My uncle
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Monica,
I am so sorry to hear about your uncle's emergency. I would strongly urge you to get a second or third opinion on this one. It seems to me, a lay person I may be, that the quickest way to get rid of a hunk of poison is surgery. I've heard of radiation before surgery, but not radiation instead of surgery.
Follow your good instincts on the 2nd opinion thing.
Best of luck to you and your uncle!
Ying0 -
I'm a physician but not a surgeon. However it seems to me that his best chance would be surgery. Obviously, with his diabetes and vascular disease he is at higher risk of complications. On the other hand, I presume he made it through his bypass surgery and that would be a higher risk operation than this. I would recommend getting another opinion. We don't have all the particulars of his situation but it merits one or more other looks.
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Monica -
I'm in violent agreement with Ying and ****, surgery would - intuitively - seem to be the best option. Did the doc say radiation "in lieu of" surgery or is the plan to nuke the bugger, shrink it to a more manageable (read as "we'll have to do less invasive surgery") size and THEN do surgery? That's a very common practice - especially when the tumor is large and/or located near the rectum.
Talk to the doc, or have your uncle's family talk to the doc again and get it straight from the horse's mouth as to what the proposed treatment regime will be. I'd say that, if the plan is to just nuke it and hope for the best, you're right on track with getting a second opinion.
Keeping your family in my prayers.
- SpongeBob
PS - Is your uncle here in the states or is he outside the US? That might make a difference, too. I seem to recall that you're Boriqua. If your uncle is in Puerto Rico, maybe a consult in Miami would be a reasonable option?0 -
Hi SB: We are actually in Toronto, Canada, although Boriqua would be much more exotic. The surgeon told my aunt that surgery would be too intensive, which suggests to me they are worried about his other conditions. He is also 73, which I believe plays a huge part in how doctors determine treatment. I do agree with all of you that surgery is the best option and I will strongly urge my aunt and uncle to get another opinion. Thanks. Monicaspongebob said:Monica -
I'm in violent agreement with Ying and ****, surgery would - intuitively - seem to be the best option. Did the doc say radiation "in lieu of" surgery or is the plan to nuke the bugger, shrink it to a more manageable (read as "we'll have to do less invasive surgery") size and THEN do surgery? That's a very common practice - especially when the tumor is large and/or located near the rectum.
Talk to the doc, or have your uncle's family talk to the doc again and get it straight from the horse's mouth as to what the proposed treatment regime will be. I'd say that, if the plan is to just nuke it and hope for the best, you're right on track with getting a second opinion.
Keeping your family in my prayers.
- SpongeBob
PS - Is your uncle here in the states or is he outside the US? That might make a difference, too. I seem to recall that you're Boriqua. If your uncle is in Puerto Rico, maybe a consult in Miami would be a reasonable option?0 -
Sorry about that - I knew it was one of them thar furrin' kountrees.Monicaemilia said:Hi SB: We are actually in Toronto, Canada, although Boriqua would be much more exotic. The surgeon told my aunt that surgery would be too intensive, which suggests to me they are worried about his other conditions. He is also 73, which I believe plays a huge part in how doctors determine treatment. I do agree with all of you that surgery is the best option and I will strongly urge my aunt and uncle to get another opinion. Thanks. Monica
Anyway, I wonder if they could shrink the tumor sufficiently that they could do laproscopic surgery - with significantly less trauma - later. I'm not sure if that would be an option while still ensuring clean margains, but certainly something to ask about.
Cheers0
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