ssc, hpv in tonsils on both sides and eblarged lymph node

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  • JohnVon
    JohnVon Member Posts: 25 Member

    Steven. We are on the exact path. I’m just starting my 4th week. When did your doctor say you’ll been a feeding tube? I’m hoping to avoid that. I had one after my three surgeries and lost 25 lbs.

  • steven59
    steven59 Member Posts: 102 Member

    The nurse that proceeds the Dr on friday wants me to keep an open mind regarding a feeding tube, but I'm working hard on the therapy and eating enough to keep the weight on. A friend got a feeding tube, he was getting chemo and radiation so he couldn't eat, still went from 150 to 115 lbs. Magic mouthwash 30 minutes b4 eating. I lay on my back so I can let it reach the back of my throat, puree everything on hyper sensitive days and add protein to smoothies. The cancer center here is proactive and I have a health coach, oral therapy and lymphedema coaches teaching me exercises that help me get thru this.

    25 IMRTw/IGRT and 5 proton for a total of 60 yg, it'll be 7 weeks because I had 3-4 day weeks due to holidays and scheduling.

  • MarieO
    MarieO Member Posts: 41 Member

    Thank you Steven.

    My husband is encouraged to not have to use feeding tube. And I’ll be helping him with that. I’m trying to put weight on him as well.

    Good thoughts sent your way.

    Marie

  • br549329
    br549329 Member Posts: 9 Member

    Marie, This Scott. I started Radiation and Chemo Last January and finished my 35 rounds and 3 rounds Chemo March 16. I was thinking like you I would put on some extra weight before hand. My normal weight was around 215 I got up to 240. Thinking I would be good. I hand magic swish rinsed every few hours with baking soda and salt. but at some point it just got to where I could not eat or drink anymore. One weekend I lost 10 pounds. The next week I got a peg tube installed to my stomach and it help Tremendously. I lost down to 175 but after the tube was able to maintain weight around 185 until it was removed. I like my eight of 192 now so that is what I am maintaining.

    I also have a good fried that just finished treatment 6 weeks ago and he thanks me for telling him tho get the tube early don’t wait.

  • MarieO
    MarieO Member Posts: 41 Member

    Hi Scott

    Thank you for sharing. So was it the last couple of weeks that were the worst? How long did the side effects last after treatment was completed for you?

    We will find out this Friday if he will have Chemo. If he does, The port and peg tube will be done at the same time.

    Thank you so much

    Marie

  • br549329
    br549329 Member Posts: 9 Member

    It was definitely the last couple of weeks. I still had side effects 10 to 12 weeks after. It was probably 14 weeks after that I got the tube removed. Just because you have a peg tube does not mean you can’t eat by mouth.

  • MarieO
    MarieO Member Posts: 41 Member

    Thank you again. I know everyone’s journey is different, but all this information is so extremely helpful.

    Marie

  • wbcgaruss
    wbcgaruss Member Posts: 2,465 Member

    Marie, br549329 is correct just because you have a feeding tube does not mean you can't eat. The tube is there in case you can't. Or say you can eat but the swallowing is so difficult and the pain so bad it is plain drudgery. Then the feeding tube is your friend and lifesaver.

    I would also like to add that you should have a speech therapist assigned to you who helps with all things H&N such as swallowing, breathing, etc., and helps with any problems during and after treatment. They may even give you a swallowing test at some point.

    One more thing, the speech therapist should give you swallowing exercises to do because if you use the feeding tube and are not eating for a period of time thus not swallowing they say you can forget how to swallow and will have to relearn it again. I know it sounds odd but that is what my speech therapist told me and it can happen so I did my swallowing exercises as instructed and did not miss at all because I did not want to have to relearn swallowing. I just wanted you to be aware of this.

    Take care, God Bless-Russ


  • MarieO
    MarieO Member Posts: 41 Member

    Russ

    Thank you for all the great info. At the initial consult with the ENT he said that about swallowing and chewing.

    We have faith with these doctors to guide us through it all. But once again, hearing from this group is such a great support. It brings up questions that we want to ask.

    Huge thanks

    Marie

    I love the Courage quote.

  • wbcgaruss
    wbcgaruss Member Posts: 2,465 Member

    Thank you Marie, this treatment is tough but doable and Your husband will triumph. Especially with a devoted supporter like you.

    Take care, God Bless-Russ



  • MarieO
    MarieO Member Posts: 41 Member

    Hi all,

    Just checking in to see how everyone is doing. You’ve all been so informative and supportive…you’ve been on my mind. My husband is getting closer to starting his treatments. Just getting organized and prepared as much as I can for him.

    Sending good thoughts and prayers to all of you.

    Take care

    Marie

  • JohnVon
    JohnVon Member Posts: 25 Member

    Hi Marie. Thanks for checking in. Best of luck to your husband starting his treatments. I’m sure he will do great.

    I’m heading into week 5 of treatments and I’m feeling okay minus the expected side effects. The loss of my taste buds has just started and honestly that’s the hardest part for me. I wasn’t really prepared for losing all sense of taste. I’ll keep you posted with any upcoming week 5,6 and 7 challenges. It always helped me to hear from other patients and know what to expect. Healing thoughts to your husband and you.

  • MarieO
    MarieO Member Posts: 41 Member

    Thank you.

    Are you having chemo treatment as well?I didn’t think so.

    Wishing you comfort on the upcoming weeks.

  • wbcgaruss
    wbcgaruss Member Posts: 2,465 Member

    Hello Marie glad to hear from you and glad your preparations are progressing well and are probably as ready as you folks are ever going to be. keep us updated and we can possibly answer questions and help along the way.

    Wishing You the Best

    Take Care God Bless-Russ




  • wbcgaruss
    wbcgaruss Member Posts: 2,465 Member
    edited January 2023 #57

    John Wishing You the Best as you get into the latter weeks of treatment and recovery after that. It can be a very challenging time period.

    Take Care God Bless-Russ

  • steven59
    steven59 Member Posts: 102 Member

    I've had 3 short weeks out of 4 so I'm starting week 5 monday with just 17 treatments down. If my cancar had been on only 1 side I could have gotten proton treatment which from what I read has less side effects. I lost 5 lbs last week and the Dr didn't care it was padding I put on for radiation he said now isn't the time to be losing weight. Looking forward to being on the other side.

  • MarieO
    MarieO Member Posts: 41 Member

    Good thoughts sent your way. Yes we haven’t even started and I keep thinking about that other side.

    There hasn’t been conversation about the type of treatment. I’ll be asking.

    Take care Steven

  • steven59
    steven59 Member Posts: 102 Member
    edited January 2023 #61

    20 rads down, 5 more at the photon/cancer center then my last 5 will be proton treatments focusing on the left side where the lymph node tested positive for cancer. I've been taking pain meds for nearly 2 weeks abd it really helps me do my therapy. I'm eating well, but still losing weight because the sores in my mouth are sensitive to sugar. Dr isn't happy about the weight loss but i'm still overweight for where I like to be so as long as I can keep eating I'm going to. Exercise is great therapy and just doing 20 minutes of cardio can make a huge difference in my attitude and energy.