Anyone heard from Marosa?

sandy23
sandy23 Member Posts: 143 Member

Just curious how her husband is doing.  I haven't seen her post in a while.

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  • marosa
    marosa Member Posts: 334 Member
    Hi! Im here, thanks for asking and sorry to be away

    Thanj you Sandy23 and tahnk you Iceman for sending the message.  Sorry to not ckeck in once in awhile but I have been overwhelmed living thru this again and my husband and I are trying to deal with the present situation by having the closest to a normal life as possible.  he does not feel like joining any group or reading about cancer or even learning anything other than what him and his doctor talk and decide.  So we do it his way and in the process.  It has also been difficult for me to come back often after Fox passed away, its been a little too much and I guess the time out has been needed.  I joined Smart Patients to learn more about my husband's treatment but do not post and don't visit much.

    I just had my check-up and everything looks fine, September 30th will be my 5th year anniversary.  I've been lucky, so far so good.  As for my husband, he has mets in both lungs and and is taking Sutent, he is in his 2nd month treatment and doing pretty good even if the adverse effects are not always easy to handle.  As far as knowing if the treatment is working, we will have to wait for his scan on the 1st week of September.  He is amazing, never complains and is very optimistic and lives and enjoys life as if nothing was wrong.  I was not like that but Im learning with him that worriyng does not help and only robs you of the present time.

    We are vacationing thanks to very generous friends in the beautiful island of Sardinia in italy, living day to day and enjoying life as much as we possibly can.

    I hope and wish everyone is doing well but I know for some it is not so.  I wish them strenght and hope and peace and to be getting a lot of love from their loved ones.

    Im not using computer or being on line much but I'll be back eventually when back in the city.  I can be away but will always come back from time to time.  I got a lot of love, caring and information here and that I will never forget.

    To all, be well

  • Allochka
    Allochka Member Posts: 1,072 Member
    Marosa, so nice of you to

    Marosa, so nice of you to share this update.

    Great to hear you're NED. Your husband is really amazing! Wish him lots of strength and continuing optimism.

    Sometimes I think it is even harder when the one you love is ill, harder than being sick ill. Hugs to you!

  • APny
    APny Member Posts: 1,995 Member
    edited July 2019 #4
    Happy for your NED results

    Happy for your NED results and wishing you and your husband the very best. I love his attitude; he sounds like an amazing man. 

  • Jan4you
    Jan4you Member Posts: 1,330 Member
    Always good to hear from oyou

    Always good to hear from oyou Marosa! Hope you are not reading this presently but having a wonderful, meaningful time on that island.

    Sorry to hear about your husband's struggles, yours too. 

    We're always here for you, anytime, anyplace.

    It is okay to email me to IF you choose to, I mean.

    You do things YOUR way, hubby too!

    But I will send you healing hugs filled with 

    HOPE, COURAGE and CARE!

    Jan

  • Apaugh
    Apaugh Member Posts: 850 Member
    be kind to yourself..

    Marosa, 

    good news on your NED.  Thanks for sharing that.   Wonderful you are enjoying an Island.  That is like wow!   

    I will keep you and your husband in my prayers for easy outcomes, healing, and continued good good days.

    Hugs,

    Annie

  • marosa
    marosa Member Posts: 334 Member
    Thank you so much!

    We are now back from vacations and waiting patiently for my husband's scan on Septermber 2nd and wishing for the best.  I will be back with news.  Sending loving and healing thoughts to all.

  • Wehavenotimeatall
    Wehavenotimeatall Member Posts: 488 Member
    Love

    and hugs sexy girl

     

    and prayers especially for hubby

     

    Annie