that we knew of again my sister had so many secrets. her blood pressure is low exactly low not high they are checking her blood levels if all is bad a blood transfusion will be needed. its so crazy how one month your laughing with someone and the next your crying with that person. I havent went inside to see her yet because im so afraid of the betrayel that my sister must feels towards me i swore to secrectacy and i broke my promise just as she confided in me i go and tell. but i had to tell i was nervous didnt know what to expect. im in the waiting room looking at all these other people i cant look her in the eyes i feel so terrible some twin i am.

my boyfriend is here with me but he is not of much help he says she not mad in fact she asked where i was but i just cant go inside i just cant i feel like im about to just run out of here..........


so sad!

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  • saundra
    saundra Member Posts: 1,370 Member
    #2
    Right thing
    Emergencies change promises. You have a obligation to your parents also. This was an emergency and you did the right thing. Hopefully everyone in your family can be honest now and things will be easier. Saundra
  • carol2dogs
    carol2dogs Member Posts: 132
    #3
    Give yourself permission to be human
    Raven,
    I SO AGREE with Saundra!! Yes, you did the right thing. This was an emergency, and Robin's and your parents had every right to know their daughter was experiencing a medical crisis. You had no way of knowing just how serious it might be, or might become.
    Please go see your sister. You may find out that she is actually relieved to have her parents know. She may also be feeling guilty that she made you promise not to tell - she may be seeking your forgiveness while you are wanting hers.
    Good luck to both of you, and to your family!
    Love, Carol
  • floridajo
    floridajo Member Posts: 480
    #4
    ER
    I so agree with all the ladies thus far. I'm also quite sure your sis will not be mad and understand..and if she doesn't just ask her what she would have done in your shoes. Right now I'm sure your parents are mad at you (for not informing them earlier) as well as being worried sick. You can't bear this alone and you shouldn't have to...that is what families are for. Now that it's all out in the open your sister will see how much better things will be, this disease is just too heavy for anyone or two people can carry alone....YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!!!! I'll keep your family and sister in prayer~~~~Joanne
  • green50
    green50 Member Posts: 312
    #5
    go to her
    You need to see her and I don't think its betrayal when its her health and if something happened to her and no one got to see her what would they feel? You were right in what you did and she will have love for you not anythng else. My prayers are with you all.
    Sandy Green

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