problems with plastic surgeon/please advise

I am desperate and don't know what to do: somebody please give some advice! I had a mastectomy and lattissimus dorsi flap reconstruction on Feb. 21. My plastic surgeon technically did an excellent job with the reconstruction, but I am having big problems with his office. When I went to see him initially, he told me he would do the surgery, but that while I was in the hospital recuperating, residents would see me 'because he could not handle seeing his female patients suffer and for emotional reasons.' However, he said he would see me at his office when I got out of the hospital. Well, it has been over a month now and I only see his Physicians' Assistant - he has not seen me one single time! Is this normal? I am very concerned that I have developed a seroma (fluid build up) which feels like a golf ball under my arm and I want him to look at it. I have an appt. on Monday and intend to demand that I see the doctor himself, not his P.A. The reason I have not done this so far is that the schedule is so difficult: I am working full-time and going out to his office 45 minutes away twice a week to drain the seroma. Another problem is that he has two offices - one nearer my home and another further away - and I have asked repeatedly to be seen at the closer one, only to be refused (they say they use the closer office only for new patient evaluations, which they did not tell me before). I have explained what a hardship it is to go from my home to the further office a million times, but to no avail. My sister is a pediatrician who actually refers to this doctor and is going to call him on Monday to discuss the whole thing. Someone on this board suggested I get someone closer to drain the fluid and just see this plastic surgeon periodically: I did explore this option with several people, but was told one surgeon does not want to deal with someone else's work and that they did not want to do it because you have to have special training to drain it so as not to puncture the implant. So I can't even go to anyone else! I feel like a prisoner of this doctor and I am becoming extremely worried about the seroma not going away which is like a golf ball behind my arm. Can anyone give me some advice, or is there anything I can do? Is this normal for a doctor not to see his patient after this long? I feel extremely angry and lied to. Ohilly