I meet my Oncologist tomorrow

Hi,

Its been over 7 years since I was first in your shoes but still remember feeling like my head was in a fog for the first week or two. Once I had all the initial meetings, tests, etc. done and a treatment plan in place that fog seemed to lift. I was unaware of this site at the time but sure wish I had had this place to gain some support and advice in those early days.

As I'm sure you have read, this cancer/treatment is no day at the beach for sure, but it IS doable as we are all here to attest to that! Also, as compared to many other cancers the course of treatment is considered short.

If possible, take someone along with you to your doctor because a second set of ears is handy until that fog clears. (Though I rarely did this myself) I did though usually have some questions written down ahead of time because I knew I'd forget once I got there and also occasionally took a note or two when talking with my doctor. Try to make sure you are understanding what he/she is talking about as some doctors just assume we know medical terms and its easy to get lost...do not hesitate to ask as many questions as you need. The more I understood, the less anxious I became, and once actively being treated, the fear for me really did subside. (Maybe it was because it gave way to a sore bottom, who knows) but with each appointment you are one day closer to the end of this thing and soon you will be the one offering tips to others.

Please let us know how it goes tomorrow and I will have you in my thoughts and prayers for some rest for your nerves.

katheryn

Ten years ago at this very time, early June, I was exactly where you're at.  Knowing something wasn't right and waiting to see a colorectal surgeon for the very first time, after being told by my internist (at the time) that I had a bleeding hemorrhoid.  I saw the CR doctor on June 18th. and she told me she was 99% sure I had an anal tumor, which was causing my bleeding.  She told me it was urgent that I have a colonoscopy ASAP, which I had 2 days later.  The rest is history.  Yes, I was in total shock.  What you are feeling right now is normal, given the situation.  It took 6 weeks for me to get started with treatment after my diagnosis, which was confirmed by biopsy, which was taken during the colonoscopy.  That was the longest 6 weeks of my life.  I hope your wait to begin treatment won't be that long.  I found that once I began treatment, I could breathe again because I was finally doing something to go after the tumor.

Please let us know what your treatment plan will be and when you'll get started.  You will get lots of support here--just speak up and let us know what you need.  I wish you all the best as you head into treatment.  You can do this!

Brendaklein said:

anal cancer

Thank you very much. I'm 5 feet and 120 pounds. I hope and pray my body and handle the treatments

I've found that it is truly amazing what our bodies can withstand! We are wired to survive and can overcome a great deal. Hang on...you can do this too!!

katheryn