My husband is gone

Ruthmomto4
Ruthmomto4 Member Posts: 708 Member
edited July 2021 in Colorectal Cancer #1

 

he left this world fighting still at 6 am this morning after fighting this for 11 years. We are all relieved he is out of pain and discomfort now, but we miss him so much. We are not whole without him and never will be again. Thank you all so much for all of your support and kindness all these years, I am so deeply grateful!
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  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,804 Member
    #2
    Dear friend

    I am so very sorry to hear that your husband has passed away.  no amount of 'preparing' helps the hurt. 

    Please know that you are in my thoughts. 

    Tru

  • abita
    abita Member Posts: 1,152 Member
    #3
    I am so very sorry for your

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know everyone is here for you.

  • myAZmountain
    myAZmountain Member Posts: 417 Member
    edited July 2021 #4
    Heartbroken for you

    So very sorry for the loss of your dear , brave husband. He fought so hard for so long. May he be at peace now.

  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties Member Posts: 3,364 Member
    edited July 2021 #5
    My sympathies

    I so well understand the conflict of being glad he is no longer in pain and missing his presence.

    May the memories of better times ease your loss.

    Hugs

    Marie who loves kitties

  • abrub
    abrub Member Posts: 2,174 Member
    #6
    May his memory be for

    May his memory be for blessing

  • worriedson714
    worriedson714 Member Posts: 333 Member
    #7
    so sorry to hear this

    Your husband was a brave fighter prayers to you and the rest of your family in this tough time 

  • SandiaBuddy
    SandiaBuddy Member Posts: 1,381 Member
    edited July 2021 #8
    Sympathies

    My deepest sympathies at this very tough time.

  • Canadian Sandy
    Canadian Sandy Member Posts: 784 Member
    edited July 2021 #9
    I'm so sorry for your loss

    I'm so sorry for your loss Ruthmomto4. It's very hard to cope when we lose someone we deeply care for. Keep the faith and know that we are here for you.

  • DanNH
    DanNH Member Posts: 186 Member
    edited July 2021 #10
    The only solice I can offer

    The only solice I can offer is that we are spiritual beings having a human experience. You will be with him again. My fear is that I will live the solice I give you now...

    Dan

  • AnneO1965
    AnneO1965 Member Posts: 182 Member
    #11
    I'm so sorry

    I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. I know how rough it is to lose your spouse even when you know it's coming. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know that the loss never goes away but it does get easier to bear.

  • Tueffel
    Tueffel Member Posts: 327 Member
    #12
    I am so sorry

    I am so sorry for your loss! I will send prayers to you and your family. We are here for you

  • beaumontdave
    beaumontdave Member Posts: 1,289 Member
    edited July 2021 #13
    Such a hard time, I'm so

    Such a hard time, I'm so sorry Ruth, though him beng out of all that fear and pain has to offer some peace to you. Now you and the family are left with the pain and shattered hopes. I wish you all some kind of healing and the ability to find solace in his memories, as I remember Cindy in mine.................................................Dave

  • PamRav
    PamRav Member Posts: 348 Member
    edited July 2021 #14
    Sympathies

    I am so sorry to read of your husbands passing.  May your love continue to give you strength during this painful time. 
    take good care of youreslf. 
    pam 

  • sgold88
    sgold88 Member Posts: 85 Member
    #15
    So sorry for your loss

    May his memory be a blessing 

  • Twinzma
    Twinzma Member Posts: 236 Member
    #16
    So Sorry!

    Ruth, I am so sorry for your loss. No matter how much we prepared, we really couldn't understand the toll the loss would be. I am sorry that you find yourself on this side now. I have joined the Sisterhood of Widows on FB and it's helpful to have others to talk to. You are in my thoughts and my prayers!!!!

     

  • MandiePandie
    MandiePandie Member Posts: 109 Member
    edited July 2021 #17
    I’m sorry

    I'm so sorry this happened. I know you both went through such a hard experience. I'm wishing you peace. 

  • LindaK.
    LindaK. Member Posts: 506 Member
    #18
    Sending you strength

    Oh Ruth, I'm so sad to read your post.  It's s very hard time for you and your family.  Lean on family and friends at this time for guideance and strength.  Tears are healing so let them flow.  

    Linda

  • SnapDragon2
    SnapDragon2 Member Posts: 720 Member
    edited July 2021 #19
    When I think of this update

    When I think of this update on your husband I think for you "Eternity will always be in the heart."  You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  • Kazenmax
    Kazenmax Member Posts: 463 Member
    #20
    I'm so sorry. You both worked

    I'm so sorry. You both worked so hard to fight this disease. Sending you and your family love and strength.

    K

  • ellend
    ellend Member Posts: 109 Member
    edited July 2021 #21
    My deepest condolences

    I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. Blessings to you and your family.

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