Expected to keep a chemo port for 10 years.

I am so disgusted. I don't even know where to begin. I have been a cancer patient for 15 months already. I have survived 16 chemo treatments, my right breast being surgically removed, 5 lymph nodes removed, 18 radiation treatments. I could only tolerate my chemo port for 3 months. About a week after I got the chemo port, I had numbness in the right side of my neck and right side of my face. I called my oncologist and was told if I had nobody to drive me to call 911 and have EMS come and pick me up and take me to the ER. When the ER realized I was just having the signs and symptoms of a stroke without actually having a stroke I was given a one way bus ticket and sent home on a public bus. Nobody took an x-ray or any other type of test to see if something was wrong with my port. For 3 months, I was wearing a neck collar around the house that I bought from a pharmacy to try to keep pressure off my neck. I had trouble going to sleep. Many times I could not go to sleep unless I was wearing the collar and then about 2 hours later I would wake up with the collar bugging me so I take the collar off. Almost every night at some point I would wake up in so much pain in my chest area I could not move anything from the neck down. Finally, my oncologist agreed to have it taken out. On the day it was taken out, I think at least 5 people who work at the hospital spoke to me one at a time trying to talk me into keeping the port in. I couldn't believe it when it finally come out. The rude way I was treated even on the day of removal made me feel that things were not resolved. And I can now see why. I am a "hard stick" and they want me to take 10 years of estrogen lowering meds. Here I am more than 8 months after having my last chemo treatment and I am going to have to agree to put a port back in or I guess I am going to have to stop going for any type of cancer care because nobody should have to waste their time looking for a vein. I am at a point where somebody only needs to look for a vein once a month for a blood test. a blood test. I have heard of people keeping their ports in for years but I never heard of this being done for blood testing. I was told I might want to try a PICC line. All I know is if I have to have something surgically put in my body for a once a month blood draw, I have to go change hospitals because I sure don't trust this hospital to listen to my concerns if I am in pain. I now have to waste my time changing hospitals and I don't even know if that will do any good. Are there any nice cancer doctors? I also had a radiation and breast surgery complication that was also handled in a rude way but my story is already too long.