NED 6 months - New Member
Hi! While I am a new member now, I have been reading the posts in this forum for 8 months. And all of your tips really helped me get through it. On June 9th 2017 I awoke from a colonoscopy (thought I had a hemroid) and was advised that I had a large anal tumor. I was handed contrast to drink and was immediately escorted downstairs for a CT scan to see if there were more. Fortunately my husband was with me and I recall us both sitting there totally in shock, waiting and watching a very pregnant woman pacing the hallway to encourage her baby to arrive. I will always remember that moment in time and how odd it felt to be afraid for myself, yet marveling that a new person was entering this world. Fast forward to today and I am grateful to have weathered the past 6 months and am thankful to be in Seattle where I have access to excellent cancer care. I gathered so much practical information from this site during my treatment and continued recovery that I just wanted to say thank you. While you were all helping others cope, you were also helping me. I was diagnosed with Anal/Rectal cancer and it was a large T4 stage 3 squamouse cell carcinoma so it was in lymph nodes but had not matastisized. In July-August I completed the standard grueling treatment of 5 1/2 weeks of high dose radiation and daily 5FU plus 2 Mytomyacin infusions. After the burns healed I started both regular and pelvic floor physical therapy which I highly recommend. I have a solid group of supportive friends and family and I returned to work full time in late November. For the first few months I kept up with both working and physical therapy, then about mid February I stopped doing PT because I was fatigued after working all day. While I continue to get stronger each day, I am determined to get back to my PT since I feel that I hit a slump and I think the therapy was also helping me emotionally. I realize that people think that because I am cancer free that I am fine now. When really our journey continues. I am still adjusting my expectations regarding the lingering side effects of the cancer, the chemo and the radiation. I feel pretty good, but I know I will continue to feel even better over the coming months. Celebrating 6 months NED!
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HoneyD54
Welcome and congratulations on getting through treatment and being 6 months NED! It sounds like you are doing quite well--I'm so glad to hear that. It does take time for things to return to normal, albeit a new normal in some ways. You have a very positive attitude, mixed with a sense of reality, so you will do very well as you continue on the road to recovery. Take good care and please keep us posted on how things are going. I wish you all the best!
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Mp327mp327 said:HoneyD54
Welcome and congratulations on getting through treatment and being 6 months NED! It sounds like you are doing quite well--I'm so glad to hear that. It does take time for things to return to normal, albeit a new normal in some ways. You have a very positive attitude, mixed with a sense of reality, so you will do very well as you continue on the road to recovery. Take good care and please keep us posted on how things are going. I wish you all the best!
Thank you. It's good to talk to people that understand the new normal. Best to you also.
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Congrats on your 6 months NED
Congrats on your 6 months NED, HoneyD54! You must have been thrilled to get that news. I long for such news myself. Not sure if it will be possible. But I keep the faith. What else can we do? Was diagnosed in March this year. Have not yet started chemo-radiation. My odds don't seem particularly good, partly because I also have CLL (Chronic Lymphocytic Leukemia), which wreaks some havoc with my immune system and can cause low neutrophils. Could affect my ability to do full chemo.
I would be interested in what the 'new normal' is for you, HoneyD, if you don't mind saying. Are you able to walk distances and sit without discomfort? Bowel continence okay? I think it's great that you got going on regular and pelvic floor PT as soon as you were able. That would probably make quite a difference to recovery.
all the best to you!
kim
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Hi kimKim Gaia said:Congrats on your 6 months NED
Congrats on your 6 months NED, HoneyD54! You must have been thrilled to get that news. I long for such news myself. Not sure if it will be possible. But I keep the faith. What else can we do? Was diagnosed in March this year. Have not yet started chemo-radiation. My odds don't seem particularly good, partly because I also have CLL (Chronic Lymphocytic Leukemia), which wreaks some havoc with my immune system and can cause low neutrophils. Could affect my ability to do full chemo.
I would be interested in what the 'new normal' is for you, HoneyD, if you don't mind saying. Are you able to walk distances and sit without discomfort? Bowel continence okay? I think it's great that you got going on regular and pelvic floor PT as soon as you were able. That would probably make quite a difference to recovery.
all the best to you!
kim
it must be difficult to have CLL and now have to deal anal cancer. I am sorry you have to go through this but it worked for me and I hope it will for you too. Here is the new normal for me now at 9 months post treatment (6 months NED). Yes I can walk distances, I recently went on an easy (mostly flat) 3 mile hike. i can walk up hills and stairs but I am slower and have to take a quick rest after 3-4 flights of stair. I haven't been running or biking yet. i have swam a few times and that has felt good. Gentle easy yoga has been best for me because of the stiffness In my hip flexors and hamstrings. I have some pain in my left hip that I notice getting in the car and putting on shoes. The muscle/tissue under my sit bone R side where the tumor was, gets tender and slightly inflamed when I sit on the small hard plastic chairs at work (i work in an elementary school). So I sit on a small pillow or therapy ball whenever possible. I have a square gel cushion that I have used since I was diagnosed and I still use it at home and in the car. I even brought it into restaurants with hard seating. I love that cushion!.
my bowel funcations have greatly improved over the past few month. Initially I stayed close to home, had to run to the bathroom if I felt any gas and sometimes a fart would leak a small amount of feces with mucous. Currently I rarely take Imodium and my BM are still snake like but mostly firm. I go less frequently and haven't had any leakage but I still get diarrhea occasionally so I always know where the batbrooms are locate. I'm trying to figure out my diet as it relates to my BMs and I carry Imodium and spare under ware with me. Some trigger foods for me are milk, beans and some raw vegetable. Oh and beer is out now too but I have been able to enjoy some wine again. My digestive trac is louder than it used to be and my husband says I sound like a creaky door. I have seen some blood in my stool but it is not much and is from radiation proctosis which my RAD oncologist said typically occurs 8-18 months post treatment and goes away. I have some vaginal stenosis and am using a dialator. I hope that info helps. Best to you through your. treatment and recovery.
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HoneyD54
Tomorrow will be my 6 week post appointment for anal cancer I wish I would have found this site but better now than never! Thank you for the information. I still take miralax & a stool softner every night to keep my bm's soft, im still very tired, I spend many days in my home, I haven't explored the vaginal stenosis pretty nervous! These blogs are a great reference. This is my first time on here i hope im doing this right?
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Nana442
Welcome to this discussion group. I'm sorry you didn't find it prior to your treatment, but am glad you're here now. I hope you find some good information here as you recover from treatment. I wish you all the best with your appointment today and hope all the news is good! Take care.
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Hooray!
Glad to hear it.
.^_^.
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