Am so glad to have tis place

kcwood
kcwood Member Posts: 5
edited March 2014 in Caregivers #1
So happy to have find this place. My husbands has bones cancers and lung for 2 years we done everything to expend his life Now he is talking Traciva He is home I care for him 24 hrs day Hospice come and help 2 hrs day Am Trying to giving him quality life Feel so alone ;and am so afraid Hoping to find friends in this room

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  • CanadaSue
    CanadaSue Member Posts: 339 Member
    #2
    HI,

    I to am a caregiver. My husband has colorectal cancer stage 4.

    While my husband is still doing very well, I know full well there may come a day, when things will change.
    I am so sorry that you feel all alone, do you have any family or friends that can help you out?

    Just talking to someone helps me to get by. But most people do not realize what we, the caregivers go thru everyday. It is a frustrating at times, waiting for the results of tests, and I am usually holding my breath till we have the results.

    The tears I have shed when alone I could have built a small pond in my backyard. I try to be strong, but somedays I crumble. I won't try to say I know what you feel like, because I don't.
    Please message back and maybe we can start e-mailing each other. You are not alone, I will be here for you to sound off to, because I need a friend to!

    You are both in my thoughts and prayers.


    Sue
  • kcwood
    kcwood Member Posts: 5
    #3
    CanadaSue said:

    HI,

    I to am a caregiver. My husband has colorectal cancer stage 4.

    While my husband is still doing very well, I know full well there may come a day, when things will change.
    I am so sorry that you feel all alone, do you have any family or friends that can help you out?

    Just talking to someone helps me to get by. But most people do not realize what we, the caregivers go thru everyday. It is a frustrating at times, waiting for the results of tests, and I am usually holding my breath till we have the results.

    The tears I have shed when alone I could have built a small pond in my backyard. I try to be strong, but somedays I crumble. I won't try to say I know what you feel like, because I don't.
    Please message back and maybe we can start e-mailing each other. You are not alone, I will be here for you to sound off to, because I need a friend to!

    You are both in my thoughts and prayers.


    Sue

    Thank you answering my message feel like i meet a new friends I do have children but they have their own family And help me as much they can My husband has bones cancer Eveything has ben done to prolone his life After 2 years of Chemo and Radiation None work anymore So now we trying a new pill Traveca I am Washing cancer talking a lttle bit more of him everyday Very frustrating and nothing cant do except make him confortable Hospice care is here to help me everyday
    Would like very to e-mail Canadasue please tell me how Am very new to this place Would like to find other good caregiver chat room
    God bless
  • kcwood
    kcwood Member Posts: 5
    #4
    CanadaSue said:

    HI,

    I to am a caregiver. My husband has colorectal cancer stage 4.

    While my husband is still doing very well, I know full well there may come a day, when things will change.
    I am so sorry that you feel all alone, do you have any family or friends that can help you out?

    Just talking to someone helps me to get by. But most people do not realize what we, the caregivers go thru everyday. It is a frustrating at times, waiting for the results of tests, and I am usually holding my breath till we have the results.

    The tears I have shed when alone I could have built a small pond in my backyard. I try to be strong, but somedays I crumble. I won't try to say I know what you feel like, because I don't.
    Please message back and maybe we can start e-mailing each other. You are not alone, I will be here for you to sound off to, because I need a friend to!

    You are both in my thoughts and prayers.


    Sue

    Thank you answering my message feel like i meet a new friends I do have children but they have their own family And help me as much they can My husband has bones cancer Eveything has ben done to prolone his life After 2 years of Chemo and Radiation None work anymore So now we trying a new pill Traveca I am Washing cancer talking a lttle bit more of him everyday Very frustrating and nothing cant do except make him confortable Hospice care is here to help me everyday
    Would like very to e-mail Canadasue please tell me how Am very new to this place Would like to find other good caregiver chat room
    God bless
  • stressed
    stressed Member Posts: 24
    #5
    Keep your chin up and pray daily to whoever you believe in. I chose a star & talk to it nightly and every morning I thank God for another day. My husband began his battle in Dec., and it's not over yet. I also took care of him and 3 young children 24/7. Keep your chin up - look for happy things, and remember - you are loved - it's not your fault. Also - pulling at hair and screaming helps! LOL!!!

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