Is this the end for my mom

laurieladybug
laurieladybug Member Posts: 1 *
in Lung Cancer #1

My mom has been fighting metastic lung cancer for 2 years . She did chemo and immunotherapy for 1 year . Stopped chemo kept up Ketruda . Went along 6 months pretty good- tumors starting growing again suggested chemo. One treatment and things went down hill awful. She can’t even brush her own teeth. She’s so weak 98 lbs. Has anyone else experienced this ? Thank you for giving me a place to ask questions!

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  • eDivebuddy
    eDivebuddy Member Posts: 38 Member
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    I'm so sorry to hear what your family has been going through these past two years. Your mom's setbacks are heartbreaking, especially after she initially responded so well. Unfortunately, cancer and its treatments can take such a toll on both the mind and body, and the shock and disappointment after such a long battle can make it even harder.

    Talk with her care team about your worries. They might be able to adjust her medications to make the chemotherapy more tolerable. It's also important to ensure she's taking her medications as prescribed and not skipping doses, even if she's feeling well at the moment. Chemotherapy often makes eating difficult, so small, frequent meals throughout the day can help. Protein drinks are a good way to supplement her diet, and sports drinks can replenish electrolytes and keep her hydrated. Remember, hydration and calories are key. Don’t stress too much about eating "healthy". An eaten Twinkie is better than an uneaten apple.

    Even if it feels like the end may be near, don’t give up hope. I’ve been there. I woke up in the ICU and was told I had maybe 30 days to live without brain surgery, and if it was successful, perhaps 3 to 6 months. That was over four years ago.

    While everyone’s journey is unique, many here have faced similar struggles. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing you’re not alone. Even in the toughest moments, small victories like managing symptoms or sharing meaningful moments can make a big difference.

    Caregiving can be just as hard, if not harder, than being the patient. Please make sure to take care of yourself, too. Many cancer centers offer emotional support for family members, don’t hesitate to reach out for help.

    Keep asking questions and advocating for your mom. Most cancer centers have nurse navigators who can help you understand the care process and explain what’s happening along the way.

    Good luck to your family. You're not alone in this fight.

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