Reconstruction confusion

ok seof you asked-- this may be WAY tmi, but here goes. I had a mastect. on the right side with saline implant. That breast area, most of my underarm, back of my arm and a bit of my shoulderblade area are numb- it's not a big deal in everyday life, but it does bother me as a "woman." I had a reduction and lift on the other side at same time as mastect-- that side is great -- about 95% sensitivity. Mine slightly don't match, but I wear a bra with slight padding and I'm good to go :-).

Hope this helps....hugs to you and prayers for the best decision for you!

seof, here is my take and experience. I had a radical mastectomy Dec 2005, chemo and radiation, 19 lymph nodes removed, 17 malignant so I had no choice but to have the mastectomy. I am a DD cup and the prostethis I wear is very heavy and bulky and does not match, Swimming is another story with the larges size (C) cup form for mastectomy bathing suits. I looked into reconstruction, and have another appointment November to see the Plastic Surgeon, they wanted to do the flap thing but due to radiation and dead skin cells they said it would most likely not take, I seen pics of others and didn't like the results, so for ME I am opting to have another mastectomy on the R side and getting two forms after "smaller ones" not so heavy. It's a personal dicision but one I can live with. If I was 30 again I probably would go for reconstruction but I am 59.
God bless you and help you make your dicision.

I had multifocal ductal carcinoma on the right, no node involvement, and had a right mastectomy without reconstruction. I debated having the DIEP flap reconstruction, but after feeling a prosthesis and seeing how okay it felt, I opted for the prosthesis and no reconstruction. I was an almost A cup to begin with so the prosthesis was light and easy to wear. I thought it would preserve more nerve function to have less surgery and that I would recover faster. It is a bit of a bother selecting the right swimsuits (Landsend helps in that department) and there are a few other fashions I can't consider wearing, but for the most part I don't have any problems or concerns. I was able to reach above my head within 30 hours of surgery and I was back to work in less than 2 weeks. I have plenty of nerves left though the strip that was stitched is numb and some of the other nerves react differently than they used to. I worry about the other side when I have mammograms, but it has been 5 years and nothing has happened over on the left yet. They are keeping a close eye on things as I am at high risk, but meanwhile I have the pleasure of one breast with normal nerve functioning. You will have to decide if you can sleep at night if you keep your breast. Also look into DIEP and SIEP flaps if you are near a large city with breast reconstruction experts. Only about 10 to 20 centers offer these options, so I am told, but they offer faster recovery and less body insult than the Tram flap. If all goes well, they do not need to be replaced like the implants might. The Susan Love site has information on reconstruction decision making I found useful. Good luck!

I had DCIS, left breast. As the right side was not involved, I had only the left breast removed. The first plastic surgeon botched the reconstruction in a major way, and I've just had it redone. 1st time around I got a saline imlant on the left side, reduction & lift on the right. I found the saline implant to be HORRIBLE (could have a lot to do with the surgeon) and he got carried away with the reduction so my right breast was about half the size. The new surgeon replaced the saline implant with silicone and put in a small silincone implant on the right to bring it up to size. They don't match exactly, but they're much better and I think I'll be very pleased with the results when everything is all healed. I have wondered MANY times if I shouldn't have gone ahead and done bi-lateral, both for the peace of mind, and for better reconstruction results. I'm glad you're at least looking into it before making your decision. I didn't. I don't know if I would have decided any differently, but I'll always wonder.