Reconstruction.

Hi Sandy,

I had my reconstruction done with implants in 1990, so it has been awhile, but yes I did have some problems with my reconstruction. I encapsulated and had to have the surgery 3 times. However, my plastic surgeon was a woman and she worked very hard with me to give me the best possible outcome. Because my body forms so much scar tissue, I never did achieve a perfect symmetry. The reconstructed breast is smaller and flatter than the other side, but in a good fitting bra, it is not noticeable. Talk with your surgeon and if you do not receive the answers you would like, then seek a second opinion. My plastic surgeon gave me names and phone numbers of other patients, so I could speak with them. I also was one of the patients she referred her "less than perfect results" to, so I could help them through the process. I don't want to give you any medical advice, but you may want to consider postponing the nipple reconstruction until you are happy with the first results. There are many fashions that I cannot wear, such as anything strapless, but in the long run I consider the other consequences, and I am very happy to still be alive and enjoying life to the fullest.

I wish for you the very best and pray that you achieve the results that you want. Remember, not all doctors are alike and each has his/her own style. Find one that best matches what you want and is willing to discuss all issues with you and is very honest with what can or cannot be achieved. You may need to wait a couple of months for the implants to settle in also. I know for me it took several months before we could tell if the breast would soften up and form a more rounded appearance.

I hope this helps you a little.

God Bless,
Kathy

Future said:

I can understand you feeling weary. I started reconstruction last April, major infections, etc and in December had implant put in on one side (have last dorsi flap on the other). I'm like you, very uneven. Saw my surgeon this week and we discussed options and in couple of months going to work on the side with implant to "nip and tuck" to give better symmetry.

Because of that he wants to hold off on nipples and tattoos.

Talk to your surgeon again, ask him what can be done to give you better symmetry. There is nothing wrong with questions.

I'm lucky, I've got a surgeon who takes time to explain things, what can and can't be done, risks, etc. Some appointments have lasted almost an hour. I know I'll probably never be "equal" but he's working with me to try to get the best results.

Don't get discouraged, just tell the surgeon what your expectations are and if he says can't be done, have him explain why. If you think you're going to need more surgery think about holding off on the nipples,

Stay in touch.

What kind of implants did you get--silicone or saline? Do you know when the new gel silicone implants came out? Do you have any joint pain?