New, prostate cancer wife

Sorry new to this site. My husband had been diagnosed with prostate cancer and elected to have it removed 5 years ago now. Thank god he has had clear test’s since. ED has been the issue for years for him, but recently Cialis has had worked pretty well. It took many years for it to start working, but now it does. Problem is my sexual desire has sort of left, over the years and it is painful. My gynecologist has prescribed Imvexxy inserts, which works somewhat, but doesn’t seem to be the solution. I can’t seem to get it back. We have tried a few times but no success yet. We are desperately looking for advice from other wives on what you may be doing to reinvigorate your sex lives. Would love advise or ideas. Thanks in advance.