Second opinion

Hello everyone, have not been on for a couple of weeks as we have been getting second opinions from diffrent oncologist, and surgeons.  My wife who is 44 has been diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer with Mets to the liver, adrenal and bone (hip and spine).  She has been at Slaon Kettering for nearly a year doing chemo every other week, and taking home a bottle for 48 hours.  She has had roughly 30 sessions of chemo and she has handled it well.  She is still going to work and really has had no bad side effects.  We were told about a month ago her cancer is incurable and she is not a candidate for surgery.  My second opinion has lead me to a doctor out of Lenox Hill hospital that has outstanding reviews, and does a lot of surgery in Greece and France, as well as the US. He look at her latest CT scan and said he does not know why she is not a candidate for surgery.  He told us that we need to be aggressive with her liver because it seems that it is aggressive.  His plan is to do a liver resectemy oh her left side, get a big chunk of the liver and send it to a lab in a California called the Weisenthal Cancer  lab.  That lab takes the cancer and checks which chemo drug is most effective against the tumors. When the results come back he wants to directly infuse the liver with this chemo. If in 3 months the left side does not grow back and the right side continues to shrink he said he would do surgery on the right side, and while  doing the liver he would take the colon and adrenal tumors out.  He said he is not to worried about the colon right now because she does not have obstruction of her bowel movements.  He then said the bone can be done later using radiation and chemo, but implored us that the liver has to be taken care of imediately. I am a little nervous because Sloan said one thing and this doctor is saying another.  Has anyone had the same experience, or has heard of anyone who has gone through this please let me know

Kevin